#love #relationships #randomthoughts #fallinginlove #knowingeachother
💭 Have you ever wondered why people seem to fall in love so easily when they don’t really know each other well, but then fall out of love just as quickly once they start to know each other on a deeper level? It’s a common phenomenon that many of us have experienced or observed, and it can leave us feeling confused and lost in a sea of emotions.
🔍 Let’s delve into some random thoughts and musings on this topic to gain a better understanding of why this happens and how we can navigate the complexities of relationships.
## When Mystery Turns into Reality 💑
🔮 When we first meet someone, there is an element of mystery and excitement that sparks a sense of intrigue and attraction. We are drawn to the unknown and the possibilities that the other person represents. We project our hopes and desires onto them, creating an idealized version of who we think they are.
🔎 As we get to know the person more intimately, we start to see their flaws and imperfections. The rose-tinted glasses come off, and the reality of who they truly are sets in. This can be a jarring experience, as it shatters the illusion we had created in our minds.
## The Role of Communication 🗣️
📱 Effective communication is key in any relationship, but it can also be the downfall of a budding romance. As we start to open up and share more about ourselves, we may uncover differences or conflicts that we hadn’t anticipated. Misunderstandings can arise, leading to hurt feelings and a sense of disconnect.
💌 It’s important to communicate openly and honestly with your partner, even when things get tough. Being vulnerable and willing to work through challenges together can strengthen the bond between you and build a foundation of trust and understanding.
## Managing Expectations and Realities 🎭
💔 One of the biggest pitfalls in relationships is the misalignment between expectations and realities. When we fall in love with the idea of someone rather than the actual person, we set ourselves up for disappointment and heartbreak.
🤔 It’s important to take a step back and reassess what you truly want and need in a partner. Are you seeking someone who fits a certain mold, or are you open to embracing the complexities and imperfections of another human being?
## Embracing Change and Growth 🌱
🌟 Love is a journey of growth and evolution, both individually and as a couple. As we navigate the ups and downs of a relationship, we learn more about ourselves and our partner. It’s a process of self-discovery and self-improvement that requires patience, compassion, and resilience.
💖 Remember that love is not a static state but a dynamic force that ebbs and flows with time. Embrace the changes and challenges that come your way, and approach them with an open heart and an open mind.
👫 In conclusion, falling in love when you don’t know each other may be the easy part, but staying in love when you do know each other takes effort, commitment, and a willingness to grow together. Let’s cherish the moments of discovery and connection, and face the unknown together with courage and love. #randomthoughts #lovequotes #relationshipadvice
This should not surprise people. Everything looks better far away.
You could even argue that it’s better that way. Had this experience before with an assistant manager. It was great for what it was, even for a short time, because it was completely friendly and innocent. Her coworker friends would joke about it and it was just funny and light hearted. But the electricity was real, for me at least.
People fall out of love because they grow and change and evolve in different directions. Sometimes in opposite directions.
Mrs. 1LW and I are each very different people than we were the day we met (Sept. 25, 1986). But we’re still pretty much on the same page, in most respects. It’s been a shared journey, every step.
Who falls in love with someone they don’t know?
I definitely feel this.
Sapolsky has a really good lecture on why this is. It’s not a shower thought. It’s proven with data.
What do you mean by this? Love evolves and changes.
But 10 years later I still love my partner the same as when I met her. In fact I’d argue I love her more….that’s how relationships should work.
Not totally true. Married 10 years and still walk totally in love with my wife.
That’s why I never really wanna meet anybody.
Haha dammit you’re right. 😭
Curiosity killed the cat I guess, but does satisfaction bring it back?
Haha dammit you’re right. 😭
Or perhaps people fall in love with the perception of people they do not know then go on to hate the [perceived] reality of the same person once knowing more about them
I started catching feelings for someone I hooked up with the night we met, spent a few weeks together having a blast, and just could not get her off my mind. Unfortunately, the feelings weren’t mutual
My search for the opposite may never end it seems
People fall in love with their impressions of what the other person is before you truly know them.
You’re looking for person A. You meet person Æ, they’re similar, and your brain picks and chose the parts it likes to make person Æ look exactly like person A you want.
But then after you get to know Æ you find out they’re actually Ê, and well Êis just too far across the bowl of alphabet noodles soup for your liking, and you don’t have a long enough spoon. Plus he’s always wearing that weird hat…..
So don’t let them truly know you?