How can you successfully overpower a stronger partner in their sexual fantasy scenario, especially if they are built like a bodybuilder? What strategies should you consider if physical strength is not on your side?
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Strategies to Overpower a Stronger Partner:
1. Use creative tactics: Rather than relying on sheer physical force, explore other ways to assert control in the situation.
2. Communication is key: Talk openly with your partner about their boundaries and preferences before attempting to overpower them.
3. Consider role-play: Experiment with different scenarios and personas to bring your partner’s fantasy to life while finding a dynamic that works for both of you.
4. Focus on using leverage: Utilize your body weight and positioning to gain advantage, even if your partner is physically stronger.
5. Practice consent: Always prioritize clear communication and mutual agreement to ensure a safe and consensual experience.
Conclusion:
By approaching your partner’s fantasy with creativity, communication, and a focus on consent, you can navigate power dynamics in a way that is mutually enjoyable and fulfilling. Remember to prioritize respect and understanding for a positive and engaging experience.
If they are physically stronger probably by inflicting maximum amounts of pain. Not sure if thats gonna be nice tho.
Otherwise bind him with handcuffs so he can’t do anything and is weaker?
Kick him in the dick.
Handcuff him while he is sleeping (with consent)
Maybe tie his balls so you can squeeze them, if he is about to gain the upper hand.
Learn judo, so you can offset your lack of strength with proper technique.
Find him a man bigger than him and let them have at it.
Ligament locks. No matter how strong he is, it will be very hard to escape an armbar and a proper headlock.
With the strength difference you describe I think you overpowering him will always involve some amount of roleplay.
As far as things you could do, joints are usually good weak points. Unless someone is braced for it a strike to the back of the knee will usually buckle that leg. Targeting the inside of the elbow might help break his grip. Just keep in mind that it’s completely possible to cause very real damage even if he is a lot bigger than you, so figuring out how to do it without actually hurting him is important.
However… I suspect that feeling weak/helpless is at least a good part of his fantasy, and you could potentially achieve that in other ways.
Once again, it would have to involve a certain amount of roleplay, but “blackmailing” him so that he “has” to do whatever you say might be a scenario you could try. Getting some sort of prop/toy weapon involved might work too. Maybe he’d enjoy you riding him at “gunpoint” or something similar. Be careful with taking this too far though, as knifeplay is not for amateurs, and using a real gun for any kind of play is a recipe for disaster.
The most important thing to remember is that consent and communication need to be involved at every step of the process. If he becomes uncomfortable with how far you take something, stop. On the other hand, if you’re not fully on board there’s no obligation for you to do something you don’t want to just so he can get his rocks off.
Use a lever.
Honestly it’s probably more a roleplay/domination thing you need, he wants to feel helpless. Grab him by the balls and tell him unless he does whatever you say he’s getting crushed. Or use a prop like an airsoft pistol.
Unless you’re a trained MMA fighter you’re not going to physically overpower him.
Taser
Best way is to simply get stronger. You’ll likely never actually be stronger than him but you’ll be stronger than you are now. Understanding physics and biomechanics helps to if you’re trying to do something like pick him up and throw him
Get and even bigger body builder to help you out
Girl tie him up
Sit on his face
Emotionally. Tell him his calves are small or his father isn’t proud of him or something.
Life and death situation kick in the balls should do.
You don’t need to be physically bigger or stronger. You need to use your words, be forceful and he’ll submit.
They make many different kinds of restraints for in bed.
Get some heavy duty rope and handcuffs, see if he will let you tie him. It sounds like you aren’t in a place to physically overpower him, but restraining him to the point he cannot move during the act might be a sufficient substitute.
Force multiplier be it a stick a bat and the list goes on.
Kick him in the nuts
This might be graphic. He is a bodybuilder, you’re not going to overpower him physically that way. You can do things like edging him during oral, that will put you in control physically. Also telling him what to do, to you or himself
Have fun!
Grab him by the balls with a firm grip
**Option 1:**
Start wearing a lot of baggy cloth, all the time. When you go to bed, make sure the lights are off. During sex? You guessed it – lights off. In short, he can never see your body.
You begin to eat only broccoli, chicken and rice every day all day. You tell him it’s because your stomach agrees more with this food. In addition, you start hitting the gym five days a week – all in secret, of course.
You keep this up for around 5-8 years. By now you will be an *actual* bodybuilder.
Proceed to overpower him with your newfound strength and have amazing sex.
**Option 2:**
Buy some handcuffs.
Poke him in the eyes.
Learn Aikido.
try practicing aikido
You’d have to use joint locks, like Brazilian Jiu Jitsu teaches.
Bjj
Can we get some clarification on what “overpowering” means to him? Because if you’re smaller, the only real way to do it is to get mean, really, really mean, and actually hurt him. If it’s a sexual fantasy, a full force blow to the groin like a lot of people are suggesting is probably going to be a big turn-off. It would be for me, at least.
Ask him about his father. Destroy him emotionally and then when he is weak punch his jaw. No need to thank me.
Testicular torsion
Physics
Stuff like grabs and holds will work on anyone no matter how strong if you know how to do them properly
Tie him up/handcuffs or bar. Can add blindfold for additional fun.
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take jiu jutsu class
“Grab His dick and twist it”
Learn ju-jutsu
Gun..bigger gys are usually allergic to bullets…
Crazy responses here! The real answer would being quick and flexible. Plenty of real fights are won by the quick flexible person. Dodging the bigger person and not getting caught and subduing the bigger person.
If you really want to learn you can watch Youtube or actually go to whatever self defense classes in your area.
Then there’s little things like pain points, bending a thumb back (which doesn’t seem like it’d be great in this scenario unless you are really careful). Obviously you don’t want to hurt his man bits like other people have said, cause that’s just mean in a relationship unless he’s got a kink for it.
Really talk to him about it, what he envisions it as and if you’re willing have at it.
Oh and laying your body on a bigger person is never gonna work. You need to use your leverage to control him, like legs over his arms/chest or something (obviously I don’t know your scenario but laying on him is never going to work).
I don’t think he means physical strength. I think he means handcuff and whip.
Become stronger yourself and practice grappling (wrestling, jiu jitsu, judo) to learn how to use leverage to dominate him.
It’ll take time. He’ll not be satisfied as soon but it does work if you manage to learn proper technique.
I was about to write “stab his eyes with keys or fingers and punch the throat” until I read it’s a fantasy xD
Use pulleys
Since you don’t have the physical strength to overpower him, it looks like you’re going to need to enter the world of bondage!
I see a lot of people saying “handcuffs,” but there are oh so many more options than just that. Personally, I’m a big fan of bondage tape. It comes in a roll like regular tape, but it isn’t sticky. It does stick to itself though. So you can wrap that around a person’s wrists and ankles, and they won’t be able to free themselves. Then, when the fun is done, you just put it back on the roll and they don’t lose any hair while pulling it off.
Many, MANY more restraint options. Just check out any adult toy website, and see what interests you. Also, talk to him about it. See if he just wants to be restrained, or something more.
ALSO, very important, DO NOT do anything that you aren’t comfortable with doing. Communication and consent are key. So if you don’t want to do something, don’t do it.
This is my best advice to every woman on this motherfkn planet, if you’re ever in a situation where you’re clearly overpowered by another man, stick out your pointer finger and poke him DIRECTLY in the eye and go as deep as you possibly can. Bonus points if your stick your finger so far that your finger goes through the skull and out the other side. The pain will be so immense and you have instantaneously won the battle