#SexWork #LibidoDebate #GenderMyths
Hey there! So, here’s the thing – I’ve always been curious about the age-old debate: do women truly enjoy sex as much as men do? I mean, there are studies out there that suggest women might actually have a similar desire for some fun between the sheets, but societal norms might be holding them back from being as open about it.
As I was pondering this, I couldn’t help but wonder about the world of prostitution. I mean, think about it – these women have to push past any initial fears in order to make a living, but once they’re in the moment, do they actually enjoy the experience? Especially when it’s with a young man or a hot older gent? 🤔
I bet there are some unique insights and stories to uncover here. So, what do you think? Let’s delve deeper into this intriguing topic together and see what we can learn. Do prostitutes really find pleasure in the act, or is it just another job for them? Cast your vote below and let’s get to the bottom of this spicy debate! 💃👴🏻🔥
#PollTime: Do prostitutes enjoy sex with young male clients (or hot older men)?
1. Yes, they find pleasure in it
2. No, it’s just work for them
3. It depends on the individual
Can’t wait to hear your thoughts on this one! Let’s unravel this mystery together. 😉
Women like sex as much but are (in general) much, much more selective about who they want to have sex with. I’m 42 and I have met no more than 20 men I would have liked to have sex with in my life (and I did not have sex with all of them off course). I think less than 1% of men attractive. So I feel the chance a sex worker actually having sex with someone they think attractive very small. I also think they would probably compartmentalise those feelings do they are not there. And I don’t think men who go to sex workers often try to make it enjoyable for the woman in question.
They’d probably enjoy it more than sex with an old ugly dude.
But it still takes more than attraction for women to enjoy sex. They need to be in the right mood and mindset. Which isn’t always going to be the case with sex work.
Plus, the young attractive guys tend not to pay for sex, so it’s probably a very small percentage of clients.
Depends on the person they are dealing with. Prostitutes are human like anyone else. The job doesn’t mean they don’t enjoy some of their interactions.
For them it’s just a job, You can tell yourself whatever you need to. Alot are get trying to get money as fast as possible.
Saw a AMA with a prostitute who worked for over a decade with hundreds of clients. She said she was attracted to 2 clients total. So, I really doubt it. Age might be a factor for men, but she listed factors that were specific to her likes/qualities she prefers in a partner.
Women won’t enjoy sex if they don’t feel like having it at a specific moment with this specific person.
I had an ex who’d sometimes pressure me for sex and often I agreed just so that he’d stop bothering me (stupid, I know). I never enjoyed any if it, even though other times it was great.
What sort of dom is an arndom woman? 🙂
Of course some do, just like some people enjoy menial jobs in other occupations. If people do it without being coerced, or suffering from drug addiction or mental health issues you probably find quite a large number who enjoys their job.
Remember, the hotter the escort, the pickier she can be of her clients. She won’t have to take anything that texts her, because she knows there won’t be severe lack of hot clients who are offering to pay her. It’s a myth that only 50 year old, balding men with beer bellies buy sex.
I think what they’re really looking for more than anything else is clients who aren’t any trouble. They want well mannered and hygienic men who will follow their ground rules and pay before they leave. That will make their job easier. What they don’t want is cocky, arrogant arseholes who want to wind them up or challenge them.
I was in Amsterdam once and I went to the red light district to see what it was all about. In order to get into one of the rooms, people had to first approach the window and she would either let them in or knock them back. They didn’t seem to have any preference for looks, and instead decided to let people in based on whether they seemed civil or not. I noticed one guy who was young, tall, athletic, chiseled jaw (the type of guy that most women would consider hot), and to my surprise, when he chapped on the window, she just shook her head and shooed him away with a flick of her wrist. The reason I think she rejected him was because she perceived him as being potentially cocky and arrogant, which just makes her job difficult.
I guess it depends on the situation. My coworker is a former prostitute, and she said that she found enjoyment in the sex part. She did say that one of her regular clients, whom she got along with but was not attracted to physically, had a penis on the smaller side (like 4″ max) and for whatever reason it just hit her spot perfectly and she easily had multiple orgasms with him.
Prostitutes don’t enjoy sex with clients. Period. It’s a job, and typically the last thing they want to be doing, but they feel that this is only realistic way for them to pay the bills.
I think the context is worth taking into consideration. Sex work is exactly that, work. Everyone has their reasons for the work they do and if they enjoy their job. Take that idea into your own work life and you could probably get a loose feel for what it would be like. Your job may have good days, bad days, cool customers, and shitty customers.
It doesn’t matter the job. If it’s a job, it will be that.
I’d imagine it depends on the woman and the partner. Just like with men. I have had a higher libido than most of my partners. That doesn’t mean I’d be attracted to every man I met or that I’d find sex with all of them a pleasant prospect.
Personally, I’d never want to be a prostitute despite enjoying sex, bc I wouldn’t want to turn something I feel is meant to be special into a chore. Plus the risks of STIs etc.
That depends on the guy. Most of the younger guys I saw when I was working were arrogant and acted like they were the greatest dick I was ever going to get and 99% of them were deluded. The older clients tended to treat me with a lot more respect so it was a much more mutually enjoyable time.
They just like getting to cum. Getting paid for sex is great now getting paid and cumming is a dream come true.
Young? No.
Fat? Yes. 😉
Hot? What’s that mean tho because I find guys hot that other people would disagree, you know? And there’s guys that a lot of women find “hot” and I’m just not interested. Everyone is different.
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If was get 2000. PER HOUR then yes i would be estatic !
Even if they find the person attractive, the whole interaction will be focused on the man’s pleasure. He won’t be the one trying to please her because he’s the one paying. It will just be work to her.
I think it’s like any job, you might have a preference in a specific task, but in the end it’s a job. Also I assume things like being polite and treating her like a good human being have much more of an impact than looking good
If he’s paying for sex, I can’t imagine he cares that much about her pleasure.
They are all different. You can’t generalize. Some certainly enjoy it and will wear me out. There’s certain drugs that seem to help. Some have told me they are prostitutes because they don’t enjoy sex and don’t want a bf. They weren’t much fun.
And did you also see the same video where good looking guys did the same to women? lol not 1 woman responded “why yes! I’d love to have sex w/a strange guy. After all what could go wrong? Oh, I might end up pregnant or murdered you say?”
Sex with any man is a bit of a crapshoot. Doesn’t matter what he looks like. Sometimes it’s great sex with someone you don’t find all that attractive and terrible sex with the hot guy. I assume it’s the same with the genders reversed.
I’ve hired escorts before.
I’m not a sex worker so my opinion is from personal experience.
I’ve seen one girl multiple times before and I’ve had both, amazing sex and mediocre.
Personality can be different from how the sex is also. Like she can be a total sweetheart and soft spoke, friendly. But when it comes down to sex it can be like fucking a sex doll I imagine. Like just stick it in, pump, do your thing and done.
But other times she may actually be horny or gets horny enjoying the sex and that’s when she can really get into sex.
They like regular clients because even if the sex is paid for, they may actually enjoy it often than with a total stranger each time.
One thing i do notice is that they prefer older clients. Some may even mention they don’t like younger men. Most will say they don’t see black men too for some reason. They would love an older professional man too that can provide more money.
At the end of the day, they’re just trying to make the cash.
Like it or not its a job.
Some people do it out of desperation, some people do it because they love their job, most in between. As usual there are good customers and shitty customers… etc. And good days at work and bad days.
…and there is no such thing as an objective scale to rate whats attractive.
Everyone has their preferences, that being said most people who perform prostitution aren’t doing it because they actually like it. To an extent this can apply to individuals who make professional porn. So I very much doubt that attractiveness plays a factor. It’s just a job.
Some do, some do not. Some don’t think it like that (their job is to make a customer feel good, they focus on reading customer’s body language etc.). In my country there used to be one asexual sex worker. I do not know is she still in business. It’s also good to remember not all satisfaction is sexual. It can be professional too.
Think it as any other customer service. Do they like to talk with people? Are they genuinely friendly and kind people persons? Some are, some are not. But as long as the customer is decent they’re friendly.
Most of sex workers I have talked with prefer to be called that and they find “prostitute” bit offensive.
I’m not so sure about “women and men like having sex as much”. Surely social norms make a difference. But let’s think of gay people when being gay was illegal. It was socially and legally not allowed to have sex with same sex. But they didn’t act in same way. Men were having sex with strangers in the parks and public toilets. Women more likely “lived together for financial reasons”. Of course that is generalization but I think we can still say there wasn’t and there still isn’t similar lesbian cruising than gay cruising. Also many FTM people say they got more horny when they started T. Not all of course, but I would say most. (I’m not familiar with MTF transitioning so I don’t know if they got the opposite)
This is purely my guess but I’m not so sure people actually fucking with strangers. Idea can be nice sure. But many are insecure. Or they could be too busy in that exact moment. Or in monogamous relationship.
The conclusion you reach in your second paragraph is not as logical as you think it is. Enjoying sex isn’t the same as desperation. Enjoying sex more than someone doesn’t mean you’re more desperate than them. The two don’t scale. Having standards doesn’t mean that you don’t like sex.
Throwaway account. The prostitutes I banged really liked me. Mainly cuz I do a lot of body worship and have been told I have a nice member. I’m also attractive, use manners, and tend to make good conversation (usually just asking about them).
Would be interesting to see if any male prostitutes can answer this as well.
Wait…are there male prostitutes? Not gay ones, but male prostitutes for (anyone identifying) female. Do they enjoy it if their client is a attractive younger woman vs not?
I’m not a prostitute and I’ve only ever slept with 1 person, so take all of this with a grain of salt – as a woman, I can’t imagine ever being able to truly enjoy sex I’m getting paid for and not pay like a sugar daddy would, but pay as in “this is my income and my rent depends on it” kind of thing. I’m sorry if that sounds judgemental or harsh, I don’t mean to be judgmental, I’m just saying it’s not something one does for the hell of it. Most are in this profession because they’re out of options or were forced into it.
It might be like anything else. I can take pictures for hours and hours. The moment it becomes a job and someone expects certain results within a deadline, I won’t enjoy it. I also think porn starts are the same. Even male porn stars don’t exactly enjoy it because it’s work and not sex, they have to cut in the middle because the tape runs out so the dude has to stand around and probably lose his boner while they switch tapes and then back to the same exact position and action… Idk how on earth anyone can enjoy that.
Complete sidenote: But I read that study. It was self rated appearance in 20 year old Italian college students. Young women are insecure.
Some of the people running the studies comment on how these women were among the most beautiful women he’d seen.
Then the men were more likely to want a date than just sex with them.
I’ve never seen a prostitute or any kind of sex worker say they enjoy anything they do with their clients at all but I’m sure they’re out there somewhere.
The customers are mostly AH
It’s probably like me as a detailer. I’ve done so many high end cars over the years I’m kinda jaded now. I think the last car I was thrilled about was a restored 1948 Olds because it was different. It’s a job, I do good work regardless of how I feel about the vehicle. The favorite car I’ve ever done isn’t an exotic or rare car. It’s a 1961 Chevy Impala SS dual quad 409 bubbletop. It’s more in my wheelhouse. I’m guessing a sex worker may not always be too excited about someone considered conventionally attractive but maybe for someone who checks all his/her particular boxes.
One of the greatest things I’ve taken from my almost a decade experience as a sex worker is that sexual skill/compatibility is not related to aesthetics. Attractive clients of any age aren’t necessarily better at sex. Often the sex is boring, low effort, they’ve never had to try that hard to please a woman because they get away with their looks. Some of the best sex i’ve had is with clients 50+ years older than me, or men that I wouldn’t look twice at on the street. I take it as a gift to have been given the opportunity to experience sex with men of all ages, races, shapes and sizes. Sex workers are some of the least shallow people you will ever meet and a lot of them will tell you that young attractive clients are the worst and they much prefer older men. Connection is connection and if you open yourself up to accept it from people who don’t fit in your preference box there are so many great experiences to be had. That being said having a young attractive client can be exciting as it’s a novelty, but they often ruin it by being full of themselves and expecting you to give them a discount or special service just because of their age/looks.
When sex is a job, it usually just becomes a job.
Besides, these women need to have sex to get money. They don’t trust these men, they just view them as their only option to make enough money to survive. If I were in that situation I probably wouldn’t be in a headspace where I would be comfortable enough with the person to actually enjoy myself.
Also, lots of men who are paying prostitutes aren’t worried about pleasing the prostitute. It’s mostly about them. While women can desire sex equally, this doesn’t mean they equally desire a pump-n-dump where only the man gets off. Considering that most women need more than just penetration to orgasm, these women usually aren’t enjoying themselves. Although, I’m sure a lot of them put on a hell of a show anyways to sell the experience.
This question could be simplified:
Do prostitutes enjoy sex with clients?
The answer, is sometimes yes.
gotta be real I am really baffled by your logic here