What are the unmistakable signs that indicate you may not be happy with your appearance? 🤔
#signsofugliness #selfperception #beautystandards #selflove #confidenceboost
Do you find yourself constantly worrying about how you look and how others perceive you? 🤔 Are you constantly seeking validation from others to feel good about yourself? It might be time to evaluate if these signs point to a deeper issue.
Signs of Low Self-Esteem:
– Constantly comparing yourself to others
– Feeling unworthy or not good enough
– Seeking approval from others to feel validated
– Negative self-talk and criticism
– Avoiding social situations because of insecurity
Physical Signs:
– Avoiding mirrors or photos
– Feeling uncomfortable in certain outfits
– Constantly fixing your hair or makeup
– Hiding behind sunglasses or hats
Emotional Signs:
– Feeling anxious or depressed about your appearance
– Believing that your worth is tied to your looks
– Feeling like others are judging you harshly
– Not feeling confident to pursue your goals
If you resonate with these signs, remember that true beauty comes from within. It’s essential to work on building your self-esteem and accepting yourself just the way you are. 💖 #selflove #innerbeauty
Evaluate if these signs are impacting your mental health and seek professional help if needed. A therapist or counselor can provide valuable support in working through these issues and building a positive self-image. Remember, you are worthy, you are beautiful, and you deserve to feel confident in your own skin. 💪 #mentalhealthmatters #confidenceiskey
Children fear you
No one has ever asked you out
You’re invisible to most people. Flirting is deemed harrassment.
Remember in elementary/ middle school when everyone would get that lollipop with a card on a valentine and you would be the only one not to get anything. And if you did get one it was from the teacher because she noticed. That’s how you know.
It’s always doggy style, always.
Nobody has ever asked me, “how are you still single?”
You don’t get stared at in public by the opposite sex. Or any gender for that matter.
Animals flee before you, nobody makes small talk… etc
When you ain’t got no alibi.
A little kid will tell you. They’re blunt and honest and don’t even know it
When you’re the “just a friend” person. Also, kids don’t like you or are scared of you
Have you ever mistakenly thought you were looking in a mirror but it was in fact a horrific car accident?
The villagers throw rotten cabbage at you.Â
When your dog tries his hardest to make it look like he’s not with you when you go for a walk.
When people tell you that you have a great personnality
People compliment your personality a lot.
You’re funny
You’re smart.
You don’t judge others by their looks.
Children cry when they see you.
1st level adventures keep mistaking you for a troll terrorizing the village.
*reading all the comments *
Ouch, ouch, right in the feels 🥺🥲ðŸ«
When your mum puts you in front of a mirror as punishment.
When your nudes get leaked and nobody saves them or cares
The manager who I interviewed by at a workplace, told my friend(who got accepted into the job) that she tried not to laugh everytime she looked at my face
When no one goes out of their way to want to hang out with you.
I looked at a girl and she turned away from me
Just ask a kid, his answer would be honest, brutal, and devastating
I clear fields when I go for a walk
People stare at you with disapproval or even visible irritation. No one wants to befriend or get to know you better. They don’t want to take you seriously or listen to your opinion. You’re either invisible or a blob
When a girl quietly whispers to her friend that you’re ugly.
1. Men ask if you have any single friends
2. Men chat with you as if you’re one of the guys
3. When you’re asked “WYD tonight” by your crush, it’s because he wants you to dog sit so he can go on a date
4. You have your mirrors covered
5. Friends ask you to take all the pictures
6. Nobody is looking at you at the stop light
7. Your Dad tells you “You couldn’t get laid in prison with a handful of pardons”
8. Your invisible friend ghosts you
9. There’s no Coke bottle with your name on it
10. You have to get yourself drunk to masturbate
When people try to get your attention, they shout “Hey Ugly! Yeah you, the ugly one! Look over here, ugly!”
When people tell you how lucky you are to be with your wife.
when you say something about your appearance people go silent, this one’s subtle. If you ever dare to express interest in someone attractive, they say something along the lines of ‘yeah, like you could get him/her’ which is not so subtle
Had a date planned with a girl and she was running late. It was a blind date. I texted her and she asked for a selfie. So I sent one. She said oh hell nah and blocked me.
You’re invisible.
It’s not that people make fun of you, at least not so much when you’re an adult, it’s that they’re too busy looking at hot people to notice you exist. Not just romantically, either. People flock to anyone who’s pretty, and their attention can only be spread so much.
You go out grocery shopping with your attractive significant other and the checkout person puts the little barrier between your items because they don’t believe you two are checking out together
Studies say that one in three people are ugly. Look to your left, then look to your right. If you don’t see it then guess what?
I uploaded the best portrait from my youth and the internet tagged it as “ugly man”
I accepted it when I was the only girl in my friend group who rarely got hit on when we went out lol. In fact one time a guy bought my group of friends a shot and one of them went to me and he clarified with the bartender that it was supposed to go to a different girl he thought was hanging with us. ( Lol don’t feel bad for me, reader. It was ages ago and a funny memory at this point.)
Being a traditionally unattractive girl can be tough, especially when you’re younger. Ive struggled with self confidence often over the years and I used to let people treat me crappy because I thought that was the best I could do. But as I’ve gotten older, I’ve learned to work with what I have better, to recognize my positive traits and amplify them. I’ve had no problem finding romantic/sexual relationships and I also haven’t ever had to worry that someone was using me for my looks lol. The best part of being unattractive is that I have had the benefit of moving through the world without feeling as much of the unwanted/creepy attention that many women have to deal with. It’s like an invisibility suit, in a way. And I’ve used that suit to live my life the way I want to without many folks paying attention.
Nobody talks to me without my own initiative
I’m constantly told “you’re not bad looking” when I talk about being single. That’s just nice code for ugly.
When you tell your friends you’re ugly as a self-deprecating joke and they all turn quiet.
People were nicer to you when masked during covid ðŸ˜
When it is obvious the different treatment your better looking friends have when out in public that they are accustomed to.
I’m ugly. Here’s some I could think of.
No one asks if you’re dating someone.
Sometimes customer service will be friendly to the person ahead of me and instantly change their demeanor when I come to register.
You get ignored a lot.
You’ve never experienced someone flirting with you.
Probably alot more Im not even thinking of but that’s a few.