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Hey there, guys! Have you ever found yourself in a situation where you couldn’t tell the difference between peeing and ejaculating? Maybe you’ve experienced something similar to what the user on Reddit described – a potentially embarrassing and violating moment that left her feeling confused and upset.
Let’s dive into the topic and explore the differences between peeing and ejaculating, and why it’s important to be able to distinguish between the two.
Understanding the Anatomy: What Happens During Ejaculation and Urination
When it comes to the male reproductive system, it’s essential to have a basic understanding of what happens during ejaculation and urination. Here’s a breakdown of the processes involved:
Ejaculation:
– During sexual arousal, the male body prepares for ejaculation by increasing blood flow to the penis.
– The seminal vesicles and prostate gland produce semen, which is stored in the urethra.
– When the male reaches orgasm, the muscles at the base of the penis contract, releasing the semen through the urethra.
Urination:
– The kidneys filter waste products from the blood, producing urine that travels to the bladder.
– When the bladder is full, the brain sends signals to the muscles in the bladder and urethra to relax and contract, allowing urine to be expelled from the body.
Spotting the Differences: Sensations and Visual Cues
Now that we’ve covered the basic mechanics of ejaculation and urination, let’s take a look at how the sensations and visual cues differ between the two:
Sensations:
– Ejaculation is typically accompanied by pleasurable sensations and muscle contractions, often signaling the climax of sexual activity.
– Urination, on the other hand, may involve a sensation of pressure or urgency, followed by the release of urine with a steady flow.
Visual Cues:
– Ejaculate is often a thicker, more viscous fluid that can range in color from white to slightly yellowish.
– On the other hand, urine is a clear to light yellow fluid that is expelled in a more consistent stream.
Understanding Individual Variations: Factors that Influence Sensations
It’s important to acknowledge that individuals may experience variations in the sensations associated with ejaculation and urination. Factors that can influence these sensations include:
– Physical and psychological arousal levels
– Medications or substances that affect muscle control and sensation
– Age-related changes in urinary and sexual function
Ejaculation vs. Urination: What Went Wrong in the Reddit Scenario?
In the case shared on Reddit, the user described feeling violated and confused by her partner’s inability to distinguish between peeing and ejaculating. While it’s clear that this was a distressing experience for her, it’s important to consider the potential factors that may have contributed to the misunderstanding:
– Lack of communication and understanding between partners
– The potential for embarrassment or discomfort in discussing sexual experiences
– Differences in individual sensations and bodily responses
Moving Forward: Communication and Understanding in Sexual Relationships
As we reflect on the Reddit scenario, it’s evident that open communication and mutual understanding are crucial in sexual relationships. Here are some key takeaways for navigating similar situations in the future:
– Prioritize open and honest communication with your partner about sexual experiences and boundaries.
– Acknowledge and respect individual differences in sensations and bodily responses.
– Seek to foster a safe and respectful environment for discussing sensitive topics related to sexuality.
Final Thoughts: Empathy, Respect, and Education
In closing, it’s essential to approach discussions about sexual health and experiences with empathy, respect, and education. By understanding the differences between peeing and ejaculating, and the potential variations in individual sensations, we can cultivate healthy and informed relationships.
Remember, every individual’s experience is unique, and it’s okay to seek guidance and support when navigating unfamiliar or distressing situations. Let’s continue to promote open dialogue and understanding in matters of sexual health and well-being.
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There is something wrong with the fella as pissing and cumming are two different sensations.
Cumming has a more “pulsating” feel to it, like it comes out in bursts as opposed to the constant stream of piss
I can definitely tell the difference
#😨
Wtf. You can most definitively tell the difference, if it was enough to drip out he KNEW. This guy sounds like a cunt.
He did it on purpose. That isn’t possible without knowing. No way. I’ve had a dick my whole life. I’m an expert.
You absolutely CANNOT accidentally pee while erect. You in fact have to work overtime to urinate while hard
Yes…..
You can’t do both at the same time!
When a guy cums, it is muscular contractions!
When peeing it is totally different!
I think he used you to perform a fetish
Yes, when i go to the toilet to pee it unfortunately doesn’t feel like an orgasm.
I personally can tell the difference.
But I have heard some men confuse the urge.
I won’t rule either way.
But I can understand to some extent that there is a similar sensation at times. Sometimes my desire to ejaculate feels similar to wanting to piss. But that only happens when I had sex with the urge to piss.
I’ll be the devil’s advocate here. Normally you can tell the difference. But…
One time and just once I was whacking it in bed. I thought I was going to cum and a clear odorless liquid started coming out, the stream didn’t stop and only then did I realize that I was peeing all over myself in bed.
The two are not even close. Its almost impossible to piss when erect.
Still caught up on “obviously we consented to anal”
How much is “some pee?”
A drip here may be a sign of a medical problem for him as the male body has a valve that shuts off the line coming from the bladder when ejaculating.
However, note that it is absolutely possible to pee with a full erection. It’s just not very desirable for men as your duck pointing up isn’t great for your aim….bending your duck down with a raging hard-on is painful.
He lied, we can tell
It is actually super hard to pee while erect without practice. You can absolutely tell the difference, he fuckin lied.
In the heat of the moment the initial blast can feel similar, but once that first shot is fired you absolutely can tell the difference.
Ok I’m gonna go against the grains of the other comments here, and say that he might have a medical condition. It’s really hard to pee when you have an erection because a valve near your prostate will try to prevent that, so yeah he might have just lied, but there’s also the possibility that he needs to go see the doctor
He might not be lying. If not, he should go to a doctor that specializes in incontinence (lack of control of bladder) and maybe get a urinalysis.
Based on his reaction, he probably wasn’t doing it on purpose. He might have a condition and is embarrassed.
I don’t think he urinated inside of you. You’d know if he did when you went to the bathroom. It probably happened as he pulled out.
There is a flap in the urethra that blocks off the path from the kidneys when a man gets an erection. It’s still possible that a guy can pee while erect (I have and it’s usually a low flow). I haven’t done what you said happened, but if that flap in the urethra got confused, then he could absolutely pee. Considering he’s inside you and everything is about the same temp, it’s not crazy to think that what you experienced could happen. Plus, men don’t hold their bladder when they have sex because they don’t have to…the flap does it.
It’s possible he didn’t realize. The human body makes mistakes.
Nah something about this isn’t right. They are two very different sensations, and also, when hard, peeling isn’t easy.
Yes it’s a totally different feeling…in fact when I’m hard I cannot pee.
It’s either a lie or something seriously medically wrong with him. Get him to a doctor to find out which.
I know when I first masturbated to completion I thought I was about to pee but ejaculated instead. But I could eventually learn to the difference by the fact that the urge to ejaculate comes on much quicker than the urge to urinate. I doubt he’s made it to 23 without having masturbated at all.
1) you can definitely tell the difference.
But
2) your body has a sort of internal switch where you can’t cum and piss at the same time. To the point where you have to wait a little bit after ejaculation before your body will let you pee
3) cum often looks clear, especially pre cum or the stuff that squeezes out of the urethra at the end
Are you sure it was pee? Like, did he finish and sit for awhile and then a lot of clear stuff came out? Or was it a quick pull out and some clear fluid came with it? I guess I’d need more details before judging
Because it could have been the clear ejaculate coming out of the urethra
The other morning I woke up and I had the urge to pee. Imagine my surprise when instead of peeing I just cummed all over the toilet. It goes both ways. I never know what’s going to come out of my dick.
Two very different sensations. You’re guy has a problem and should see a doctor.
Damn a lot of people just jumping to conclusions and assuming shit here.
One time I was with my HS gf and she wanted to give me a blow job, everything was going great and I felt like I was ready to cum, and she wanted to swallow it. I burst in her throat but then noticed it wasn’t stopping so I pulled out my dick and I was pissing. Pissed all over my room and bed and I was mortified. She went to the bathroom immediately and cleaned herself up. She was as embarrassed as I was and we vowed to never speak of it again. Until now I guess.
There was never at any point in time any thought in my brain that I needed to pee. And I was very confused when I pulled out and piss was coming out. It was 100% an accident and I’ve never had that happen again. But it’s not so different a sensation as everyone here is making it out to be *in that context*. I’ve never gotten confused about it before or after and 99.99% of the times I’ve pissed it has been completely nonsexual. But in that moment I felt a pressure build up and great relief when I released it.
Sorry this happened to you, but at least you’re not the only one I guess?
When I first started masturbating I couldn’t tell the difference until after a few weeks so yeah he definitely should’ve been able to tell but maybe he got super caught up in the moment.
Uhhhh yeah… obviously… one comes from the bladder one comes from your reproductive organs.
Two completely different sensations.
He likely had a piss fetish and subjected you to it non-consensually.
I regret to inform you, but he pissed in your ass.
On purpose.
You got anally R Kellyed
I understand the point of this sub but god damn lol
“When a man has an erection, the sphincter at the base of his bladder closes so urine can’t pass into his urethra. This means that most men can’t urinate during sex.”
https://www.healthline.com/health/peeing-during-sex#:~:text=When%20a%20man%20has%20an,can%20include%20incontinence%20during%20sex.
The only way he’s telling the truth is if he has sustained severe damage to his groin recently or his prostate removed.
So orgasming for both sexes requires relaxing the pelvic floor muscles. Once relaxed and stimulated sufficiently those muscles and others will spasm (orgasm).
Problems arise when people who actually very much need to pee attempt sexual activities. Obviously you’re going to be holding back the urine. In this you’re essentially refusing to relax your pelvic floor which will make orgasming extremely difficult and much less enjoyable. For this reason I always attempt to urinate before sex and encourage a partner to do the same.
I bet your guy really had to pee but he didn’t want to interrupt and ruin the moment. I went through that a hundred times in my teens and early 20s. It takes awhile to feel confident enough to be like, “Hey pause I gotta pee!” but hell is it worth it tho.
He knew the difference, he was using you to indulge in his kink. I knew a guy in junior high who’s kink was to pee in girls. Only their vagina though, I never heard of him peeing in bums.
Dude lied to you