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Let’s dive into the topic of threesomes and their potential impact on relationships. 🤔
Personal Stories and Insights
Have you ever experienced a threesome ruining your relationship? It’s a tricky situation that many couples find themselves in. Whether it was a miscommunication, jealousy, or other issues that arose, it’s important to reflect on what went wrong.
I remember a friend of mine who tried to spice up their relationship with a threesome but ended up creating trust issues that ultimately led to a breakup. It’s a sensitive topic that requires careful consideration.
Actionable Steps and Advice
If you’re considering having a threesome with your partner, here are some actionable steps to avoid relationship ruin:
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Communication is Key: Make sure to have open and honest conversations with your partner about boundaries, expectations, and fears. Trust is crucial in any relationship, so ensure that you both feel comfortable before diving into a threesome.
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Set Boundaries: Establish clear boundaries before engaging in any sexual activities. Make sure that both you and your partner are on the same page about what is acceptable and what is off-limits.
- Check-in Regularly: After the threesome, make sure to check in with each other to see how you are both feeling. Address any concerns or issues that may have arisen during the experience.
Conclusion
Threesomes can be a fun and exciting way to spice up your relationship, but they can also have serious consequences if not approached with caution. By communicating openly with your partner, setting boundaries, and checking in with each other regularly, you can avoid the potential pitfalls that may arise from a threesome. Remember, trust and respect are key components of any successful relationship.
Share your own stories, insights, and advice on threesomes and relationships in the comments below! Let’s continue the conversation. đź’¬
Remember to always prioritize your relationship and partner’s feelings above all else. Best of luck! ✨
I have a co-worker that had one with his wife. His wife then started to date the girl, behind his back. After a bit, she dumped him and married the other girl. So I’d say it ruined his.
I have this female friend that got divorced. She is gorgeous.
She decided she didnt want to be straight after her divorce, so she was going to dip her toes in girl-on-girl action, but decided then to try a threesome with a couple first.
Long story short, she started dating them separately, sonce both wanted to fuck her, but none wanted to share her. The marriaged dissolved
Wife and I have done it a few times. Fun for all. Don’t take it too seriously.
No, because I’m not dumb enough to go down that road.
There’s so many stories of ruined relationships because of a threesome here on this sub… It works for some, but the vast majority regrets it, so I’d suggest to abstain
I got so close to having a threesome!! I just needed another 2 people.
Absolutely, threesomes are for strangers, never fuck friends and try and fuck a different stranger every time. Less chance of complications.
The wife, and I have been talking about it for a while. There are some insecurities, and jealousy issues to deal with before I’m comfortable doing so. I don’t really care if we do, or if we don’t myself. It’s more a thing that my wife wants. I just want to make sure our relationship, and we as individuals in the relationship are healthy enough to enjoy ourselves without destroying our relationship. Bring it up has been a massive win for us as our lines of communication have been wide open because of it. I have no clue if we ever will do anything like that, and I do t really care if we don’t, but it’s been a very healthy thing for our relationship up to this point anyways
No, never ever
Friend of mine had a girlfriend that said her fantasy was a threesome. He found a friend willing to help out. So, he provided his GF with her wish. Brought in a dude and gave her a 2 on one. Long story short, she got pregnant and he wanted a paternity test and she got mad and they broke up. Baby given up for adoption.
Friend left without his Gf or baby which did turn out to be his.
I think the threesome my wife and I had with another woman strengthened our relationship. We had been together 10 years at that point, and between the two of us knew exactly what we liked and how we liked it.
Bringing in someone new was fun and exciting, but we ultimately learned that what we have between each other is phenomenal and nobody is going to come in fresh and be good at what my wife and I have perfected with each other.
Nope but we’ve been together forever, have regular openhonest conversations and have no insecurities about our relationship
Yeah, we set boundaries beforehand that were all mutually agreed upon, and they decided to break them while we were in the middle of it. Never forgave either of them.
Y’all are having threesomes?
Fair warning. I never works out in the long run.
Yup, not spoke to my parents in years…..
From personal experience, NO. I don’t think people who don’t communicate well should do it. Make sure to make boundaries or rules however you want to call it and stick to them, add more as you both need to. We have been doing this for over two years and have had multiple girls join us, we are as happy as the day we got married 12 years ago. I hope this helps I was just reading comments and everyone was talking about other people’s experiences and not their own.
My gf and I have had dozens and love it every time
My ex and I had a threesome with my best friend. He ended up sleeping with her behind my back. I only found out because I read their discord messages to each other saying they make a “bad judgment call”.
Yes, it did.
5 years after we did the threesome, we started an open relationship, then our intimacy was totally over.
They are significantly better with strangers while on drugs. This is what college is meant for. It’s not something I’d do with a spouse or serious relationship.
My girlfriend broke up with me to have a threesome without me
Yup. Had a “cool” threesome. Two girls and myself(guy). I was in love and she was curious and while it was fun I couldn’t really look at her the same after a while. Like what we had got tainted.
Turns out three ways are not for me. Monogamy for ma hog and me.
*Had 4some with friends who were a couple just for fun
*Fall in love with other partner
*Both leave and divorce original partner
*Now happily engaged and having a baby
So…kinda? But everything turned out awesome
Not yet! Need to have one first!
Never had one but i know of someone who literally got kicked out of his house by his girlfriend not long after a threesome where he pretty much ignored his girlfriend and went to town on the new younger more in shape woman
Don’t do it until you discuss everything.
Do you want them both to concentrate on you? The 3rd on just them, or just you? Make sure everyth8ng is ok and that they are 100% ok with this as a 1 time thing AND give them the ok to say no not only before but during.
And no. Not a problem here.
Yes, kinda. Basically my partner was bisexual so it worked out fine for us both to include another woman. Let’s call the new lady “E”.
Cut forward to months later, and my partner kept asking me if I thought E was hotter than she was, like it became almost an obsession. Even though I had answered this question multiple times, it got quite out of hand and caused many arguments because I think she started to compare herself to E in many ways. You’d think sex with her would be enough, but no… She kinda wanted to be her in some strange way.
I think it was a deep insecurity. We didn’t break up because of that, but it was another point of tension during our relationships slow decline.
No because it wasnt my relationship
I think monogamous people should probably avoid threesomes for the most part. If you truly believe you can only love and sleep with one person, bringing in a third means you’re actively working against your own beliefs–and so is the person you love. That will probably not end well.
With non monogamous people, I think it can work but is still tricky. You need to really know yourself (like what would trigger jealousy in you) and then clearly communicate that with the other two. Same goes for expectations about the sex bit.
Nope. Because I’ve pulled the eject handle on WAY more than I’ve actually participated in. If even one little thing seems off, it’s a NO.
They are very dangerous if either of you is naturally monogamous, or have any insecurity, or relationship problems.
Right now you are probably both thinking in terms of how you personally will benefit from sex with a new partner, how exciting and novel it will be. But actually seeing your partner having sex with someone else can also spur feelings of inadequacy, insecurity, jealousy. Or it can make your partner suffer in comparison and make you decide that your relationship wasn’t making you happy after all.
No, because I they were all while single. Not a chance in hell I’d ever fuck around and have a threesome with my husband. I’m not sharing him with anyone.
It usually ends the relationship.
Yep. Separate male partner just recently split up me and my wife after she left me for him. Probably because he is a bigger stronger man than I am. Last time I let a bull in any of my relationships
MYYYYY SANDWHICH!!!!
No, said nobody in this whole wide world.
Yes. It was the beginning of the end. We are now divorced because you can’t close Pandora’s box
“Friend” of mine pulled me into her marriage, and now tries to play the victim card. Don’t do it.
Disappointing one woman at a time is more than enough for me. I don’t need a second opinion.
Unless it REALLY gets you off to picture your partner fucking someone else. I am a firm believer 3somes should only be for cucks, or if every single person is involved for the majority of the sex. If you just want to have sex with someone else it will not work
Cant say ive ever had a relationship to ruin
I think you should have asked, “Has a threesome ever not ruined a relationship?”
It’s been stated time and time again. If you want to try a threesome, do it before you get into a relationship or get married.
You play the game you pay the potential price
Fuck yea. I fucken regret it. I only did it because i was blindly and stupidly in love w her and wanted to make her happy. She was pregnant at the time and I’m pretty sure we lost the baby because of it. After we were done she said her stomach started hurting and her tummy stopped moving and all pregnancy symptoms went away. She ended up breaking things up a month and a half later because she was supposedly going to work things out w her baby dad. Still hurts even tho it’s been 7 months already. Worst part is they didn’t end up working things out and she got another dude 2 months after leaving me who she treats better even though i put her on a pedestal and treated a lot nicer than i should have. I will forever hate myself for that.
Yes.
Its happened to me, and it has happened to my brother as well.
Both entirely separate events.
We have had quite a few and it’s never ruined ours, it’s actually been a stamp of how strong ours is – and we have done MFF and MFM. Group play can enhance the sexual side of your relationship together but ultimately sex is part of your bond, it’s NOT the bond. Especially for people who think a threesome will “save” a relationship, believe us it won’t. And any one who is pushy about having a threesome (men and women both can do this) is a major red flag.
Communication for why you want to have a threesome is so important. That’s step 1 because if you are not able to openly share your fantasies in the first place for any reason (maybe feel unsafe or maybe relationship is too new, etc.) then it’s something you should consider holding until it’s clear you want to – and you want to together.