Have you found expensive lipgloss in your partner’s car? Could there be a valid explanation for this discovery? Let’s explore possible scenarios and solutions together. #lipgloss #relationshipmystery #suspiciousfinds
Is There a Reasonable Explanation?
– Discovering expensive lipgloss in your husband’s car can be surprising, but before jumping to conclusions, consider possible reasons for its presence.
– It’s crucial to communicate openly and honestly with your partner to address any concerns or doubts that may arise from this discovery.
Possible Explanations:
1. Personal use: Your husband may have used the lipgloss himself or borrowed it from someone.
2. Surprised gift: He could have been planning a thoughtful gesture or surprise for you.
3. Innocent mistake: The lipgloss may have been mistakenly left behind by a friend or family member.
4. Misplaced item: It’s possible that the lipgloss got mixed up with other belongings in the car without your husband’s knowledge.
Remember to approach the situation calmly and openly discuss your thoughts and feelings with your partner. Effective communication is key in resolving any concerns or misunderstandings in a relationship. #communicationiskey #trustyourpartner
I would think the only explanation would there being a woman in that car at some point. Unless he has a male buddy that wears $24 lip
Gloss.
hmm
I definitely wouldn’t be thrilled about this either and totally understand if he just had some moment really any woman was in his car he could tell you about even if you didn’t love the circumstance if it wasn’t terrible you’d be able to move on. I wonder if maybe he panicked about this because he really didn’t remember what it could be from and he thought you’d get mad but he lied when really the truth even if it was annoying to you that he may have let a woman in his car and not told you about it, you’d be happier than him trying to push an unbelievable excuse because he thinks it would upset you less.
I realize this offers some level of a crack in a door for him to just come up with a credible enough excuse you won’t hate as much as the truth, but frankly if he isn’t telling you anything plausible anyway then the more information you get out of him the more ability you would have to tell if he’s hiding something, if that makes sense. Also, I’m just not sure I’d be willing to do anything extreme over a lipgloss regardless of its cost. I would definitely have worries and suspicions here.
I apologize if it feels like I’m going easy on him or something it’s not that I just don’t think you freaking out and cracking down is going to have much better effect than hoping he would just tell you the truth.
I mean.. how long has he had the truck? Did he buy it new? If he bought it used it’s quite possible that it has been in there for a while.
I’d be tempted to check the date on the lipgloss. If it doesn’t have a date, there should be a batch number. The date it was made could give you some more clues.
Sounds like he’s cheating or lying. Definitely investigate. Put a hidden camera/microphone in the truck and see what he’s doing it in when ur not around
Maybe he gave a woman a ride once. I would just wait and see what he says.
I found a pair of women’s underwear once in our laundry, and my so was like “I don’t know, and I’m not even entertaining this.” Turns out, the laundry service mixed up some of our clothes with someone else’s.
Tracker on the car
I found a gold womens necklace on the drivers side of my husbands sports car. He was a chronic cheater (especially when I was pregnant or paying attention to an infant). That lip gloss is a red flag.
The problem is that if he is cheating, he now knows to be more careful. Sorry you are going through this.
There was a girl in his truck.
He’s lying telling you he has no idea where it came from.
Sorry
What about those stories where a side chick leaves something in the dudes car to let the girlfriend know she’s being cheated on…
Where in his car did you find it? Under a seat or in plain sight?
He is not being truthful. He knows how it got there, and he knows who it belongs to. Unfortunately, it is a 56% probability that he is cheating…it’s an actual statistic you can look up about military men.
He gave you a bs example of who it could belong to….someone who according to you has never even been in the truck…darlin, you really need to talk to a lawyer, get your shit in order then sit him down and give him 1 chance to come clean and be honest. Tell him that if he isn’t there will be consequences…then follow through on them.
Have you ever had your own car?
I’ve been driving for 20 years. Plenty of times have I had random objects appear in my car, but i’ve always had a pretty good idea from where it came.
How old is the truck?
does anyone else ever, and I mean EVER, drive it?
I’ve found some pretty weird stuff in my car after giving people rides.
is it possible it fell out of whoever was moving’s stuff?
My thoughts come from listening to wrongful murder convictions.
Often the falsely imprisoned has no idea or theory of what happened in the case. This is frustrating for the untrained because they want the person to know something, but if you think about it, of course they don’t because they weren’t involved.
After hours of questioning, they have often been historically convinced into false confessions to make the accusations end.
Remorseless people tend to lie or have lies ready for these types of situations.
You know the truth. You’re in denial. Sorry you had to find out this way :/
My wife once found an expensive little black purse under the seat. It had lipstick, and girl things in it. I had no idea how it got there. I found out who owned the car prior to me. It was hers. It was under the seat the whole 2 years we had the car. Maybe it was in the truck when he bought it?
I am not one to jump on the “just divorce him” bandwagon for every red flag (and I am a divorced woman who was cheated on, so that is saying something), but at the very least you need to explain to him why this lip gloss is bothering you so much. Explain that it erodes your trust in him simply by his lack of explanation. if he is at all interested in this not snowballing into you checking his phone, questioning his every move, investigating every time he is late home from work, and just generally being suspicious (as would be normal human nature in this situation), he needs to figure out or explain where this expensive beauty product came from.
If you don’t trust your gut, it will continue to nag at the back of your brain and alter every interaction with him going forward until you have an explanation that makes sense to you.
Snoop on his phone or try to ask him to go on his phone to see if his reaction and behavior is supicious. If he’s angry…..well…😩😩😩
It sounds bad… Is he sure there has been no woman in his car except for you? He didn’t give anyone a lift, he hasn’t had it cleaned somewhere where a cleaner could have dropped the lipgloss?
I guess it *could* also have happened this way: He gave a male friend or coworker a lift, and that man had the lipgloss in his pocket and it feel out. It was there because that friend’s wife/girlfriend had borrowed his jeans (because she wanted to feel cute and small) and had put the lipgloss there and forgot it. Or he kept it for his wife/girlfriend who didn’t have pockets, and forgot it there. It’s a stretch, but it’s not entirely impossible…
I would say trust your gut, because usually we know. But not always. Sometimes we can start doubting, if there’s some indicator, like in your case, even when there’s in fact nothing going on.
I think him not having an explanation is better, could mean he’s not trying to lie and genuinely has no idea.
I’m in the military, and I will say there are lots of times I use my pickup to move a person or thing short distances which I am not sure I would remember doing.
Have you heard of the TikTok trend to throw ladies items in through a vehicle’s open window to cause chaos in that person’s life?
Also, your husband is in the military. They give rides to each other all the time across base. I wouldn’t be surprised if he gave a ride to another military member who happened to be female.
You should have asked to see his phone immediately. By now he has deleted everything.
I’ve been cheated on twice. if you want to know the way I knew it was the worst case scenario? I was doing what you were doing. trying to find the one innocent explanation in the sea of more likely negative ones. you know what’s really going on-but you’re trying so hard to ignore it. hence, why you’re asking us. first it was a panty liner, even when I saw used condom wrappers he still denied it. the point is…the only person you can trust is yourself. so, what say you?
Might be naive here, but could it belong to a male friend with “feminine” taste? No idea about that lipgloss (I’m danish), but it’s 2024… or he’s just having an affair (maybe maybe not with lipgloss friend)
Like someone said below check the batch number, if it’s older it’s possible it’s from the previous owner and maybe it was lost behind the dash, and it finally found its way out after hitting a road bump or something.
People on here acting like it’s a smoking gun, come on!
It’s literally a small piece of potential evidence which might make sense later but isn’t enough to convict. You know why? Because it could also have come from anywhere and he might genuinely have no idea.
Just log it in that fantastic brain of yours and move on.
My partner leaves expensive make up and random things all over the place, the cost isn’t relevant.
There’s too many variables here.
There was a woman in the car. I doubt the lip gloss was left accidentally. You were meant to find it.
Trust your gut. I wasted 20 years in my gas lit marriage for these odd signs. Some had explanations, others not. I never listened to my gut…then I got a call from sn angry husband to tell me to tell my husband to stop fucking his wife… So yea, trust your gut. Keep a journal of things that set off your Spidey senses, as often a pattern emurges…..
You’re 24 you will be totally fine if you leave him now. He’s 26 AND in the military. Already not good lol, & you find a summer Friday gloss. That girl wanted YOU to find out
He’s in the military is all I needed to hear, he’s cheating.. that’s what they do.
He’s lying. The minute he tried to pin it on your sister who lives far away, I knew he was lying. Best get to digging.
his kneejerk wasn’t to lie and say he gave a female coworker a lift because he wants minimal ties to what he’s likely actually doing (cheating and driving another woman around)
If he was innocent, he would have remembered all the things that had happened that may have led to the gloss being in his car and he would’ve been open about them