#Heartbreak #CheatingBoyfriend #LearnedMyLesson
Hey there, let me tell you a wild story about the time my boyfriend cheated on me and then his grandma passed away on the same day…yup, you read that right! 🙄 But don’t worry, I kicked his sorry butt out and slept like a baby that night.
### Trust Your Gut
It’s never easy to uncover infidelity, especially in such a painful way. But hey, at least you found out the truth, right? Trust your instincts, they rarely lead you astray. If something feels off, it probably is.
### Protect Your Peace
After giving him the boot, I took back control of my space and my sanity. We often neglect our own well-being in the midst of heartbreak. Remember, you deserve peace above all else.
### Set Boundaries
Once a cheater, always a cheater. Don’t fall for the same tricks twice. It’s tough, but sometimes tough love is necessary to protect yourself.
### Self-Love is Key
In the end, this experience taught me the value of self-love. Never prioritize someone who doesn’t value you. Put yourself first, always. You deserve nothing less.
So, chin up, darling. You’re stronger than you know. 💪🏼 And remember, the best revenge is living well. Give yourself time to heal and grow from this experience. Trust me, you’ll come out on the other side even more resilient. Keep moving forward! 🌟
I would say he slept outside like a dog, but dogs are way more loyal.
That guy has some serious mental health issues
Did you tell him he’s the reason his G’ma died and she’s rolling in her grave from disappointment?
If you had his phone you should have texted all those “other girls” telling them he is cheating on all of them too, then thrown his phone in the snow.
Did he ever find his way back home with his tail between his legs?
Doubt this is a real story. Had me until “he slept outside in 12F weather”.
Proportionality, and the lack thereof..
He did mean and betraying things to you.
You put him in physical danger of hypothermia and frostbite.
Your response was disproportionate.
If I read your post correctly:”I learned that night to never do wifely duties for a boyfriend. “, you are not going to act like a friend to anyone to whom you are not married and you are foregoing sex until after marriage.
You had the high road and you gave that up. If you came here looking for sympathy and congratulations, keep looking.
Judge Lynn Toler from Divorce Court said something similar,
“Don’t do wife duties at girlfriend prices.”
You deserved way better than that slut bucket.
Are you still with this guy? Assuming you are not, you did nothing wrong and your response to his cheating was relatively modest.
Fun fact! My ex wife started cheating on my the day my last grandparent was buried
What “wifey” duties? Hopefully you fully break up with him evne if he tries to weasel his way back in