Are there single men who don’t talk to girls? #SingleMen #Communication #Dating
Have you ever wondered if there are guys out there who prefer to keep to themselves when they’re not in a relationship? Do some men opt to stay quiet rather than engage in conversations with girls they’re interested in? It’s a common question that many people have pondered. Let’s delve into this topic and explore whether some single men choose not to talk to girls.
Reasons why some single men may not talk to girls:
– Shyness
– Lack of confidence
– Fear of rejection
– Not knowing how to start a conversation
– Personal preferences
How to engage with men who don’t talk to girls:
1. Be understanding and patient
2. Initiate conversations
3. Create a comfortable environment
4. Show interest in their hobbies and interests
5. Build trust gradually
If you’ve ever wondered about this phenomenon or encountered men who seem hesitant to chat with girls, you’re not alone. By understanding the reasons behind their behavior and learning how to engage with them effectively, you can navigate these situations with ease. Stay curious and open-minded in your interactions with others, and you may be surprised by the connections you can make. #CommunicationSkills #Relationships #SocialInteraction
I rarely seek out women. Don’t really care tbh. Not gay or asexual if that’s what you’re thinking.
Don’t go out of my way to meet one nor talk to one unless we have something in common. Not all of us are desperate or live a life revolving around women.
Yes. Plenty even. They usually focus on other things.
Yes. It’s hard for me to socialize with women.
Trust me, we’re not.
Especially when hurt badly or even just simply disappointed by women so many times you loose interest to the point you’re avoid them like you’re avoiding the usual drunkard at a bar
That’s normal. The current social climate discourages men from approaching women.
A year? I think it took me three years after my ex to get into a place where I felt emotionally ready to try again.
>Maybe I have skewed views on men but I always assumed men are always seeking out women.
Yeah, we’re people, just like you, with our own complex internal emotional states.
I’ve never seeked a woman in a serious way before, save for a couple lighthearted tinder dates that amounted to just smoking a joint and laughing in the woods and nothing sexual. Hell I had such little interest in relationships and sex that I’m on my 4th girlfriend and first ever sexual relationship (lost my virginity to my highschool BFF) at 23 years old. I’ve even been told by family and friends that my lack of interest was machine like and disturbing, unnatural. I beg to differ.
28m, haven’t looked for anything romantic with anyone since I had a really shitty breakup almost a decade ago. Just not worth it.
My girlfriend and I broke up at the end of last July. Only recently (like in the last month or so) have I started talking to another girl, but I still don’t feel ready to try asking her out and pursuing another relationship yet. I don’t know know when I’ll be ready for that again.
It’s scary to approach women these days. . I feel like I’d just ruin their day by approaching!
After a year or so after a breakup, the last thing I want is burden myself with women. I’d rather do my own thing and just go with the flow without actively seeking anyone.
And this is why men don’t bother because most of you women assume crap like this because you maybe had 1 bad experience with A man.
Yep had long bouts (several years) of being single where I didn’t talk to women outside of work or my friends. Guys are chasing less and less and focusing on themselves which in my mind is a good thing.
Even when seeking, we don’t seek, if that makes sense
absolutely.
fresh out of a relationship I never do. I understand for some people the best way to get over someone is to find someone else but yeh not for me.
Basically I only do talk to women when I meet them. so if I dont meet one for a period of time there’s no talking to them.
online dating doesn’t really work. For example I have been back from overseas for 3 weeks. I met 3 very nice and good looking women on my 3 week trip and spent one week with one. However since I have been back at home I have had 2 likes. 2 likes. 0 matches. I travel a fair bit. when I am home I get no matches.
So there’s no one to talk to unless I meet them in person. And as we get older that basically dries up to nothing.
Yes, been single for 4 years and not desperate to flirt with girls. We exist 😅
I actively don’t talk to women these days. I’m someone who receives a lot of female attention, but I no longer do anything with it. The juice isn’t worth the squeeze anymore.
I avoid all people.
I’m not talking to any girl, unless they talk to me first.
Yeah, you have a drastically skewed vision of men. Hilariously skewed in fact.
Tbh some of us dont try, I have a friend who doesn’t really seek women out 70% of the time he just works and is trying to build a business. We do sometimes try to focus on ourselves
Haha nah, you hurt anyone enough they’ll find a cave and disappear for a long time.
Most girls are just like every other person to me. It’s only when I randomly start liking a girl that I have to talk to them more often.
This is such a weird question. Like men are not human, just a kind of animal that are always just looking for mates to have s*x with. Of course people need time after a bad break up, or when in a depression period or just a period in their life when they just give up searching. It happens to everybody..
Many women get approached constantly, so they assume most guys do that. The reality is that it only takes 1-3% of men to constantly be doing that to make it seem that way. And since about 3% of the population is sociopaths who don’t care about rejection… not including narcissists…
So women too often end up wrongly assuming that because a man doesn’t approach her that he isn’t interested. And since those sociopaths and narcissists get lots of practice to get good at approaching without seeming creepy… normal guys are starting out with one strike.
Definitely not the case.
Lots of men aren’t ready for nor are seeking a relationship or sex for a plethora of possible reasons.
I look at too much social media because I have begun to feel that if I talk to women on a personal level I’ll make them uncomfortable, and I’ll get cancelled.
There’s no point in seeking a relationship. The expectations are exceptionally high.
28m.
Just have no desire to talk to women currently.
Some of us don’t lust over women like that, but if a good one came along I wouldn’t deny her.
>Are there men out there who don’t actually talk to girls while single?
Yes. Lots of them.
I used no, but not anymore. You wouldnt believe how many men who are doing quite well in life are so sad/indifferent to *anything*.
Do you mean never talking to women? There are women who are coworkers and relatives. We talk to them.
Always asking out and seeking dates – no. This is just stupid.
Lmao why would we seek out the thing that ruins lives, finances, and accuses us or rape and harassment if we don’t look like Jason Mamoa? We choose peace, and women are NOT the prize.
Well yeah, some guys have more important things to focus on and need to take time off dating until they get their lives together
I am not “repelled” by women at all, but I don’t exactly seek them out. Apart from old friends, I’d never ever approach a woman in my whole life for any reason, just because I don’t want to, though the same applies to men. Talking to strangers is always uncomfortable no matter man or woman.
Antisocial save for the few friends I got. So yea
I mean just walk up and start talking to a stranger? Like a creep?
I’ve spent about five years total not speaking to girls after breakups. I wouldn’t say I was directly avoiding them, but I certainly didn’t actively seek anyone out. So, I never crossed the path of anyone I’d really like to pursue.
Today I really regret it, but at the time it felt kinda good. Felt like I had control, bcos – honestly – I’ve never been sadder than when I fucked a ton of women for nothing deeper than the ejaculation.
OTOH unrequited love is the worst feeling in the entire world, so tho I’ve decided to pursue women again, I’m not even sure it’s worth it. Plus there’s the danger of infidelity and women who just leave for no reason. Idk I’m still undecided but I want children, so that’s why I’m doing this despite my better understanding. At least it feels good to be desired again, but when it’s women with bf’s and husbands… idk. I’d love to meet someone single for a change.
I just want to be left alone
> I always assumed men are always seeking out women.
Dude wtf. I am not offended because I am almost impossible to offend but I *am* flabbergasted at how close minded this approach is.
I’d consider it sexist.
As someone else already said here, we are people too with our own complexities.
You experience men approaching you.
You never experience the men who never approach anyone.
Of course your experience is skewed.
Skewed to the point of delusional as well
I’ve not spoken to any girl for the past 6 years. after my last relationship, it filled me with so much agony and disturbance that even the sight of stranger woman make feel disgusting.
and I’m also not gay. i just don’t like women. everyone of them talks about values, care and love and cheats behind your back . I’ve seen almost every friend of mine finding out about cheating their gf/wifey doing while they’re on work. or I think it’s soo common among military man these days. we spend lot of time outside of country so they do what they wanna do.
You’d be surprised how many of us have zero intention of entering a relationship again.
Everyone’s limit is different, but for some is us you lose not just your partner but everything you built together. So in order to not lose like that again you put walls up. They make come down in time, they may not.
Some of us amateur learning that enough is enough. We don’t want to risk what little we have left, especially our sanity, for people that just aren’t worth the effort. I imagine there’s a lot of women out there feeling the same way.
I romantically kept to myself for longer than that. Once you start to separate sexual desire from the desire for companionship, you might find that one isn’t that important to you and the other can be found in many places.
I’m quite shy. I’m 26 and I haven’t dated anyone, so yeah. We exist
Yes, perfectly normal and very common. Kinda crazy to assume all men must be constantly, ravenously chasing some form of romantic or sexual gratification.
I completely avoided any interaction like that for nearly 3 years in my early mid 20s because I got burnt out from previous interactions with exhausting women, and I wanted to focus on my career and filling my free time with experiences I wanted.
I have literally never tried in my life. I don’t see the point. I’ve never been wanted by anyone, and I’ve only ever had feelings when I get close to someone first, so why approach at all knowing no good will come out of it?