What are people’s reactions when they see you with a younger-looking girlfriend? 🤔 #dating #agegap #relationshipadvice
Curious about what others think when they notice your significant other looks particularly youthful? Let’s explore common perceptions and how to handle them with confidence. 🌟
People’s Reactions to a Young-Looking Girlfriend
– Some may assume she is much younger than she actually is.
– Others might question the dynamics of your relationship.
– People could make unfair judgments based on appearances.
– Some may simply be curious about your love story.
Handling Others’ Perceptions
1. Communicate openly and honestly about your relationship.
2. Embrace your unique connection and ignore outside opinions.
3. Educate others on the importance of not judging based on looks.
4. Surround yourself with supportive friends and family who appreciate your happiness.
5. Focus on the love and connection you share, rather than external appearances.
Remember, love knows no age and true happiness comes from within. Embrace your relationship proudly, no matter what others may think. 💕 #lovewins #ageisjustanumber
You spend too much time on the internet. Literally nobody in real life would actually care. People really don’t pay that much attention other than to spare an errant thought about the people around them.
For 99% of people, it’s no big deal. But every once in a while, I see a woman my age seething in anger and resentment over it. Because apparently, she has a God-given right to date men like me and my twenty-something match is cutting in line or something.
I pity women like that, tbh.
Bet she’ll look good for her age at 50.
If she’s your age then who cares?
bro who gives a fuck. you care way too much about what people think. you’re not dating a 13 yr old she is 24 just live your life.
No ones cares honestly about it. It’s between you and her
Get her smoking 2 packs a day and having a kid or 2. Her appearance will age a decade in no time.
Bruh, more often than not they mistook her for my daughter. Really funny or embarrassing times can be had from it. Like the time a woman tried talking to me about how my ‘daughter’ is so adorable and she sees and comes over shouting,”Hey, stop trying to flirt with my man.” Or when some dude asked if her ‘dad’ was buying her stuff and she turns and looks at me and goes,” Yeah daddy, are you going to be buying me anything?”
LE: I noticed the group is Ask Men. I’m not a man, my bad!!! this ended up on my for you page or whatever. I don’t mean to intrude!!!
if it makes you feel better I’m 25 and I get mistaken for a high schooler all the time. my boyfriend is 27 and he looks his age.
our friends always joke about me looking like a kid/ underage.
on top of everything I have more of a “streetwear” style while my boyfriend is more casual/ business so that plays a part of us looking different ages.
end of the day we giggle about it but nobody cares, nobody accuses him of being a P word.
we started dating when we were in high school and even then people said I looked younger than my age. again, nobody cared.
When I first started seeing one partner. I was 3 years older and she was 19 but looked young and she even had a higher pitch voice. First reaction from my brother was “did you ID her?”. Wait a couple years people have a habit of ageing out of that.
Also have a sense of humour about it “Yeah she looks 13, but I assure you she gives head like a 15 year old”
Homie, are they dating her or you? If not who gives a fuck what they think
I’m (21f) dating someone (28m) I found on Bumble. I am around 5′ 5″ and look the same as I did when I was 13. I also would worry that others will think something weird of him and I, but over time I’ve realized that I don’t need to feel guilty or anxious because I look young and it really isn’t anyone else’s business. I believe that those important to you will see who she is and that you are a good match for one another. When I meet my boyfriend’s family soon, they’ll see for themselves who I am and how I live my life – I’m no party monkey.
Yes. I didn’t care.
She’s 24, who cares what she looks like. If somebody is staring at you two just ignore it, life is too short to worry about little things
Also, I’m a guy, so not sure if it applies, but I look 13-14 at 20. If a girl broke up with me because I look young I’d be really upset
My wife is almost 35 (I’m as well) and she’s just under 5″ and has a case of baby face as well, also usually has to shop at kids’ clothing department. She gets asked for ID when buying alcohol.
Am a tall ponytail guy with unkempt beard.
I guess people might get some funny ideas watching us together but I don’t give a crap 🙂
Just tell people she’s your cousin or niece
Jk, if they really need to know, which they don’t, she can show her id.
I worried about this with me and my boyfriend because I am often mistaken for a 15 year old but it’s never been an issue at all
My gf has always looked younger than she is. Never had a problem even in the early days. Only thing I can think of was one time a schoolboy tried to chat her up thinking I was her dad… she was 30 at the time 😂
Conversely, I’ve always looked much older. I’ll never forget the look of utter disgust on the face of a woman at a perfume shop when I told her the girl I was buying for wasn’t “mature” and that the present was for her 18th birthday. She clearly thought I was some sort of cradle snatcher… I was 19 at the time 😭
Majority of normal people won’t care.
If someone does bring it up, that’s very telling about them as a person.
Why do you care what others think.
My fiancé also looked baby face when we started dating 8 years ago, but shes 1 year younger than me; they asked to see her ID whenever we went out to a club/bar and I thought it was funny.
You’re 2 grown adults choosing to be together, fk the rest.
I remember I was dating a 16 year old girl and people who didn’t know us were concerned. I was 15 BTW, but I was already 6’4 (I’m 6’5 now) and had a solid goatee, except in wrestling season when I had to be cleaned shaven.
The looks we got were funny but I was younger than her!
People think my girlfriend is my daughter. It does not bother me. I just brush it off. Sometimes I even go along with it and pretend she is my daughter rather than start explaining stuff.
After high school I dated a 4’6” 79 pound gymnast. I am 5’11” 200lbs. She used to go shopping in the Junior’s department because it was cheaper and a few people talked to me about hanging around the kids section of the store. The funny thing was she was 6 months older than me. I’m glad people were looking out for her and I understand their concern. She was amused by it.
Lol ask my dad. He’s actually 3 years younger but my mum got carded well into her 60s. He looks old for his age. Not sure how he handled it but I’m sure it came up more than once
lol I’m 31 and my gf is 25. My friends make jabs all in good fun asking if she graduated high school or if she’s old enough to drink. Ignore the haters there’s nothing wrong with your relationship
I’m a 24 year old guy and a lot of people think I look younger than my age. For reference, I was asked recently if I was still in high school (this is usually not the typical opinion but just an example I’m using). Most people who “look” like a typical 24 year old aren’t usually interested in me. Usually the people who are into me also look a bit younger or are in fact younger. But, if they’re within your age range and are an adult, which is the case, it’s no big deal.
My fiancée is half my age (I’m old). She often dresses an aesthetic that makes her look younger than she is. She was also very tiny when we met which made her look even younger.
I don’t know what people think because I don’t care. Her family loves me. They accept me. The rest of the world can piss off.
A four year difference is nothing. Don’t stress. As long as you’re treating each other well than anyone with a problem with it is the one being problematic.
Lol are you my boyfriend and I?😅😅
Who cares. If someone says something you or her can tell them your age. Your friends and family should be the least of your concerns because they’d be the ones to take your word for it.
I dated a guy who is a year younger than me but looks quite young, like ten years younger than me. If people said anything it was usually just assuming we’re brothers. So what, if you’re happy together.
Most guys would be like dam wish it was me
Fuck em
You’re a fool if you’d break up with someone you like because of what other people think.
it is her age what matters, not how she looks young. 4 years difference and you are both above 18, don’t worry about this shit. Stupid reason to ditch the girl if you like her.
You’re having a good time with a 24 year old lady who happens to look a little young? You’re fine. Stop worrying so much what other people think about it and live your life.
screw what other people think, enjoy life. If you’re in it for the long haul, you’ll have a young looking wife/partner and everyone else’s will look old.
I’d be doing stuff like this at every opportunity.
My wife is 5 months, 3 days younger than me, but when I left the military for a civilian job at age 26 for both of us, my new boss thought she was 18. He got a really weird look when I mentioned our upcoming 5th anniversary. Then he got really embarrassed when I told him we married after she finished college.
Be in the right, as you are, and just laugh at assuming fools. But maybe she should always carry ID…
Bro she’s 24 and you like her, you’ll be a fool to break up because of what others think. Anyway in 10 years there opinions will turn to envy lol
I didn’t care. Sure it the girls looks like 12 (real 12, like a kid not normal compared to club goers) and you look like a 27 year old youth Pastor….. hmm yeah icky.
But why would you care, if you like her and she likes you why do you bother about others?
Do you know the story about the old couple and the donkey? No matter how they treated the donkey people complained and told them they are wrong.
Don’t break it off! Stop worrying!
A lady here 🙋🏻♀️ lol my partner and I are just the same age. When we first met he thought I was underaged and still goes to high school hahaha from time to time I get IDed in random places that needs to be 18+ and he has gotten used to it. He also communicates to me whenever he feel uneasy like one time, his friend get to ask us when are we two going to live together and I always say I have to graduate first which he quips with saying back that I had to let people know that I am in college, not in high school 🤣