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Hey there, Twitterverse! So the other day, my girlfriend and I were out and about when suddenly, not one, but multiple older men decided to express their inappropriate thoughts about her! 🤢 Like, seriously dude, not cool!
Now, I don’t know about you, but when older men hit on my girlfriend, I can’t help but feel a bit queasy. 🤮 But, here’s the plot twist – I lowkey find older women attractive myself! 🤷♂️
So my burning question is, do women feel the same way I do when it comes to creepy older men hitting on them? Or do they actually feel flattered, like guys do when they get attention from cougars? 🐆
Hit me up in the comments and let’s discuss! Do you find it as creepy as I do when older men make inappropriate advances? Or maybe you feel differently? Let’s unravel this mystery together! 🕵️♂️💬 #JoinTheConversation #CuriousMinds #TwitterPolls 🤔
As a woman it is creepy AF for a guy old enough to be my father talking to or about me like that.
No it’s creepy
As a woman that stuff starts young. I’ve been having grown men try and talk to me since I was 11
A little older is okay…
Older than my dad: Creepy as hell.
For me, Pretty much the same for women if they were old enough to be my mother.
However, If both parties are ok with it and of age, I don’t care. Not my monkeys, not my circus.
I certainly dont. But the fact you use the term “girl” for a 25 years old may be part of that puzzle there. Women are often infantilized by men their own age.
Yes, it disgusts me right away. Ever since I was 11-12, I would get creepy stares and comments from men who looked old enough to be my grandpa. The ick has only gotten stronger with years
Eew, where are you two hanging out that she is getting this kind of attention? It’s kind of rude for anyone regardless of age to hit on your partner while you are with them.
Man in my 50s. I cannot imagine ever telling another dude that I’d hit on his partner. Full stop.
That’s fucked up.
It’s creepy, but unfortunately we’re used to it. Like some other commenters, this also started for me when I was around 11 – 12.
yes.
It is extremely creepy for anyone to go up to a stranger and say they’d like to sleep with them.
Generally yes. Most women start experiencing men inappropriately sexualizing them very young. I experienced my worst sexual harassment around 14-16 from men out in public. I think they are disgusting.
And on top of that, I have known older men who I respected, and saw as a sort of mentor turn around and proposition me. Like teachers or bosses. When you have a relationship like that that was valuable to you turn out like that it is really heartbreaking.
There are the rare sort of men though that are attractive as older men, because they have their shit together. They are smart, with lots of life experiences, and most importantly they do not creep on younger women. And if they are in a relationship with a younger woman, they aren’t together *because* she is younger. A lot of gross creepers think they are this guy when they hit 40, but they are absolutely not.
There’s four billion women in the world. It would be surprising if they all had the same feelings on the subject.
It’s one thing to find other people attractive, it’s a whole other thing to sexualize and objectify women regardless of age. It’s disgusting and sadly way too common.
21 here. I get hit on mainly by men starting from 40 to 60-70.
Up to 40 it is still ok, around 50 it starts to get really disturbing, around 60 disgusting, 50 yeah I creep out and lose faith in humanity.
I must specify that I generally am super comfortable and fine with liking and finding attractive older men around or in their 30s so yeah probably another person would set the bsr lower than I do.
God, yes. Most young women find it creepy and kind of tragic that the dudes don’t realise.
The creepiness factor is heightened by age but this is creepy coming from anyone
As a guy, I’d say that’s creepy. Like old school creepy.. Again, men who do not respect women.
I hated this and I am quite sure it’s one of the main factors of why I developed social anxiety.
I want to I know where you and your girlfriend are hanging out that has so many creepy and inappropriate men approaching you.
Women go through this even as children. Yes. It’s creepy asf.
I am in my late 40s, I find it creepy when I myself even think about doing that kinda crap.
No. We found it creepy and pathetic in our 20s. In our 50s we see it for the predatory behavior it is. Certain men love to think older women are bitter. We may be, but not over this. We remember what it was like being 20 and having to humor creepy old men. Now we are older, with more life experience, we see how dangerous and predatory they are and we see now why they were always hanging around us when we were younger.
I’m in my 30s now but yes in my 20s I always found it creepy when older guys hit on me or made comments.
Creepy older men started hitting on me since I was 11/12. It’s fucking gross.I just ignore them.
Just wait until you find out what age this starts happening to them. The old guys who hit on me when i was 22 were the same old guys who would hit on me at 13
As an older guy myself, im so glad that im not attracted to younger women. It just always looks creepy to me.
Well, these guys saying these things are truly creepy.
Yes, it’s creepy as fuck. I’m nearing 40, and it never stops being creepy. It’s not just that they say things, it’s what and how they say it. Very objectifying, like because I’m younger than them they can just talk to me how they want.
And the way they talk… It’s like they’re starving after not having anything to eat for days or weeks, and somebody dropped their most favorite food in front of them.
It’s scary. Really scary.
Most people of either gender would probably say yes
but despite that, every day here we see threads where there’s an age gap of 10+ years so a lot of people are willing to look past that creepiness for one reason or another.
What did you think was going to happen with this thread? Do you think people were gonna be like ‘no man it’s fucking rad when old dudes hit on young girls who are in a relationship.’
Well to be honest I’d find a person saying me what and how he would do with me really creepy regardless of age unless we’re like really close.
I’m a older man, and to me a woman under 40 is a kid. In the twenties I find them as silly kids
As amother yes, ifind it absolutely creepy. Ive heard alot of old men saying that when i was younger. Its absolutely crass and they know they wouldn’t even have a chance .
What kind of man lets someone say that to them? LOL. You are getting punked.
Believe me older men and even younger ones will definitely hit on you no matter what
Yes, we find it very creepy.
Yes. I’m 36 and get men in their mid 50s to 60s asking me out. It makes me feel weird.
Very creepy indeed.
Unsolicited sexual advances are always creepy and weird.
It’s not about the age, although I acknowledge that older men are more often in that predatory category. It doesn’t matter the age though. Or the gender.
I’m a 27F and I’ve had sexual harassment from every type of person. Other young women, older women, younger men, and older men. No one is excluded from sexual harassment. Anyone can do it.
But yeah, those comments are fucking weird. It’s really disrespectful to hit on someone’s partner right in front of their partner.