#IronyInFemaleBehavior #WomenContradictions #SayVsDoGenderGap
🤔 Oh, the endless mysteries of women’s behavior! Have you ever noticed how what they say can sometimes be completely different from how they actually behave? Let’s dive into some intriguing examples of this unique gender paradox!
Mixed Messages: Saying One Thing, Doing Another
1. **Independence vs. Co-dependence**: Women often preach about being strong, independent individuals, yet they can sometimes fall into co-dependent relationships where they rely heavily on their partners for validation and support.
2. **Body Positivity vs. Body Shaming**: While advocating for body positivity and self-love, women may still fall victim to self-criticism and comparison to unrealistic beauty standards.
Real-life Scenarios: Unveiling the Irony
– **Feminist Warriors**: Women who proudly proclaim themselves as feminists might still conform to traditional gender roles in their own relationships without even realizing it.
– **Social Media vs. Reality**: Women posting about self-love and confidence on social media could be struggling with self-esteem issues behind the scenes.
Can Words and Actions Ever Align?
In a world full of contradictory messages and expectations, it’s essential to recognize that women, like everyone else, are complex beings with their own struggles and imperfections. The key is to embrace these contradictions and strive for authenticity in both words and actions.
Remember, appearance can be deceiving, and what meets the eye is not always the full picture. Let’s continue to unravel the mysteries of human behavior, one irony at a time! 💁♀️🔍
#GenderContradictions #AuthenticityMatters #UnveilingTheTruth
Yeah the whole dynamic you describe only works if the man is giving out prospective boyfriend energy(Always arranging hangouts, willing to do favors for free, ect.) while they basically don’t contribute.
If you want a friendship with a dude who’s not trying to smash you need a dude who’s not on your dick 24/7 and you need to contribute to the relationship, platonic as it is.
They don’t like misogyny
[They can’t stop fucking misogynists](https://europepmc.org/backend/ptpmcrender.fcgi?accid=PMC4842162&blobtype=pdf)
‘I’m on my period/I’m menopausal/I’m pregnant/I’ve recently given birth, so I should get a pass for anything I say or do during this period that, on reflection I would like to disassociate myself from later.’
I know women find emotional regulation harder in these periods *but* how many women behave poorly either to their boss in work or their personal friends compared to their partner at home? Obviously there is still a good deal of self control possible it’s just reserved for people who matter to them.
Women claim to be great at communicating, but when you ask her if she wants anything when you are getting something to eat and she says no and she gets mad you don’t get her food.
“…women lament about men only wanting to fuck them and never wanting to be just friends with women…” 1.all due exceptions to assholes (nor am I being an asshole myself) but a man that is outright about his intentions (only wanting to fuck) is better than one who pretends; saves him time and saves her a heartbreak. 2.No man (nobody for that matter) *has to* be friends with someone who rejects them. Kinda manipulative to have impose friendship on someone that needed lesser or more. A man (or anybody) that walks away in respect of rejection must also deserves respect for his opinion to cut ties or move on. 3.You shouldn’t be friends with women to make a point that men can be just friends (not that I think you are, but the point remains) 4.A female friend (or male) that only lets you initiate conversations/hangout plans, is not a friend. All relationships are two way streets, at least they’re supposed to be
How much nerdy women talk about what they deal with from nerdy guys in nerdy communities, only to do the same stuff when they are the majority or something like that. It’s just a bit more severe as there’s not much social pressure for them to not be like that. It’s just so weird with how much people talk about fandoms for Star Wars and other things are male echo chambers and all that. Yet comfort show fandoms do all of that and nobody seems to be bothered by it as much.
The whole “emotional intelligence” shtick. If y’all really are that emotionally intelligent then how is it possible for a man, who is supposedly far less emotionally intelligent than you inherently, to be confusing to you?
Yes means no, and no means no. Ie. Went for ice cream at Mcdees for $1 cones. Kids gets one, I get one, wife says no. We order, get the cones.. now she’s sizing up my cone. I offer her mine, she eats half of it. I get half of 1. I drive back to Mcdees and order another one; kids are protesting why I get 2?.. Nope.. everyone is getting 2. (Since I only got 1/2) hehe.
Women claim to be the empathetic and fairer sex, nope. They would have you dragged through the mud if you slight her. Hey the saying “hell hath no fury like a woman scorned” exists for a reason, it’s not misogyny or sexism, it’s the truth. Also, women make the best spies too. They weaponise the social stuff heavily. It is actually men that are empathetic and the romantic ones. Women are the brutes socially but do a great act to convince the world otherwise
Nothing is ironic if you remember two things:
1. Women don’t know what they want.
2. Women instinctively lie about what they do know.
Women: “why don’t you ever open up to me? I just want you to open up so I can know more about you”
Also women when they get mad after you opened up: “thats why yo daddy left you, because he didn’t want to raise a bastard failure like you! Fatherless Bitch!”
I’ve never had a man say something like this to me because a man that hates me would never be interested in my life, and a man that cares about me would never insult me like this
Opening up is a sensitive thing for a man to do and when that is betrayed, it is usually unforgivable.
Women’s intuition.
Way too many of them fuck guys with no job and no car And two kids he doesn’t take care of, get knocked up, then act surprised when he runs off
For there to be any such thing.
Women claim they like men who are sensitive and are ok with sharing their feelings and crying in front of their partners. Every woman I’ve been in a relationship with would be horrified with a man who was like that. Women actually love masculine, manly men who just get on with things in my experience. I don’t understand why they pretend that they want sensitive men.
Women just say who they want to be not who they are. Also women especially those who are vocally feminist, should sometimes do the “work” and see if their expectations and beliefs are feminist. I mean, most men in my life arent really feminist or shitty at that, but i find women too, not too great in that regard, when it comes to disregarding gender roles.
Women’s dating advice for men is worth shit because of the difference between what they say and how they act. The types of guys they usually dislike happens to be the ones attractive to them in many ways. They’ll say looks don’t matter when they clearly do. They’ll give advice about stuff they clearly know nothing about and that they don’t apply in their personal lives, usually because they never had to. In case their own dating lives meet an unhappy ending, then all guys are suddenly bad guys when more than half of them are basically NPCs to them.
Now probably the most overused subject in the internet is them talking about men being open about their feelings and insecurities and how they actually react to them. It’s been years and years since this contradiction exists yet people don’t seem to notice or shit on the ones that do. People still think guys read shit like this online and treat it as gospel or think their parents sit with them and teach them as a life lesson. This is LEARNED IN PRACTICE.
Who cares what women say.
But do care what women do!
Opening up. They’re repulsed by it. I think every young man had this realisation one day unfortunately.
Women are absolutely awful at communicating their thoughts and feelings.
Their lack of basic social skills in that regard is appalling. There is a much higher chance of lies, hints or blocking than simply telling the truth.
They seem to be pretty bad at putting themselves in somebody else’s position.
Most of these don’t apply to my wife because she’s mostly pretty awesome (she’s never react negatively about me opening up about painful things for example) but…
“Women do more emotional labor than men”
Also
“You now must listen to me complain about my friends doing the same stupid shit they always do without offering any advice or solutions and pretend like you give a shit, when you know they’re going to do the exact same stupid shit next month.”
They keep dating same guy that broke their heart. Then claim all are the same.
Girl Power!!!…Sisterhood. I would truly love to see it but please stop with the fakeness.
I’ve heard the same women talk about not shaming others, be the biggest critics about everything when given the opportunity. Have you heard the terrible things that they say about another woman once she’s walked away?
Telling you to go to therapy to fix your “obvious” emotional “trauma” yet being unable to tell when a dude obviously is only wanting to fuck you and dip after talking for 3 hrs on Tinder
Women often say men are terrible at understanding their own emotions or introspection in general when most women I’ve actually met and just about every woman I’ve seen online are TERRIBLE at introspection. There are entire communities set up by women to gaslight each other into convenient narratives that prevent them from coming to unpleasant or uncomfortable realizations about themselves and whole lexicons of vague euphemisms that allow women to avoid expressing, to others or themselves, the truths they’d rather leave in the dark. Men aren’t good at this either but I honestly think, while most humans suck at it, women might actually be worse at it. Absolute MASTERS of self-deception though.
They are strong and independent until things become dangerous or hard or someone has to be held accountable, then they are helpless children who we need to take care of.
Women are Schrodinger’s gender, adult and child at the same time until they determine which state is to their advantage in a given situation. Must be nice to have it both ways. Talk about a privilege.
No means no. Except when it doesn’t and you’re dense for missing signals or not playing a game.
I’ve lurked around askwomen too much to know how much generalisation hurts…so on behalf of all men I’m gonna add “Not all women but the ones who….”
“Don’t refer to women as females.” Then they turn around and use the terms male and female constantly. If you point it out though, you’re an asshole.
Them complaining about our communication skills is actually fucking hilarious
they gatekeep what a real men is supposed to be like but can’t accept of what we deemed as a real woman.
Easily about opening up. There’s a lot of women who want that trust element but not the information part, it’s almost like they want you to open up about happy things only
Most of my female friends stopped talking to me when I gained weight, which speaks volumes.
In hindsight I was probably seen as a backup plan.
I find it intriguing how women are often touted as the more socially adept and communicative gender, yet many exhibit a peculiar form of ‘selective hearing’ when it comes to men. Take for instance the classic scenario: a man openly discusses his struggles or seeks advice—responses range from engaged and supportive to dismissive or even hostile, depending on her mood or interest level. They say they want authenticity, yet when men are nothing but genuine, whether it will be met with understanding or used as ammo in future disputes is a coin toss. It’s as if the social script does a 180: “Be real with me,” but also, “Hold up, not like that.” It’s a paradoxical game where the rules are clear as mud, and it’s not just frustrating; it leaves one wondering if the goalposts were ever stationary, to begin with.
Save the planet while I waste half the food I buy.
There’s so much plastic waste while I have forty little containers so my lunch looks pretty and a have 100 beauty products in plastic bottles.
The power bill is so expensive while all the lights are on.
I tried treating my wife the way she treats me and my marriage fell apart. I did nothing for her. I didn’t touch her. I wasn’t there for her emotionally. Just like she did for me for years. Amazing what happens when you tell them the truth.
Women demand to be treated special, with deference, protecting their feelings, supportive and nurtured.
But women also refuse to be treated like children.
Make it Make sense!
Women say they want “nice guys who are gentleman”, then they throw themselves at vulgar tough guys that treat them like shit.
Also, the “let’s honestly communicate” one is pretty rich, too.
Another classic is “Open up and tell me about your vulnerabilities because I want to support you.”