#LostHope #LifeCrisis #CareerChange #RelationshipWoes
Hey everyone, let’s rally around our fellow comrade who’s feeling lost and hopeless right now. 🤝 Let’s show some support and share our thoughts on how to navigate through tough times like these.
Here’s a quick rundown of the situation:
– Completed engineering degree in 2023
– Worked as a software engineer for 10 months
– Got laid off and realized coding wasn’t the passion
– Girlfriend dumped right after layoff
– Feeling completely lost and unsure about the future
Here’s an idea that might help you find your way out of this dark tunnel:
– Take some time for self-reflection and introspection
– Explore different career options that align with your interests
– Consider seeking guidance from career counselors or life coaches
– Focus on personal growth and self-care to boost your mental well-being
Remember, it’s okay to feel lost and defeated at times, but there’s always light at the end of the tunnel. Hang in there, buddy! 💪 Let’s all lend a helping hand and share some words of wisdom to lift our friend’s spirits up.
Your gf wasn’t really the one if all it took to break up with you, was losing your job. You should work part time as an engineer and begin exploring other subjects and careers that may interest you. Good luck on your pivot.
23 mate so much life ahead of you , completing your engineering degree the world is literally your oyster , and well done by the way that’s some achievement !! It’s hard for me to say much about your g f bro other then your young there’s plenty out there !
Become a Navy engineering officer? Gives you more qualifications, guaranteed job security and income, progression, purpose, travel and friends?
Take some time to just feel. Dont avoid it process it, write stuff down. Engineering degree takes alot of effort, you did fantastic to achieve that. Meaning you have the drive within you to find something.
“Coding does not excite” – and it shouldn’t. Best engineers i ever worked with told me their job is just job. Nothing else. That’s why they don’t quit. It’s the “passionate” engineer the first one to give up, cause he is not “passionate” anymore….
I’m 23 too bro I’ve had the same feelings but we gone make it through
It’s one thing to say you feel lost, another to say you have lost all hope. What exactly have you lost. You are 23. Most people at your age are just starting out. Imagine people here posting here in their 30s. What should they do? I really can’t understand what people at your age are thinking these days. Do you want to run for president or something. Well you can still do that….jeez
If they dumped you after your layoff, that wasn’t your girlfriend to begin with
Look into higher studies for the kind of work you want in future.