#BoyfriendDrama #MovingOut #RelationshipAdvice
Hey everyone, so first of all, I just want to say thank you for all the support and advice you’ve given me so far. I really appreciate it!
So, here’s the deal – I was thinking about moving in with my boyfriend in July, but things have taken a turn. His living situation has become a bit complicated, and he’s now asking me to find a place and possibly move out by June 1st. I was already hesitant about moving in, and this sudden timeline has thrown me for a loop.
I mean, let’s be real here, I’m tired of feeling like I’m the one paying for everything and not getting much in return. And now, his reaction when I hesitated about moving out has me questioning everything even more. He basically flipped out on me and threatened to break up because I couldn’t give him an immediate yes.
But then, he tells me he can move in with his mom, who apparently had some choice words for me. And let’s just say, I’m not too thrilled about it.
So, what would you do if you were in my shoes? Share your thoughts and advice below, and let’s figure this out together! #HelpMeDecide #RelationshipIssues
Let’s get talking! 😊👠🏡
I’m not too sure what advice you’re looking for – he dumped you, it’s over. In my opinion, he did you a huge favour breaking up with you. If moving in together isn’t an easy yes, it should be a no. Wishing you a nicer person in the future OP
I’m so glad he broke up with you. He’s abusive both physically and emotionally and verbally. And financially. Do not take him back. He’s also told his mom a total fairy tale. You have done for him and not vice versa. I would strongly suggest seeking therapy because on every other level, you sound like a smart young woman.
The trash took itself out. Good – leave it there and don’t take it back.
Please stop talking shit about yourself!
I promise that you will absolutely never regret this decision. You did the right thing, and he did you a favour. Stay strong!! Before you know it you will be in a MUCH happier place.
Cut him off and never look back!!
I’m sure his mom said none of that, starting now just assume everything he says is a lie and manipulative
You lucked out honey.
Be thankful he broke up with you. He’s a terrible abusive person. You deserve better. Take it as a blessing and move on. Watch for red flags in the future.
There’s a bonus in this. When you are inexperienced (not dumb, girl, you are not) men like this help you to make some tough skin on your back. You’re going to be very picky with the next.
Also, you’ve been able to stand for yourself, definitively not dumb girl move, no?
You are not stupid!! Stop with all that! The most brilliant people can end up in an abusive relationship and it’s not a reflection of who you are at all! I’m so happy he broke up with you. Keep him blocked. Forget he existed and move on with your wonderful self. He is no longer your problem.
It sounds like you need to get away from that situation. It may not seem like it now, but there are other options out there and you will find someone who treats you better, as long as you keep your standards high.
Omg you’re free and you’re going to be so happy once you truly realize how free you are. Block him and his mom and move on with your life!
Being alone forever is much better than being with a guy like this. I am so glad you are no longer a couple, no matter how you got there.
Please don’t take him back under any circumstances. You deserve to be treated respectfully and with dignity.
You’ve lost nothing that was worth keeping. I know it hurts right now, but you know in your heart that he was bad news. Please take a lesson from it: don’t drag out a bad relationship for years and years. Do some reflection on what you want, what you deserve, and next time walk away if the guy treats you poorly. 25 is so young. You’ve crammed a lifetime’s worth of relationship lessons in before even reaching 30. Apply them going forward and you’ll be set.
Good. You dodged that toxic bullet. You can do better.
Don’t. Ever. Talk about yourself like that.
At some point (not yet, but at some point), you’ll see this was the best thing for you. It feels sucky right now, totally normal and legit, but you will be glad later that you saw his true colors sooner rather than later.
Remember to block him. He WILL try to get back into your life. Bolt that door shut.
This was your first relationship. Nothing about your relationship was good or healthy. Learn to spot the red flags early on. Do not repeat this, because that happens so often.
Please, please, please don’t get back together with him.