#SelfReflection #OvercomingAdversity #Motivation
Hey there, friend. It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time right now, but please know that you are not alone. Failure and setbacks are a part of life, but they don’t define you.
Here are a few things to consider that might help you turn things around:
– Take a step back and reflect on what is truly important to you. What are your passions and goals?
– Break down your goals into small, manageable steps. Every little victory counts!
– Seek support from friends, family or a professional therapist. It can be incredibly helpful to talk things out with someone who cares about you.
– Don’t be too hard on yourself. Everyone makes mistakes, but it’s how we learn and grow from them that matters.
Remember, it’s never too late to make a change and start building a better future for yourself. You have the power to turn things around and create a life that you’re proud of. 🌟 #YouGotThis
You woke up today, you already won. Everything else is extra.
Same here you’re not alone.
Hang in there bro, I would start with looking for something you can learn for free online. For instance harvard has plenty of courses online for free thats just a recording of the course.
Can start with learning something for free that can help you advance or keep looking for work that has better pay/opportunities.
I’m 30 years old, 4 years ago I lost everything.
I had no credit due to messing it up, my business fumbled and I had no money. Every cc, loan Id apply to would get denied.
Went back home COVID 2020, dad told me I had to be out within under a year of being there. Got work and just kept at it.
Now I’m a manager,
You’re here and can change even if it comes later in life.
As lame as it sounds, it’s not over til you say it’s over. Just waking up puts you at an advantage people don’t have, being a functioning healthy person gives you another.
It’s okay to fail. Everyone fails at something. Maybe it’s winter season in your life but seasons change. The sun will come up tomorrow.
I’m 52 (tomorrow) and at the same point as yourself, expect I have HS and some college (no diploma). It is hard, but I still struggle every day to make it through. I’m alone, have four cats, some hobbies and small side hussle, but everything else is the same. I’m on meds to help me mood and anxiety (thankfully in Canada where healthcare is covered), but still not great. Have I thought about why am I still here? Absolutely. Your post triggered something in me though, to realize that at 33, I was just really starting to live my life, an the rest is a wild story.
You got this – lots of great suggestions in other responses before mine, some that I may even look into myself!
Push through the pain. Giving up hurts more
I am from Canberra. I have been working in IT industry for 26 years and I am 52. I have switched my career from tester to db developer. I love data but I hate job. I am in public sector and I am fed up of petty politics, incompetent management, no appreciation. My personal life~ married. I feel my life is a drag . No enthusiasm or motivation. I am in depression meds, don’t think it works. My sex life is basically non existent. Watch porn but even that in find stale. I don’t understand what I am doing or going to do. Sometimes I feel like a 9-5 zombie. Life sucks big time . I watch others climb up the ladder with no fuss. At work I get undermined all the time. I feel that I have a target drawn on my back for everyone to have a go at me. Just sucks…