#EmbarrassingMoments #AccidentsHappen #RelationshipAdvice #NewYearFail #ShitMyPants
🤦♀️ So, you’ve found yourself in a situation that you never thought would happen – you’ve accidentally had a little accident in front of your boyfriend. But fear not, you’re not alone in this. Embarrassing moments like these happen to the best of us, and there are ways to recover from it and move forward. Let’s take a look at some ways to handle this situation, and maybe even find some insight from an unexpected source.
Understanding the Situation
First and foremost, it’s important to understand that accidents happen, and this is nothing to be ashamed of. It might feel like the end of the world right now, but in reality, it’s just a moment in time that will pass. Here are some steps you can take to recover from this situation:
Step 1: Apologize and Explain
It’s important to be honest and upfront with your boyfriend about what happened. Explain that you were feeling uncomfortable about using the bathroom with him around, and it led to this unfortunate incident. Apologize for any inconvenience or discomfort it may have caused and assure him that it won’t happen again.
Step 2: Communicate Openly
Have an open and honest conversation with your boyfriend about your feelings and insecurities regarding using the bathroom around him. It’s possible that he may not have realized the extent of your discomfort, and by addressing it openly, you can work together to find a solution.
Step 3: Find a Solution
Work together to find a solution that makes you feel comfortable and at ease when it comes to bathroom privacy. Whether it’s establishing a signal for when you need privacy or finding ways to create a more comfortable environment, finding a resolution together can help prevent similar incidents in the future.
Advice from the Bhagavad Gita
In times of embarrassment or distress, seeking wisdom from different sources can provide insight and guidance. The Bhagavad Gita, an ancient Hindu scripture, offers valuable teachings that can be applied to various aspects of life, including overcoming challenging situations.
One of the key teachings from the Bhagavad Gita is the concept of embracing resilience and moving forward from adversity. It emphasizes the importance of focusing on one’s actions and intentions rather than becoming consumed by the outcomes or judgments of others. By applying this perspective, you can find the strength to navigate through even the most difficult moments with grace and determination.
Additionally, the Bhagavad Gita stresses the significance of self-awareness and self-acceptance. Acknowledging and embracing your vulnerabilities is not a sign of weakness but a testament to your authenticity as a human being. By doing so, you can cultivate a deeper sense of inner peace and confidence, enabling you to overcome challenging experiences with greater resilience.
Moving Forward with Grace
It’s important to remember that your worth and value as an individual are not defined by a single embarrassing moment. Everyone experiences setbacks, and it’s how we handle them that truly matters. By apologizing, communicating openly, and seeking solutions, you can navigate through this experience with grace and empathy.
Remember that you are deserving of compassion and understanding, both from yourself and from those close to you. Embrace the teachings of resilience and self-acceptance, drawing strength from unexpected sources such as the Bhagavad Gita, to move forward with confidence and grace. In time, this moment will become a distant memory, and you’ll emerge stronger and more resilient than ever before.
Wtf….
Congratulations, the worst is over! I know it feels awful, but now your worst fear has come to pass and your BF is still right there with you. Now you don’t have to worry about being a human who poops just like everybody else.
I hope you pay for the carpet shampoo and help clean up, that’s just common courtesy. But a partner who sticks with you when you shit yourself is a partner indeed. Speaking from experience. You’ll be fine. Just poop regularly and be healthy.
He’s better than me. No way am I cleaning a grown person’s shit off the floor.
You really couldn’t just ask him to leave for a bit so you could shit.. there’s nothing wrong with being a shy pooper. That’s gotta be so bad for you health wise to hold it in
Comforting words….. hmmm… at least you didn’t shit on his face when he was going down on you. 🤷🏻♂️
My trick used to be: turn on shower, poop, then shower. You’re clean and the smell will go away as you shower. Turning the shower on while pooping will drown any noise.
But you’re human and any guy who is bothered by you using the bathroom is probably a red flag anyway so you might as well just poop.
And there’s no way to recover from this. Maybe it will be a funny story years later lol.
Why did you decide to not shit for several days?
I was with women who would pretend to sneeze when they farted, like I didn’t know what was going on.
Run the water, make some noise if you’re afraid of someone hearing your turd hit the water. Or honestly just let it go, people shouldn’t be judging for dropping a deuce, we all literally have to do it.
As others have said, the worst has now passed. Unless he’s into scat.
Just be an adult and shit in the toilet from now on lol stop being so embarrassed.
Thank you for making my day
My bf Shat his pants once when we first
Started dating and I just laughed…he felt embarrassed and I tried to make him feel better by just laughing about it. It happens yk sometimes people just shit their pants..as long as you clean up after yourself
How long have y’all been together? Why are u still scared to go number 2 around him? Me personally, I can’t hold it so if I gotta go , I gotta go.
10.5 years ago I invited my new boyfriend to a work party. I go PROPERLY SMASHED and don’t remember much. About a week after the party my then BF told me that I shit on the floor while blacked out drunk and he cleaned it up and had been holding on to the secret for a week. We just celebrated our 7th wedding anniversary and I’m sitting here holding our 4 month old baby in our home with our 2 dogs and 1 cat.
Now he knows you poop. It’s all downhill from here.
You’re 27 and you’re embarrassed to take a shit?
You do know everyone shits, right? It’s normal and natural and no one will ever be surprised if you need to go.
You’re 27 and refuse to shit around your boyfriend? Thats really immature I’m not gonna lie, like maybe you shouldn’t have a boyfriend if you’ll hold bowel movements in around him bc that ain’t healthy
What’s more embarrassing? Taking a shit while your boyfriend is around, or shitting on the floor after holding your shit for three days because you’re too embarrassed to shit while your boyfriends around?
Too old to be holding poops in. Grow up and SHIT if your body needs you to remove toxins. That’s an embarrassing way to die
I once got very bad diarrhoea. I felt a twist in my tummy and knew I had about 15 seconds to get to the toilet.
I dashed up to the only bathroom and started hammering on the door for my housemate to get out of the shower. (We’d only been living together for about a month). He refused but told me to just come in and use the toilet if I was that desperate. I was.
With a second to spare and pulled my tights down and took my seat of shame. It was such a relief to let that long hot spurt out that I totally forgot my embarrassment… until my roommate started to gag from the smell. I clenched my cheeks for long enough to pause the poo and throw him a towel so he could escape the putrid cloud. It was all very embarrassing but shit happens and we laugh about it now.
I would recommend therapy. refusing to shit if someone else is around isn’t normal. Especially to the point of losing control of your bowels. The bathroom door closes. Everyone poops. You have major insecurities and tbh until you work through them it’s probably not healthy to be in a relationship.
No one is sitting listening to you in the bathroom. No one cares what you do in there. Even if they hear something no one cares.
Now this guy probably feels bad that you weren’t comfortable around him to use the toilet and embarrassed for you but he’s definitely going to see this for what it is a serious red flag against your mental health.
Please work on yourself. The worst has happened now. At the end of the day every single person knows you poop, and none of us care unless you do it in the living room.
This was 100% written by a dude.
Why would you not just go to the bathroom when he was asleep?
Dont get married for christs sake. You’ll explode.
Jesus , I’m going home after work and having two glasses of wine to forget I read this.
I can’t unread this 😳
This has to be some copypasta bullshit.
Thank god you didn’t poo into the toilet, a receptacle designed for poo, that would’ve been fucking humiliating
Oh man. Now he knows that women poop.
Girl what?… ☠️💀
When my wife was pregnant with our first, she was mortified when she couldn’t stop herself from farting in my presence. For the entire time we were together, she always hid it from me. It _just wasn’t proper._ This time, she couldn’t hold it. We were on the sofa and she let. it. rip. Her face was beet red and she kept apologizing. Finally, after telling her multiple times that it was alright, that I truly didn’t think any less of her, I just leaned over and dropped a beast that made hers look like a left cheek squeak, and went right back to watching tv. She gawked at me for a second before laughing so hard, she cried. It was a bonding moment.
What a weird fetish post