How to Maintain Intimacy with Your Partner When Guests Stay Over? ๐ ๐
Are you struggling to find alone time with your partner when guests are in the house? Wondering how to keep the romance alive despite shared living spaces? Check out these tips to navigate intimacy while hosting guests:
Setting Boundaries:
– Communicate openly with your partner about your needs and desires.
– Establish clear boundaries with guests to carve out private moments.
Creating Opportunities:
– Plan date nights or early morning coffee dates before guests wake up.
– Utilize downtime or moments when guests are out to connect.
Non-Verbal Communication:
– Use body language and subtle cues to express affection.
– Small gestures like holding hands or quick kisses can speak volumes.
Communication is Key:
– Talk about your feelings and find ways to show love openly.
– Keep the lines of communication open to strengthen your bond.
By incorporating these strategies, you can maintain intimacy and connection with your partner even when guests are around. How do you keep the spark alive during shared living situations? Share your tips below! ๐ฌโจ #IntimacyTips #RelationshipGoals #KeepTheSparkAlive
homie, i’ll rawdog that chick when the guests are watching
Plenty. It’s not like they are watching us.
We stick to cuddling. Anything else feels wrong. To be fair though we live in an apartment with thin walls.
Sometimes, having someone sleep in the other room was actually the one thing that did rekindle the fire.
My apartment isn’t really equipped for accommodating guests, so this question doesn’t really apply to me, but if it happened, I’d totally do it if the mood struck me.
1. Everybody involved knows that we’re in a relationship. sex is a thing that happens.
2. It’s my house; what are they going to say, “please stop having sex in your house with your girlfriend?”
3. if it did happen, I would try to be conscientious and quiet. I am not a douchebag.
We may be quieter if someone is in the house with us but it isn’t gonna stop us.
That said we usually refrain at other peoples houses not so much out of fear but respect for their bedding…my partner is a squieter and it would be kinda shitty of us to soak their mattress.
As intimate as ever. I expect guests to feel the same freedom. I mean, my partner won’t be as vocal as if we were alone, but nothing else really changes. As a millenial, this has just ALWAYS been the policy around sex since I was a kid. If the guests are close enough friends to be staying in my home, they’re close enough to understand that sex is a thing that happens ๐คทโโ๏ธ
If we have guests at our home, we are super busy hosting, and doing everything, so, we are exhausted at bedtime. Facts.
Thereโs always times when you have to give it a rest.
“We gotta be quiet and not get caught” sex can be exciting. Also don’t care if they hear.
It’s only embarrassing if the sounds she makes are saturated by disappointment
I don’t need my parents or her parents hearing us get up to stuff in the room next door. Or either of our friends etc… We’ll probably still do stuff, but be quiet about it. Nobody needs to hear that.
We smash as loudly as possible. Assert dominance.
Iโd be fine with it, it is my house after all. My wife is absolutely against it though. Weโve never as much as made out in our room with the door closed with someone visiting. Itโs completely bizarre for a couple reasons. First, we did a lot more than make out when we were dating and we lived with our respective parents. Secondly, most often our visitors are parents or relatives coming to see our 7m old son who got here the same way every other person has ever been conceived. So itโs not like they donโt know we have sex.
It depends on the guests. My college friends have heard it all before. My aunt and uncle not so much.
Tri-Level home, Master bedroom is upstairs, guest room is in the basement on the opposite end of the house.
We’ve definitely had sex while guests stay with us.
It depends who and where. Gfs adult son in the next room? No. Her sis, who will crash there once in a while? She knows whatโs up and will announce โIโm taking the dogs for a 30 min walkโ.
Visiting people? It depends. Visiting a buddy whose guest BR is on the other side of the house? Itโs on. Visiting her aunt and uncle and her mom is in the room to our left and her grandma in the room to the right? Nope, and I even wore stuff to sleep in for a change.
Iโve had a friend from school stay over at my place with his gf and ask for privacy at night as theyโd probably be getting spicy. In my living room. I love the guy and I appreciate that heโs comfortable at my place, but I wasnโt ready for that request. My response was โok but watch the splattersโ
My wife seems to be me ready to go when people are staying with us. Our guestroom is in the basement and our room is on the 2nd floor, so there’s very little chance that we’re heard. She’s never shown any sign of exhibitionism, so I don’t know what it is.
Depends on the guests I suppose. Grandma comes over, its just cuddles and hand holding. Our kink community friedns come over and its a different story lol.
By the time us and our guests have finished eating ice cream in the hot tub after dinner that the wife and I are in for a night of sweaty passion.
I do t even get intimate with my missus when there’s nobody else here. If there were people, nothing would change.
My partner and I weren’t hardly intimate when we had the place to ourselves, much less when there’s guests.
Same thing, but we try not to be loud lol
Same as ever.
I’m laying the wood to assert dominance.
We refrain from intimacy, out of respect to our guest, plenty of time to play when there gone.
Doesnโt stop us. Our door has a lock unless my niece is sleeping over. Usually my daughter and niece end up in our bed so we would rather not risk it.
Thereโs a good chance your visitors are having a time of their own. There are exceptions, but most likely everyone in the house is enjoying themselves.
I once smashed on an air mattress in a living room lmao
I don’t think anything really changes from an outcomes perspective but my interest always elevates
I feel totally comfortable and I know we can be quiet
I would be down. My wife would never ever ever. And our guestroom is on the opposite side of the house.
In front of others, we usually sit/stand close, bumping against each other. Sometimes we hold hands. And occasional, short kisses.
His dad lives at home, so if we want to be fully intimate we lock the door, turn the TV volume up, and stay on the quieter side. It’s just the respectful thing to do, no one WANTS to hear that, most especially family.
Other than typical cuddles no sex. Regardless if its my or her friends we end up drinking and talking all night and tooo tired (hungover) to really do anything physical.
If its family its a whole nother level of us focusing on them vs us. Like when my then GF parents came over we had to prepare a variety of homecooked meals, cleaning house and planning an outing for them. Same goes when my cousins or relatives from another country or state visit. We go into concierge mode. Intimacy feels weird when family’s over especially the elder haha/.
Depends on the guests and where we are.
In front of parents a kiss, hug to greet all good, hugging for a reason or a sly squeeze during food prep.
If they’re our mates then it depends. If it’s another two couples and we decide to mack on a bit, get a grip, you get some too.
As long it’s not too long in a common area and not interrupting a conversation, meh
If I have mates staying over night and me and my partner want to fuck well, we fucking will, they know us.
If it’s Christmas and it’s a haul of people then just simple affections is my limit but it’s important that people don’t completely clam up and think emotive vacuousness is healthy or polite.
We tend to be fairy well behaved if itโs a short visit or we get to prep accordingly. If it goes on long enough, we tend to have quiet sex with the added hotness of muzzling moans and moving very deliberately which ironically makes not moaning more difficult
The better question is; How big is your house?
If it’s my house, I’m smashing. If it’s someone else’s it depends who it is.
Iโve been a guest at my friends house and they went for it. I could tell they thought they were being quiet. I honestly find it really disrespectful. Youโre not animals you can chill for one night, I didnโt need to know what you sound like.
House rules, we fucking if we want to
Depends on the partner tbh, my first relationship it was very hush, hush, nothing happened if friends and relatives were around, My 2nd relationship, however well I was pretty much no holds barred, We were quiet-ish if it was family in the vicinity but if it was friends that we’d invited over 9 times out of 10 they were there to join in or to learn from us, We were Dom/Sub Couple and had various gatherings to teach friends and complete newbies about what we do.
Sexual openness can be a very rewarding experience and can bring a lot of partners even closer together than being cagey about it or only having a low drive.
I am really no different than usual.
I married my wife because I love her immensely. I’ll show affection when I feel the urge.
Not very. Weโre physically close and kiss and such, but full blown sex is reserved for very alone times. We even lock the doors, turn off the phones and close the bedroom windows (we can be loud). Iโm 73. Sheโs 70. We call it our โ32 sq ft of Heavenโ.
A friend of my wife came once and we invited her for a threesome. To our surprise it happened and it was awesome. We still have threesomes with her from time to time.