#MovingOn #RelationshipAdvice #LettingGo #Heartbreak #SelfLove
Hey there, I can sense that you are going through a tough time with your current situation. It’s never easy to move on from someone who has been a significant part of your life, especially when there are mixed feelings involved. But remember, your happiness and well-being should always come first. Here are some tips and advice on how to navigate this challenging time and move forward in a positive way:
Understanding Your Feelings:
1. Acknowledge your emotions: It’s important to recognize and accept your feelings, whether they are sadness, anger, confusion, or even relief. Allow yourself to experience these emotions without judgment.
2. Reflect on the relationship: Take some time to think about the dynamics of your relationship with this person. Consider what you enjoyed about it, as well as any negative aspects that may have contributed to its end.
3. Focus on yourself: Remember that you are the most important person in your life. Take this opportunity to prioritize self-care and self-love. Treat yourself with kindness and compassion.
Taking Steps Towards Healing:
1. Set boundaries: If staying in contact with this person is causing you distress, it may be necessary to establish boundaries or even go no contact for a period of time. This can help you create emotional space and clarity.
2. Seek support: It’s okay to lean on friends, family, or a therapist for support during this challenging time. Talking to someone about your feelings can provide valuable perspective and comfort.
3. Engage in self-care activities: Engaging in activities that bring you joy and relaxation can help you focus on yourself and your well-being. Whether it’s practicing yoga, going for a walk in nature, or indulging in a hobby, make time for activities that nourish your soul.
4. Stay positive: While it’s normal to experience moments of sadness or doubt, try to maintain a positive outlook on the future. Remember that this is just one chapter in your life, and there are so many wonderful opportunities awaiting you.
Advice from Bhagavad Gita:
In the teachings of the Bhagavad Gita, there is a valuable lesson about detachment and letting go of attachments to outcomes. By releasing your attachment to this person and the idea of what could have been, you can find peace in the present moment and move forward with a sense of contentment and acceptance.
Ultimately, remember that you are strong, resilient, and deserving of love and happiness. Trust in the process of healing and know that you have the inner strength to overcome this challenging time. Take each day as it comes, be gentle with yourself, and know that brighter days are ahead.
I hope this advice helps you find clarity and peace as you navigate this difficult situation. Remember, you are not alone, and you have the strength within you to move on and create a fulfilling life for yourself. Stay strong and believe in the power of your own resilience. You’ve got this! 💪🌟
Take care and remember that this too shall pass.
With love and support,
[Your Name]
>Should I just gradually let things die down and eventually get into no contact or should I be formal with it like,” hey, if you do not want to be in contact with me anymore, I would be happy if you let me know properly and so I do not have any hope or expectations for us anymore and I can move on peacefully with my life.”
No. YOU need to take back control and cut him out for good. Block him, delete him, change your #, whatever it takes. Do not put the ball back in his court so you can frame it as “well HE said HES done”. YOU are done.
Take back control, OP.
Hey, I understand how tough this is for you. It’s natural to feel conflicted about moving on, especially when someone has been such a significant part of your life. It’s okay to feel scared or uncertain about the future. Take it one step at a time, and focus on yourself for now. Whether you choose to gradually let things fade or have a formal conversation, prioritize your own peace of mind. Remember, it’s important to prioritize your own well-being above all else. You deserve happiness and fulfillment, even if it means letting go of someone who has been important to you. Hang in there, and consider seeking support from friends, family, or a therapist to help you navigate through this difficult time. You’re not alone in this journey.
He doesn’t want to be with you. A man that loves you doesn’t treat you like a FWB….The are different. I too think you need counseling.
Please stop begging him to be with you, it’s so far beneath you to behave this way. Just stop. The texts, the calls, the paragraphs talking about your feelings, all of it. He does not and will not enter into a relationship with you. It will not happen. Move on.
I think it’s important for you to make the decision to break contact and to enforce it without asking for anything from him. I’ve been in your position before and it’s really really hard. You have to push through the hard part before it starts to get better, and the clock resets every time you start talking to him again.