π How Do You Navigate Intimacy When Guests Are Staying Over? π π
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Curious minds wonder β how do you and your partner maintain a sense of intimacy when guests are staying over in the same house? Let’s talk about striking a balance between hosting duties and keeping the flame alive.
Setting Boundaries
– How do you establish privacy boundaries with your partner when guests are present?
– What strategies do you use to communicate your intimacy needs during this time?
Creating Quality Time
– What activities can you engage in to nurture your relationship, even with guests around?
– How do you find moments to connect with your partner amidst hosting responsibilities?
Embracing Spontaneity
– How do you maintain a sense of spontaneity and fun in your relationship when guests are in the house?
– What are some creative ways to keep the romance alive in a shared space?
Let’s delve into the intricacies of balancing hospitality and intimacy β share your tips and experiences below! π¬ #RelationshipTalk #HomeLifeBalance #LoveAndHospitality
It’s definitely less likely, but I’d be lying if I said it doesn’t happen.
I feel a little uncomfortable, especially when a family member is visiting. Apartment walls arenβt the thickest!
We are lucky that our bedroom is upstairs and the rest are downstairs. If itβs my kidβs friends, absolutely not because they are up all night. When my dad used to stay, sure. There was no way he would be awake and he didnβt really like his hearing aids so he didnβt hear shit.
We will be intimate if we want to be. Having guests over doesnβt stop us, but we just try to be a little less noisy.
Not very, our house isnβt that big
We also have a dog we kick out of the room so itβd be very obvious if we were intimate
I’m not. It makes me uncomfortable.
I have also been the guest in this scenario and I could hear my aunt and uncle going at it. Wasn’t great. At least be quiet, damn.
We do it to establish dominance.
I’d be so uncomfortable there would be no funny business at all.
Having to be quiet is a turn on for us and weβre completely aware of it so it definitely happens.
The only guests we ever have our adult kids and their rooms are upstairs while our is downstairs so no need to change up what weβre doing.
I think it doesnβt matter if someone is staying with us or if we are guests someplace else. As long as weβre not loud and extremely obvious, we are going to have sex if we want to.
Very π it almost feels like youβre a teenager again trying to be quiet and not get caught
When we bought our house there was a shed on the property which the previous owner used as an art studio. We renovated it into a little guest cottage. Solves a lot of issues to be honest.
Depends who the guests are. Sometimes they join us. π
Depends on who is there and how long they’re staying.
Love sleeping with my husband. Idc if guests are over or if Iβm a guest at someoneβs house. Of course we are much more discreet at my in laws but weβve lived there for months before so Iβm pretty used to banging in their house.
Not much. We’d feel very uncomfortable if we tried to.
We’ve rented a cabin with friends for weekend trips, and we’ve never done it out of respect.
Oof not at all. Our walls are very thin, and I’m a private person. I don’t like other people knowing the sounds I make or that I’ve had sex. I’d rather they all see me as a sexless being unless they are my partner. It’s very easy for us to go without for a week or two, which is the longest we have people stay over.
Are you talking about sex?
My girl and I are very sexual and we donβt let people staying over stop us. We wait for a good moment when we can be isolated and quiet. It kinda adds to the fun. Not all the time, but sometimes having to be quiet is a hot challenge.
Not at all. Just thinking about being intimate when we have guests or are guests makes me feel gross.
Try to avoid, but for extended stays itβs likely to happen, and honestly I love the rush of trying to stay quiet π€
I’d be fine having sex. If I have a guest sleeping over I’m probably already unhappy with the situation as I dont invite people to sleep over unless something is seriously wrong. I’m not changing my life to help someone.
We live in a studio/open concept bungalow with no real doors even for the bedroom so we just donβt have people sleepover. We are too horny tbh.
It happens rarely. One time though it did happen, she was drunk, and was very loud. WAAY louder than usual and that made it way hotter.
Only thing it affects is the noise level, other than that we donβt care.
If they are a couple what ever they do we do twice over
When I was a horny teenager my ex bf and I would sleep with each other in my bedroom but we had nowhere else to go.
Now my bf and I donβt have sex when staying over at a relative or friends house. Weβve been together long enough, and we live together and see each other every single day. We can have all the sex we want to at home.
Anal only ….we have manners
I remember when my GF then (now wife) were studying, I would touch her while she plays PC games and her brother and sister are also playing PC in the same room. It was dark so weβre kind of chill and discreet.
Fast forward college, I went with them on an out of town trip. Her parents rented a studio apartment, it was almost night and her family were watching Twilight. She went to the toilet to brush her teeth and I took the chance and said Iβd also brush my teeth with her. Lock the door and had a quite quick one.
While going back from that trip (8hr drive), her dad was driving and mom in passenger seat. It was a van type car and no one was seating in the 2nd and 3rd row, we were in the 4th. And here I was again touching and making my hands flood.
Again fast forward 15 years, sheβs currently at her 10th week pregnancy to our 2nd baby and due to hormones going crazy, I could barely have intimacy right now.
As I am typing this at 2am, making my self fall asleep, reminiscing those times, makes me wanna get intimate with the wife, waking her up from deep sleep and take the risk of getting her mad. Should I?
We visited some friends out of state last year while trying to have a baby. It was ovulation week so we did it everyday. Kinda hoping they ignored us but whatever LMAO.
Did get pregnant that trip π
Edit: Generally we’re just quiet and do it anyway regardless of who’s in the house. There’s usually a “we probably shouldn’t” comment from one of us and then we do anyway. π€· Way more often than not.