🌟 Hey everyone! I’m reaching out to this amazing community to talk about a pretty concerning situation I’m facing right now. My ex-husband recently broke a restraining order I have against him, which protects both me and our kids. 😟
Here’s the situation: my teenage daughter ran into him at the mall, where he not only spoke to her but also handed her cash, instructing her to keep it a secret. He’s already been warned in court about this kind of behavior, and it has me really worried that he’s trying to evade the restraining order by lurking in places our kids frequent.
💡**Here are some of the pain points I’m struggling with:**
- **Safety Concerns**: I’m terrified that he will continue to approach our kids, making them feel unsafe.
- **Trust Issues**: This has put a strain on my relationship with my daughter, as I want her to feel comfortable sharing everything with me.
- **Legal Ambiguities**: It’s tricky navigating what actions to take next legally without making the situation worse.
🔍 **What Should I Do?**
- **Document Everything**: Keep a detailed record of the incident. This can be crucial in any future legal proceedings.
- **Contact Law Enforcement**: Since he violated the restraining order, reaching out to the police should be your first step. They can guide you on the next actions.
- **Notify Your Lawyer**: Your legal representative should be informed immediately so they can take appropriate steps to protect you and your children.
I know this is a tough situation, and I’m hoping to find some advice that might help others who are facing similar issues. Have you dealt with something like this? What steps did you take? Please share your experiences or any tips you may have! 👇
Also, if you have any recommendations on legal resources or support groups, I’d love those too! 🤝
🔗 **For those dealing with restraining orders in California, here are some helpful links:**
Let’s support one another through these challenges! 💪 #FamilySafety #RestrainingOrder #LegalAdvice #ParentingStruggles
Why do you have a restraining order against him? Why are the kids included in that restraining order?
You go to the police station and file a report. They’re unlikely to do anything with 1 violation but you’ll be starting the paper trail. Also, at the next supervised visit, let the person supervising know that things may be tense because he just violated the restraining order.
Call the cops and make a report. Have your daughter with you when you make it.
You need to make a police report so you can go back to the judge and seek a warrant. Unless the offender is on scene, law enforcement will just fill out a report and advise you to seek a warrant via the judge.