#CheatingHeartbreak: My Story and Call for Help
Hey there, fellow survivor of heartbreak 💔 I recently found out my partner was cheating on me after buying our first home together. Let me share a little bit of my story with you and then ask for your advice and positive vibes moving forward.
##My Story
After 10 years together, I discovered my partner had been unfaithful for nearly a year. It was a devastating blow, especially since I had invested so much time and effort into our relationship. We had just bought our dream home, with my life savings as a down payment. Now, we are faced with the tough decision of selling the house we thought would be our forever home.
##Rebuilding
I feel lost and unsure of where to go from here. Have you been in a similar situation? I could really use some guidance and hope right now. Please share your positive stories of how you were able to move forward after a relationship ended in betrayal.
###Actionable Steps to Healing
Here are some steps I am considering taking to help me move forward. I hope they can help you too:
– Seek therapy or counseling to process emotions and gain perspective 🧘♂️
– Lean on friends and family for support and guidance 👫
– Consider selling the house and starting fresh in a new location 🏠
– Focus on self-care and rediscovering your passions and hobbies 🎨
##Conclusion
Thank you for listening to my story and offering support. Remember, you are not alone in your struggles and there is always a way to rebuild after a heartbreaking experience. Stay strong and believe that better days are ahead. Share your own stories and advice in the comments below. We’re all in this together ❤️ #HealingAfterCheating #RebuildingAfterBreakup
Day by day brother its not easy but we just keep moving. Time continues to flow. The pain will come to an end eventually but for now just feel it and accept it. Work on bettering yourself and possibly getting yourself in the position to actually buy a house on your own
get your money back and see if she will and should find a way to make sure u don’t take the brunt of responsibility in terms of money
As time passes and you get over the initial shock/grief you’ll maybe start to see how much negativity she was bringing to your life that you couldn’t see at the time. If someone’s cheating or having an affair it’s really unlikely they were treating you well or showing no signs.
Like I suddenly realised I wasn’t constantly anxious anymore, I was anxious because my ex was disappearing for entire days with no prior warning or he’d make plans to pick me up and not show for another 2 hours. I was always on edge because things were so ‘off’, I didn’t know these things were to do with cheating I didn’t even suspect it but like when someone is hiding something from you it creates a lot of situations where things just don’t add up seemingly for no reason and it starts destabilising your sense of reality.
He treated me with contempt sometimes it was subtle other times not so much. Cheaters reframe their guilt by placing blame on their partner, in the end there was always this sense that he just didn’t like me as a person. It wasn’t a partnership because he didn’t like me, so didn’t want to invest anything in our relationship at all. He wouldn’t even take a vacation with me and would claim he couldn’t make plans for even a date or day together because he didn’t like bailing on plans if something comes up? lol this was just the last 2 years of the 9 we were together. Couldn’t see how awful and miserable he made me until after we finally split. Then I quickly realised life on my own without anxiety and someone making me feel like shit all the time was so soo much better