Is it common for a straight boyfriend to have a hormone disorder causing breast growth? How can I navigate changes in my sexuality due to this unexpected development?
#HormoneDisorder #Sexuality #BoyfriendBoobs #RelationshipConcerns
### Understanding Hormone Disorders and Breast Growth
– What are hormone disorders and their effects on the body?
– How does a hormone disorder lead to breast growth in men?
– What are the implications for romantic relationships when this occurs?
### Coping with Changes in Sexuality
– How can I process and understand my evolving feelings towards my boyfriend?
– What are healthy ways to communicate and support each other through this change?
– Are there resources or support groups available for individuals in similar situations?
### Navigating Relationship Dynamics
– What impact can unexpected physical changes have on a romantic relationship?
– How can we address any shifts in attraction or intimacy that may arise?
– What steps can we take to strengthen our connection during this challenging time?
i wonder if we as people all have at least a little predisposition to like boobs in some amount due to breast feeding? just thought about if my boyfriend had them. i think it would be kinda neat even tho im not interested in women? idk if I’d call it attraction BUT im asexual so the body in general doesnt do it for me lol
The only people that really matter here are you and your boyfriend! If you’re both happy, who cares.
I think that I’m very happy for you both. Not every man has a partner who ends up liking changes (voluntary or involuntary) to his secondary sexual characteristics.
I also don’t think you need to be gay or bisexual to appreciate a nice pair of breasts. While I’m not sure I’d personally be interested if an established male partner had this kind of growth, I’m not above admiring a woman’s body or finding it sexy or her attractive. More frequently than I do men’s bodies. I consider myself straight because I’m just ultimately not interested in having sex with anyone with a vagina.
I know dudes who are only attracted to dicks when they’re attached to women, they still consider themselves straight. Pretty normal thing.
Has this been a dysphoric experience for him or is he comfortable with all these changes?
Two things.
1: The person we love (as in sexually) can change physically but theyre the same person. Their personality and connection impacts your attraction to them, and part of them is physical.
2: Something we put our sexualities into a box. Straight, gay, bi, etc. But they can be confining terms. Does you liking boobs mean youre bi? Not necessarily. It might. It may be a question to really ask yourself. But it doesn’t really matter much as long as you *know* you’re attracted to your bf. It would be an issue if you think maybe youre not attracted to men at all, but that doesn’t seem to be the case. I wouldn’t worry about it too much.
Sexuality can be very confusing. To better understand my own I use the idea of a spectrum. In reductive terms, I am bi. But I prefer women a good bit. But im also attracted to men more than a totally straight man would be. It took me awhile to realize because I am very very rarely attracted to specific men in day-to-day life, while i cant say the same when it comes to women. And when it did happen I would suppress it or not acknowledge it because I didnt usually like men and did actually prefer women so it must mean im not thinking right or my emotions were just confused.
This could be a possibility for you too, that the attraction is there but rare so you didn’t notice until this obvious example.
From my perspective, I would always be attracted to the person I love, boobs or not. But I do like boobs in general already lol so I would probably be happy.
So yeah it could be something similar for you. Or it could be that you just love your bf so much your attraction to him is making you think you’re attracted to boobs. Or you could just be bi but only realizing it now. Not sure.
The man has bigger boobs than me 🥲
Agree with all the comments that say: all that matters is if you like them. To answer the actual question on this post that everyone is ignoring — I think sexuality is a spectrum and you can identify as whatever you’d like. There’s a lot of straight men who are specifically attracted to trans women, and I’ve heard people argue that they’re all just closeted, but that sounds ridiculous to me. If anything, I think straight men dating trans women get even more hate than forwardly gay people, so if it was a closeted issue, they’re not saving themselves. There’s more to being a woman than breasts, and there’s more to being a man than a penis. I’m not saying you’re not bi, you might be — but not necessarily.
I am bisexual so, grain of salt. But every straight woman I know enjoys boobs. I don’t think it’s that big of a deal.
I’m glad you enjoy his body! The alternative problem would be much harder.
just to be clear; are you surprised that you’re into boobs, or are you surprised that you like your boyfriend with boobs?
You can be interested in boobs but only when they’re on men.
What people don’t realize is that this is a troll fetish post
Boobs are neat, so like…why not? As long as he’s okay with you liking them, have fun.
Also, you aren’t bisexual just because you like his boobs. If you aren’t attracted to women at all, then you’re not bi – you just find things about him attractive even if they’re not a common feature. Or you’re developing a kink for guys with boobs, which is a thing. I guess if you’re interested in the idea of other men having boobs, you’ll know whether you’re just attracted to *his* boobs or *all* guy boobs.
Is it you liking breasts or you liking his breasts?
It’s possible you’re bi. It’s also possible that you’re only attracted to breasts when they’re on a man, which is still straight.
Label it what you want. It’s just great that you aren’t shaming him for them because gynecomastia can be a blow to men’s self esteem.
Boobs are widely liked by gay & straight people of both genders. Just like butts.
Nothing to get a complex about IMO.