“Is Getting a Girlfriend Really Hard? Here are 5 Easy Steps for Guys!
Are you tired of feeling like getting a girlfriend is impossible? Let’s break it down with some practical tips for success:
1. Stop Trying So Hard: Focus on being a complete person without a partner. Remember, dating is about two individuals connecting, not about social points.
2. Be Genuine: Avoid being a “nice guy” by simply being respectful and authentic. Don’t fake kindness or confidence – it’s transparent.
3. Confidence is Key: True confidence comes from having control over your life, not just physical appearance. Never fake confidence, as it will backfire.
4. Reputation Matters: Make a good first impression by being genuine and kind to others. People will see through insincerity and arrogance.
5. Looks Do Matter: While appearance isn’t everything, presenting yourself well by staying clean, exercising, and being groomed can make a difference.
Remember, getting a girlfriend isn’t about playing a game or earning social points – it’s about building genuine connections. Give these tips a try and see how they can help you in your dating journey! #DatingTips #RelationshipAdvice #ConfidentDating“
Honestly this is probably the best guide out there, so many people forget THAT THEY HAVE TO BE ACTUAL PEOPLE. Like there are so many guys out there with the wrong mentality 😭
i mean this is pretty much just common sense but euuu this is only the first half my man
the second part is actually finding someone and asking them. now i dont know about you but i struggle answering the door to collect my damn food delivery so
This is the best advice tbh. And my thing with confidence is to fake it till you make it and be able to handle rejection!!! Just because you get shot down doesn’t mean it’s the end of the world. Not everyone will like you and that’s perfectly okay. You have to be able to move on, grow, and keep going🤷🏾♀️
As a girl, i think most guys would have a really good chance at getting a girlfriend if they weren’t so self-deprecating. Like OP said have confidence and personality, looks can’t get you everywhere and if you don’t have that either ur fucked tbh.
And be attentive, and actually care for your partner😭 Idk why it should mentioned but you should date people you like and can stand to be around. It’s ridiculous to date and tolerate someone you don’t like just because they’re pretty to look at…
If your partner wears gold on a daily…don’t buy them silver jewelry thinking they’ll like something new🥲 Not all girls would be upset about it but I see it as you being more aware of what she likes.
EMOTIONAL INTELLIGENCE, EMOTIONAL AVAILABILITY, AND EMOTIONAL COMPREHENSION ARE SO IMPORTANT AND ARE SOMETHING YOU MUST AT LEAST TRY AT.‼️‼️‼️‼️‼️this goes for both sides 😩
Being funny(NOT RACIST and XYZ) and respectfully complimenting someone can go a long way‼️😁🤟🏾
What’s a girl?
most of you need to stop focusing on a girlfriend and need to focus getting out of high school
I am a whole person and I’m proud of myself for that
Also I’m a woman who knows two singular lesbians so things are a lot harder for me
Truest words I’ve heard in a while tho
Getting a bf is rlly hard cuz all the cute guys are straight 😒
You can do all this but at the end of the day if you ugly she no no wanna
“4. Reputation matters”
Ok but what if thats already ruined by having people slander about me online for 2 months straight? Is there a way to come back from that?
Girls will find 80% of guys ugly and call them off the table, and I’m definetly part of the 80%. No matter how fit you are, how well you present yourself if you have a bad voice, or your face is ugly or both in my case, they won’t want to have a girlfriend. Also if you ask a girl out, there’s always the risk of being labelled a creep and shamed for it, and on top of that girls can be very mean when rejecting guys.
“reputation”
I’m already cooked. I’m literally the most shit on guy at my school. 💀
Huh, no getting a girlfriend isn’t hard if you plan to breakup within a few months.
Finding a soulmate who you get the feeling that you want to see them everyday and other stuff is harder
Instructions unclear. Unable to find girl
‘be confident’
Is it over for me? I’m only confident like 1 every 2 months.
This is a case of ‘Easier said than done.’
Will they like a guy who’s been in a Few [Dogfight’s](https://open.spotify.com/track/4IFgFpanSYoC9vCP63Qhwd?si=Kk_QGufpS4-CdmErLJopsA)
“Be confident”
Yeah that’s where it fails
man i try to be a kind and a nice person but i just dont communicate much.. i wished a girl would talk to me so she’d see im trying to be a good person and it may be wholesome from there :0
It’s easy to get a gf where I live and there’s plenty of hot girls but it’s hard to get a bf, that’s not liked
6. Actually talk to people
Does it count as being ripped if you’re super skinny but also have a six pack and stuff?
Define regularly
So, 2 things. I am most of these things, but due to whatever I don’t even know, a lot of people just think I’m gay. No clue why. So then as I see it, that discourages anyone. And 2, I don’t know how to gain confidence. You discredited faking it which is fine, but at least give a solution to not fake. How can I gain confidence lol?
1 is legit, if you are actively trying to get in a relationship you’re probably going to fail. I’ve seen both in friends and myself that when you’re trying to get in a relationship, you usually don’t and if you do it’s not really a healthy one.
Just live life, do things you enjoy, hang out with people, and eventually stuff tends to just happen without you expecting it.
not gonna lie to u, i fit none of the criteria except the politeness aspect and not being a asshole to people, and i ended up with a girlfriend. I’d also like to say you gotta be patient, let the one come to you. Don’t go chasing after them unless you REALLY see a future with them. Thats just my opinion though. 🤷
1 problem, I’m hideous. so no chance
Well, I’ve already failed step 4 which means my cover is blown so I guess I’m chilling single until I’m out of high school.
Yeah. I can say this as a junior in high school. If I wasn’t such a hygiene forgetting jackass in the first two years, I definitely would have had more partners by now. The reputation absolutely does matter. But even before getting a partner. The tips you mentioned are also just good for a better self image. I started doing these things recently before you posted this and I generally like myself better.
this might be the only decent post i’ve ever seen come out of this sub
I dont think i need one. Every girl i have talked to thinks I’m nice, but everything can be summed up by saying I have anxiety.
This looks like great advices actually. You just should have named it better. “Something like “you’re looking for a girlfriend the wrong way” instead of “it’s easy” which isn’t what you’re trying to say at all
Alright yeah I mean the issue for me specifically is actually finding them and then the women in question being sane. I think my town is 95 percent male and 5 percent old women fr.