Are you wondering why your 24-year-old girlfriend has stopped having sex with you, a 26-year-old man? Feeling lost on how to address this sensitive issue? Let’s uncover effective ways to tackle this relationship challenge! ๐ #RelationshipAdvice #SexualIntimacy #CommunicationTips
Understand the Situation:
Investigate the Root Cause:
– Have there been any recent changes in your relationship dynamics?
– Is your girlfriend experiencing any physical or emotional issues that may affect her libido?
Create an Open Dialogue:
– Approach the topic with empathy and understanding.
– Encourage a safe space for your girlfriend to express her thoughts and feelings.
Seek Professional Help:
– Consider couples therapy to navigate this issue together.
– Consult with a healthcare provider to address any underlying medical concerns.
– Approach the topic with empathy and understanding.
– Encourage a safe space for your girlfriend to express her thoughts and feelings.
Seek Professional Help:
– Consider couples therapy to navigate this issue together.
– Consult with a healthcare provider to address any underlying medical concerns.
With patience, empathy, and effective communication, you can navigate this challenging situation with your girlfriend and strengthen your relationship in the process. Remember, teamwork is key in overcoming obstacles in a relationship! ๐ #RelationshipGoals #HealthyCommunication #LoveAndIntimacy
Have you seen any signs sheโs cheating? Is she under any new pressures? You should speak directly to her about it. It can be anything ranging from being tired from work to having an ย emotional or physical affair. You wonโt know until you discuss it with her.
Maybe she thinks youโre using her just for sex, i donโt know if youโre doing anything for her but if youโre not,
get her some flowers and do a nice evening for just you two, and ask her, what stresses her out, Tell her you care about her and love her WITHOUT asking for sex and see what happens after that.
Sometimes we girls want to be appreciated without sex as the main focus.
Time to break up.
If she refuses to even discuss the situation, she has already broken up with you. Just complete your side of it.
this sounds to me like there are bigger issues to the relationship that cause her not to want sex anymore, and things are just getting worse.
it would be worth a shot to sit down and try to openly and honestly talk about it, but to me it sounds like breaking up is by far the likelyest result, either way.
also, it would be very very helpful to please use more punctuation when writing longer texts, this was quite difficult to read ๐
Well you obviously give up on sex and become a priest or a minister of some sort. Congratulations on your new celibate life!๐คฃ
Duhhhh! You obviously break up with her. That’s a deal breaker. Or are you such a beta s*mp that you will put up with it?. Why are you even asking g when the answer of what you should do us so obvious? She’s not attracted to you. You are a placeholder so she is not alone until she does find a guy she is attracted to. Then she will do what you don’t have the ball to do to her – she will break up with you! You need to beat her to the punch and do it first.
Have you ask her why she doesnโt feel like having sex with you anymore? People normally donโt stop doing things they enjoy
Stop stressing her out
Have you taken her on a date?
You need a new girlfriend. The bottle is now empty. Rip off the bandaid and move on.
Have you become less attractive and/or introduced some weird ass perverted kink that gave her a permanent ick?
Usually when the sex stops means sheโs getting it elsewhere . Not saying that is what it is but thatโs pretty much always how it goes .
Listen boy, there’s no comeback, say goodbye to her and start to improving yourself…
the other option is to wait until she behaves so bad that gets to hurt you
Well, for one, you should talk to her about it.
And for two, just to feed your paranoia, she probably has interests in someone else
She’s cheating on you.
Id give her a dose of her own medicine and stop having sex with her then. See how she likes it.
You need to have a talk. Do it when she is in a good mood. You just flat out ask. โ you arenโt attracted to me anymore, i have noticed . Are we over? Is this the end for us.โ
She may feel resentment but does not have the courage to openly discuss it. Nothing kills romance like simmering resentment ( Iโm a guy and when Iโm quietly pissed Iโm not putting out).
She might be asexual and was on her best behaviour until she was comfortable in the relationship.
She could have met someone new, Emotional Affair partners generally feel โunfaithful โ to the AP if they are intimate with the BS.
You tried to talk to her about it and she is not emotionally mature enough to talk about it. She literally refuses to figure this out. Itโs over. Itโs going to be shit from here out. Sex is like gambling, a win can get you really excited that you are going to keep winning. But you arenโt. It keeps getting worse. Intermittent reward has been shown to be the most addictive reinforcement pattern. Go read about that. Realize that this is done and you are just hooked on trying to salvage it because YOU are trying, YOU care, and YOU want it to work. But she doesnโt. She wonโt try to talk about it or do it and it will just keep getting worse.
Talk to her – do not accuse her or pressure her but simply express concern for her headspace because you’ve seen such a switch in behaviour and something that seemed like a fun, intimate, connecting act is now no longer part of your relationship – and I (32F) really don’t care what people say but sex can be a very important way to bond with your partner.
I don’t know if something has happened to her sexually recently that she has not told you about – this could be a non-consensual act, but the only time I’ve seen such a drastic switch is when something serious has happened :/ so please approach her gently and make it clear you are someone she can speak to without judgement.
I don’t know whether one of the things you are into that she isn’t has made her feel very uncomfortable around you or somewhat abused by you (this does not mean you did abuse her but that some things will bother someone a few days later when it has sunk in what they did).
Like I am sure many have said in the comments – discuss it with her. I don’t understand when people are comfortable enough to have sex but not comfortable enough to discuss sex lol.
Iโm going through the exact same thing in my relationship and weโve been together the same amount of time! Iโm also lost with what to do โน๏ธ he wonโt tell me why he doesnโt want to sleep with me anymore
Bail
Iโm gonna chime in here and say when my ex and I started arguing about trivial bullshit, she was flipping out on me for nothing all the time, and I always had to initiate sex as well as her turning me down all the time it was right before she broke up with me ๐คทโโ๏ธ
Stop playing video games and quite sports gambling.
Just leave. No discussions will help and she won’t change.
You gave her the ick pushing kinks on her. She sees you differently now. Doubt there’s any coming back from this.
Turn her into your ex girlfriend
My guess is a safety issue . Common problem in relationships (basically death by a thousand cuts till one or both parties dont feel comfortable discussing their true emotions ) [https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_j50xDKiBOg](https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=_j50xDKiBOg) check this video and this guy out . He will help you massively trust me .
Let her start contacting you first for a LONG time until the dynamic changes, don’t be as available. She needs to start wondering about you and what you’re up to
She may be into another person who you donโt know about yetโฆ
Broo just want to say that sometimes when thing change dramatically! Something could of happen. Bro for all we know she could a been raped! Do you best to get as much clarity before leaving. Focus on figuring and making your girl happy and comfortable enough to talk. Even couple therapy if you love this girl. You just never know when these things! No joke your girl could of been in danger
Why even think about it, just leave.
Sheโs getting it somewhere else.
you should have an open communication with her
she might have some underlying issues that she doesnโt share with you or you donโt know about.
i see sooo many sex related questions where man are complaining about their gf/wives not wanting to have sex.
you mentioned her outburst when you tripped.
yes it wasnโt nice of her but these are clear signs that there is something going on with her .
address it.
talk to her about her feelings.
you might be surprised what she says .
if she doesnโt want to talk to you about it then and least you can decide yourself
Look you can’t make her communicate, you’ve tried, you’ve asked her questions and explained your feelings and she still won’t tell you what the truth is, there’s nothing more you can do, she’s the one who needs to learn to speak up, most likely you do something she doesn’t like, but instead of just saying something and fixing the problem she instead does this shit where she doesn’t want to have sex with you because you kept doing something she never told you not to do, and she also won’t tell you what it is or how to fix it, even though there is clearly a problem, and somehow acts as if she can just keep up this bluff without you eventually breaking up with her because you feel completely unwanted, meanwhile all she had to do was communicate to save the relationship and improve the bedroom
If you think the sex is lacking now just wait till youโre married and living together. Get out now before youโre stuck in an unhappy marriage and living situation, and itโs costs you $1,000โs to leave.
Many factors can impact sex drive, perhaps sheโs having some mental health problems at the moment that she doesnโt know how to communicate with you? Depending where she is on her ovulation/menstruation cycle can also affect it.
However you mentioned her being short with you outside of your sex life and that suggests to me that your relationship in general may be in trouble. Imo sheโs being immature by not being upfront with you about it, you should definitely try to have a serious discussion about everything youโve mentioned here and if she shuts down again unfortunately I think your relationship is over. You shouldnโt be with someone who canโt communicate, full stop. Itโs unnecessary emotional labour that you wouldnโt have to do with a different partner.
This seems obvious. She’s not into having the kind of sex you want but she’s too uncomfortable to say so that so she’s just avoiding it altogether.
Is she on birth control? That can really ruin your sex drive
Orally.
She cheating
Punctuation exists ya know.
Going through the exact same – Itโs painful to experience for sure.
Some women use sex until their emotional needs are met, my advice is to stop being so available – If youโre horny and with her, save yourself the frustration and embarrassment of her having the final say and knock one out in the bathroom, you will return chilled trust me.
Even if she initiates it, politely decline at first – This may help her realise quite how bad it feels.
This is my strategy for when I next see my long distance gf – good luck out there, dating is a minefield
Start having sex with someone else