#DatingDilemmas #SexualExpectations #RelationshipQuestions
Hey there! π It can be frustrating when every guy you date seems to have a one-track mind, right? Let’s dive into why this might be happening and what you can do about it. π
Understanding The Situation
It’s crucial to remember that every person is different, and not all guys are solely focused on sexual activities. Below are some possible reasons why you might be experiencing this pattern:
1. Miscommunication:
Sometimes, miscommunication can lead to misunderstandings about the expectations in a relationship. Make sure to clarify your boundaries and desires early on.
2. Cultural Influences:
In some cultures or societal norms, there might be an emphasis on physical intimacy as a way to show affection. It’s essential to distinguish between individual preferences and cultural influences.
Dealing With The Situation
Here are some tips on how to navigate through this situation and find a guy who respects your boundaries:
A. Communication is Key:
Clearly communicate your expectations, boundaries, and desires with your partner. Open and honest conversations can lead to a deeper understanding and respect for each other.
B. Set Boundaries:
Don’t be afraid to set boundaries and stick to them. It’s essential to prioritize your comfort and well-being in any relationship.
C. Date Mindfully:
Be mindful of the people you choose to date. Look for partners who align with your values, interests, and goals to increase the chances of a more fulfilling relationship.
Remember, you deserve to be in a relationship where you feel respected, valued, and understood. Don’t settle for anything less! π #SelfLove #RelationshipGoals
I hope these insights help you navigate through your dating experiences more confidently. Feel free to reach out if you have any more questions or need further support. You’ve got this! πΊ
I didnβt read much of it but donβt be afraid to tell guys how youβre really feeling
Thats pretty much hormones in every guy..
To bad so sad
That’s weird. I can careless about serial stuff. I just want someone to hug and have fun with.
you attract what you project
let dat shink innn
O K
you are 16 , just chill . Puberty is still hitting you hard . You’ll get to know yourself better soon enough . Just be straightforward with your boyfie and express what you are holding within yourself and just hope for the best ig
twice a week?? that man has nothing to complain about ππ
please don’t force yourself. people have different sex drives, but thinking about it all the time without being able to just chill is wild. don’t “try to have a higher sex drive” that’s ridiculous, just be yourself, if you have to force the thoughts it’s bad.
He just has to respect it. But honestly twice a week and he’s still complaining… π€·ββοΈ
Because thatβs a perk of a gf, who else are they supposed to do it with?
Just let him know how you feel and he should respect your feelings as you do his. If you donβt feel that you want it as much as him, then just tell him straightforward and make him understand your point of view.
I think our brains our wired differently ngl
you are 16 bruh, take time, chill
I ain’t reading allthat
I’m in the same situation but I’m a dude, I think it’s just teenagers
Heβs 16, sucks to say but he just is pumped with hormones, still donβt let him force you to have sex with him or send anything and donβt feel bad about it. When you want to and he wants to, sure, but anything else, nah
Heyyyyy, we discussed it with my GF and of course best idea will to ask your therapist about it,but if there are no such opportunities, we would recommend seeing each other more if that is possible. It personally helped us and it were recommendation of my GF’s therapist.
Also, another one good point is that you MUST set boundaries with your BF. I know it could be hard because you’re affraid to lose this guy like others, but ask yourself why you need boyfriend who doesn’t consider your feelings and ignores what you want. Isn’t that going against idea of relationships itself?
Hope we were helpful in any way. Make an update when you have time
Katherine Howard?
Okay, but actually. If he keeps doing things like this, itβs okay to tell him to stop. If he doesnβt see that, then thatβs on him.
You seem to have quite a few issues with sex and your relationship with it. I’d start with therapy as this is not a normal way to approach the subject mentally. I can understand feeling this way if your boyfriend has been pushy but if he simply always has it on his mind and that makes you uncomfortable then you need to determine why you have such a negative preconception.
Cause guys our age donβt really want a real relationship they js want your body.
TWO TIMES A WEEK WHEN YOU ARE SIX TEEEN I REPEAT SIX TEEEN, I THOIGGT I WAS READING FROM ANOTHER SUB UNTIL I READ THE COMMENTS OMFG WHAT THE HELL IS UP WITH THIS SUB
AHHHHHHHHHHHHHH
puberty, lust not love. don’t rush.
Typically I recommend taking like 8 months to get to sex at the minimum