WeirdSituation #UnderageSA #AdviceNeeded #MentalHealthSupport
Understanding Your Weird Situation
It’s clear you’re in a challenging and confusing situation. You’re concerned about disturbing search terms related to underage consent that you found on your father’s device. Let’s break this down and provide some valuable information and advice.
Is It Normal? π€
Short Answer: No, itβs not. While it’s common for parents to brush off such findings, your concerns are absolutely valid. Talking Point: It’s important to recognize the difference between "normalizing" problematic behavior and acknowledging legitimate concerns.
How to Talk About It
1. Approach With Caution:
- Choose a calm moment.
- Express your feelings without accusation.
2. Be Prepared for Denial:
- Have concrete examples ready.
- Remain composed even if met with resistance.
Seeking Support π§ π¬
Discussing this with someone else can be incredibly beneficial. Consider:
- A trusted family member.
- A school counselor or therapist.
- Friends who can offer a listening ear.
Verifying Evidence π
If you’re genuinely concerned, discreetly verify the evidence. Look for:
- Pattern of searches.
- Any additional concerning behavior.
Important Note: Ensure you are safe and not crossing legal or ethical boundaries in seeking verification.
Understanding the Impact of Pornography Addiction
Addiction Symptoms:
- Excessive time spent on pornography.
- Inability to stop despite negative consequences.
- Escalating content consumption for same effect.
Resources for Help πβ
Hotlines and Organizations:
- RAINN (Rape, Abuse & Incest National Network): 1-800-656-HOPE
- Childhelp National Child Abuse Hotline: 1-800-4-A-CHILD
Online Support:
- Subreddits like r/Advice or r/MentalHealth.
- Online therapy platforms such as BetterHelp or Talkspace.
Protecting Yourself and Finding Closure
Your priority should be your safety and mental health. Steps to consider:
- Limiting exposure to triggering situations.
- Engaging in activities you enjoy to divert your mind positively.
- Seeking professional help to process your feelings.
Final Thoughts π
Youβre not overreacting. Trust your instincts and seek help where necessary. It’s crucial to speak out and protect your well-being while handling this delicate situation cautiously.
Remember, youβre not alone. Support is out there, and taking action is a courageous step toward ensuring your peace of mind and safety. π
Isnβt that illegal? And no it isnβt normal itβs very weird
Sorry i canβt really help you with this oneβ¦
under 18 is so weird
If the things he searched are people in early act as teen then I think it is fine ( still weird but I think you know what Im trying to say ) but if he really try to look at real teen having sex, welp….. you might need to kill him /j
thats weird as fuck and also illegal, you should report him
this is some EDP type shit, i wouldnt be surprised if he’s going to look for cupcakes
If I saw any of my parents doing that (dw they actually donβt) I would be traumatised and creeped as hell
Another brazilian!??
Well, if you’re from Brazil, I think it’s best that you consult the conselho tutelar about this, and never NEVER try to resolve it alone – because then you’ll just get screwed.
This is not ok, at least in the USA it is illegal to even attempt to search for that. Your priority is to keep yourself (and any Siblings, cousins, friends you have, other children) safe. Do you have another trusted adult that you can go to? Either inside or outside of the family? Imagine someone who would take care of you in the event both parents were unable to for some reason
report him, he’s your father but that dosen’t mather he is still commiting a crime
Your mom is overreacting since googling “no consent p*rnography” is creepy af and it’s not normal at all
It isnβt normal. Your father sounds like a questionable guy,