#PaternityDoubt #BloodTypeIncompatibility #PaternityTest #FatherhoodConcerns
👨🦱 Hey there, buddy. It sounds like you’re going through a really tough time right now. I can only imagine the flood of thoughts and emotions that are running through your mind. But fear not, I’m here to help shed some light on your situation. Let’s break it down and figure out the best way to move forward. 👶💭
**The Blood Type Puzzle:**
First things first, let’s address the issue of the baby’s blood type. It’s understandable that seeing something unexpected on the chart has raised some serious concerns for you. Here’s some clarification on the matter:
– Yes, it’s possible for two parents with type A blood to have a child with type B blood. This is because of the genetic combinations that can occur. It’s rare, but it happens.
– However, it’s also important to note that blood type alone is not a definitive indicator of paternity. There are various other factors to consider, so try not to jump to conclusions just yet.
**Approaching Your Wife:**
This is definitely a delicate situation, and it’s perfectly natural to feel hesitant about bringing it up with your wife. Here’s some advice on how to approach the conversation:
– Choose a calm and private moment to talk to her. You want to ensure that she feels comfortable and supported during the discussion.
– Express your concerns in a non-accusatory manner. Let her know that you’ve come across something that has left you feeling confused and worried, and that you simply want to understand the situation better.
– Remember, open and honest communication is key in any relationship. It’s important to tackle challenging issues together rather than letting them fester.
**Seeking Further Information:**
If you still find yourself grappling with doubts after talking to your wife, it’s absolutely okay to seek more information. Here are some steps you can consider:
– Contact the hospital and inquire about the possibility of reviewing the baby’s chart. Be honest about your concerns and explain that you’re seeking clarification for peace of mind.
– As an alternative, you could opt for a home paternity test. There are reputable kits available that provide accurate results with just a simple cheek swab. This might be a viable route to take if you feel it’s the best way to put your mind at ease.
**Finding Strength in Adversity:**
There’s a beautiful quote that resonates with situations like these – “You have the right to work, but never to the fruit of work.” This advice comes from ancient wisdom that teaches us to focus on the actions we can control rather than becoming fixated on the outcomes. While it might seem hard to apply this principle to your current predicament, remember that finding inner strength can lead to a clearer perspective.
In summary, I encourage you to approach this with patience and understanding. It’s natural to have doubts, but it’s how you handle them that truly matters. Keep the lines of communication open with your wife, seek the answers you need, and find solace in the guiding light of wisdom. You’ve got this. 🌟
You could ask the hospital, it’s the easiest. I’m not sure about blood genetics inheritance, maybe people here will help
A baby’s blood is not a secret. Maybe ask them to get the blood tested again for the proper type, because it could have been an error.
Or maybe you misremember her blood type.
You don’t really need to do anything – you have no idea what you saw and whether it was about your kid. It’s fine to just let it go.
But if it’s going to bother you forever, yes, check your kid’s medical records to see if they list a blood type.
You don’t even know if that was your baby’s chart. Go to the hospital and get a copy of the records before you potentially blow up your marriage for something you might have seen when exhausted.
Ask the hospital to confirm the blood type. If it’s confirmed to be B, do a paternity test. Then confront when you have the evidence.
Get verified facts before you go off with a reaction. Talk to a DR!
Blood typing isn’t routinely done on newborns. I suspect you misinterpreted something on the chart. Ask the pediatrician.
Way to jump to conclusions… geezus dude get some sleep
You think…
I would be 100% sure before you start throwing round your accusations
When you talked to the nurse, did you ask her what the babies blood type is? Or what the chart said, since you’re probably not exactly qualified to interpret all of it? Do you have any other reason to be suspicious of your wife cheating and carrying her affair partner’s baby? Literally the only information you’re giving us is that you saw a medical chart on a computer you were nearby and aren’t even sure it’s your baby’s. Leaping straight into such a huge allegation might not go over that well with your wife. Sure, you can sneak a home paternity test later to put yourself at ease, but man, you might want to think about why that thought even got into your head.
You are a 32 year old man. Don’t be daft, it makes for a terrible father. Be fucking rational and use common sense.
>went to talk to the nurse and a chart was up on the computer.
So not necessarily YOUR baby’s chart
>I’m not sure what to do next. Should I ask my wife? She’s still recovering and I don’t want to stress her unnecessarily. Can I ask hospital to see the chart? We’re already home. Do I just get a home paternity test (cheek swab) and wait to get the results?
You are entitled to your child’s records. Put in a records request, then go from there. And for the love of God, leave your recently postpartum wife out of this until you have concrete evidence of infidelity.
And people like this procreate and vote 😬
I think you should take a step back, relax. There is a LOT going on with a child birth. You’re not even sure what you saw just yet. Maybe don’t add to the stress of the situation by confronting your wife, or doing anything rash. Maybe in a few days, call the hospital privately, and double check. Even then, maybe have a chat with one of your doctors. There are a bunch of perfectly innocent explanations possible here, before you start imagining the worst case scenarios.
My dude. You think you MIGHT have seen something, you’re not sure, and it’s something where you don’t have any real reason to even think that what you may or may not have seen was even about your kid. And you’re about to blow up your marriage because of it.
You’re at the start of a Soap Box Derby, and have already jumped the start and zoomed away in your F1 car. Get a grip. Call and ask the hospital if they have your baby’s bloodtype. Then when it turns out they don’t, decide to never, ever tell your wife about how you panicked and tried to destroy all your lives immediately after your kid was born.
Where you smoking crack before this detective work?
So you randomly saw some chart that you don’t even know belonged to your kid so your first thought is that it can’t possibly be yours? Has anything ever happened to make you so paranoid?
Oh for shit sake, just ask the nurse what your baby’s blood type is.
Holy undiagnosed anxiety Batman.
Delete this whole post, do nothing, and pretend you never saw that RANDOM PERSONS confidential medical records. Wow. It’s wrong for you to look in the first place, but now you’re going to take information you’re not even sure is related to your child, then take it to your FRESHLY POST PARTUM WIFE and accuse her of cheating on you. Are you… like…. Did you get hit in the head recently or something?
Actually, no, fuck it. Just do it. Go ask her. Tell her the whole story. Then come back here and let us know how it went.
Fucking hell..
Before you blow up your marriage, why don’t you ask to see your child’s chart? You don’t know if it was the right chart, you don’t even know what you think you might have been looking at and you’re now flipping out thinking she cheated. Don’t say a single word to her until you see the right baby’s chart and actually know what you’re looking at. Once the accusations leave your mouth, there’s no going back and undoing damage. So triple check everything with the hospital first.
This is extremely silly. It probably was not even your babies chart and it could have been just about anything on that screen.
Pull yourself together
Support your wife ffs😡
So you saw a chart and don’t even know if it was your babies? You’re looking for an out my dude.
OP, do you have a reason besides a quick glance at a random chart to think that she’s been cheating on you and would lie to you about being the father?
You *think* they listed baby as type B, but you don’t know. If you go wading in on a hunch, you’re going to lose everything in the worst way.
You don’t know anything at this point. Not whether baby is type B, and certainly not that that was even *your* baby’s chart. Your baby isn’t the only one that nurse will have been dealing with.
Quit sneaking peeks at confidential information that you’re not 100% sure how to read and that may not even be your baby’s.
First, ask your doctor what your baby’s blood type is. Depending on the answer from there will tell you if it’s worth putting your relationship on its head at such a delicate moment.
The nurse could have had anyone’s chart up. There’s tons of people giving birth at the same time in a maternity ward.
So far we’re hearing “you saw it wrong” “she cheated” and “you are a chimera”. Those are all possibilities, as is a lab mistake. If it makes you feel any better you’re missing a fifth option which is that they mixed up your kid with someone else and or faeries stole your baby.
I have to say, as a nurse it’s so common for patients and their families to forget that we have multiple other patients to take care of. Chances are it wasn’t your kids chart on the screen, but you can always ask hospital for records.
I love men, you just had a baby and saw random things in a computer and now have deluded yourself to believe this is not your child, just divorce your wife now, you will hurt her less
It may not have been your child’s chart pulled up on the computer. Request the medical records first. If the blood type is still showing as B, get the baby retyped and/or do a paternity test. While not common, lab errors do happen.
When I was born my blood type came out as something that meant my dad couldn’t possibly be my father. My dad just asked if they could test again, they did, and guess what someone fucked up. No question he was my dad.
It’s your kid you have every right to ask the baby’s blood type and if it doesn’t make sense then just ask them to test again.
Jesus FUCKING Christ. I stg some of these posts I see on here just have to be fake at this point.
So, you THOUGHT you saw your babies chart, on A RANDOM COMPUTER SCREEN AT A HOSPITAL CONSTANTLY BIRTHING BABIES, didn’t think TO ASK, and now you’re home thinking “what do I do??” Mf ASK THE HOSPITAL DUH DOY!
But hey, whatever man. Blow up your marriage because you THINK you saw your baby was type B. Don’t ask any questions or ask for your own babies birth chart. Just go straight to divorce.
Literally WHY didn’t you ask for clarification WHEN it happened???
You literally don’t even know what you saw and you’re panicking, your immediate next step should be getting evaluated for anxiety cause you instantly spiraled with no information. Get some help for yourself and then check your kids records
I had a similar situation with my son. They actually had written his blood type down incorrectly as B+. His dad and I are A- and O-. Before you make a HUGE mistake double check with the nurses. You don’t even know if that was his chart.
Here’s what you do:
1. Go get some sleep
2. If you can’t do 1, go find a nurse and ask them for your child’s information. Make sure it’s your child’s and not some random chart.
3. Determine whether there’s any indication of something amiss.
4. If something is amiss, confirm with someone else to make sure that something is amiss.
5. Leave your wife out of this until there is 100000% certainty.
Sincerely,
Mr. TryingToHelpYouOut
This seems like the perfect time to accuse your wife of infidelity with no evidence. No way that could go wrong
You have clearly had trust issues. Maybe that should be the discussion with your wife.
Why not do the obvious…just ask the nurse what your child’s blood type is.
Dude, you looked at the wrong chart. Calm down.
So you saw a blood group on a chart and no information confirming it was your baby’s chart and all of a sudden your wife has been unfaithful and the baby isn’t yours.. bit of a leap.
To answer the other question, no, 2 A blood group parents cannot make a group B baby.
However I think you’re ridiculous by coming to this conclusion without even knowing it was your kids chart. I’m a nurse and may look up around 30 different patients a day.. I have to triple check I have the right notes all the time and you’ve read a blood group on an unknown patients chart and assume it’s your kids.. and now want a DNA test.. just order the divorce papers because if I was your wife that’s the next thing I would do.