Is my boyfriend considered a sex offender by the school? Are we in trouble for our relationship? What should I do if my teacher wants to report our age difference? Help needed regarding dating someone older! #dating #agegap #relationshiptroubles #schoolissue #advice_needed
Age is iffy but it all is case by case
In Canada that’s legal cuz you’re within an acceptable age gap. So idk either the teacher is yapping crap or your laws are different. Personally it’s a bit of an iffy age gap but really not that bad.
Your teacher just sounds anal
Nah u good they fukin stupid
just say you havent done anything sexual with him
whats the age of concent in ur country
You’ve just gotta deny it. I saw that you said your friend admitted you were talking about it. Just say that you were lying to seem cool. Deny deny deny
I’m called a pedo all the time my boyfriend is 15 and I’m 17 I’m a year above and we’re only a few months apart but yeah just tell the teacher to fuck off
some of these people are on something…
depending on your state/providence/country, there are many laws regarding the age of consent. Normally that age is 16, on the contrary there are “Romeo and Juliet” Laws that allow people within a few years of age are able to consent. For example you and your bf would fall into those romeo and juliet laws and this would all be legal. I would recommend looking up what romeo and juliet laws you have in your state or country and make sure it’s specific to where you reside. If you lived where I live, there is no reason to worry, but other states and counties may have different laws.
My point is look up the Romeo and Juliet laws in your place of residence.
Did you receive any sex education from your school about this? It seems very unjust to charge you or your boyfriend for something your school failed to teach you— the laws around the age of consent. You’re 15 and he 17, this is well within the age range when you should need this knowledge.
Your school should put the safety and welfare of both of you first. Ask both of you for your accounts and discuss whether it is reasonable to report you two. Schools should always give *both* students the benefit of the doubt.
This is the kind of things that leads to increasing youth suicide rates. You would probably need to get him, your trusted friends and his friends to support your case that nothing intimate happened between you two. Ask them, does your school want your boyfriend dead if you ever had.
Ur boyfriend is cooked with all due respect, technically he’s having sexual relations with someone below the age of consent.
Couple that with the fact that at least 50% of UK teachers are bitches, and I don’t think he’s getting out of this one
if you guys knew eachother before one turned age of consent age i would personally say its morally correct but regardless if you guys fw eachother it shouldnt matter cause 2 years is not far apart at all lowkey tell that teacher to suck out for discussing your personal business without asking if youre okay with it. refuse to give her any info no matter how threatening. something ive learnt after goung out of secondary school is they love bluffing and intimidating younger people but theyre lowkey just loser old people who got nothing better to do
Imaginary border, 15 and 17 isn’t even that weird, especially if op is turning 16 in a month which she said.
I like someone who is 15 and i turn 17 in two months and it’s just a year and 151 days of a age gap.
This is a PERFECTLY ACCEPTABLE age gap
Just because your age’s are two digits apart doesn’t mean you are two actual years apart.
Idk where you live but here in Canada this is VERY Legal and it’s perfectly normal
After reading your comments I think you can counter this by saying you haven’t done anything sexual within the time that he was the age of consent but you have before that so that he can hopefully not get put on a list since you were both underage when you did it(I may be wrong but it’s worth an attempt🤷🏽♂️)
My girlfriend is one year and three days younger than me and we always joke that when I’m 18 she’ll still be 16 for 3 days. But there’s nothing illegal about us dating, id say check your country’s laws and try to argue with your school.
I dont really have anything worth while to say but you said you guys are engaged? Idk how it goes in the UK but in my experience people dont get engaged that young, if thats even legal elsewhere, I only know couples both over 20 that are engaged. So how is it there?
I’d say tell him to get a lawyer but idk
Engaged before 18 is wild
hey, other canadian here. that’s perfectly legal and she’s just yapping to yap, you gucci
Well when you’re 16 and he’s still 17 it’s fine but you really need to be careful with him being 18 and you being 17. I would probably be a bit quiet and stuff about your relationship until you turn 18 and he’s 18 or 19
I have no idea where you are from, but if a Romeo and Juliet law does not exist in your providence I would advise you to tell him about this, and maybe he should get a lawyer.
If you’re in the United States then no you guys are fine, even when he’s legally an adult you’ll be fine because of Romeo & Juliet laws (<2 year age gap and had to start the relationship prior to one becoming legal age)
Two years is nothing. Your school is being stupid
Is this account connected to you? Could they find this thread easily? If so I’d delete this all, as it sounds like you’ve done good research and listened to the right comments. Just don’t admit to anything and you should be chilling, especially since it sounds like both y’all’s parents approve of your relationship! (I can’t say the same, I can’t even think of dating anyone cuz my mom is strict ASF lmao)
Just say you guys haven’t been fucking you just know stuff from other people to give advice. Say you said it’s none of their business because it’s an inappropriate question to ask a student.
Me when the rules lawyers dont know the fucking rules
If anyone has any common sense in the situation they would realise that the law doesnt and SHOULDNT have to be followed to the word and that a completely consenual relationship between two people just two years apart is COMPLETELY fine. If they dont come to that conclusion they’re fucking idiots, and theres probably Romeo and Juliet laws that make it legally fine too.
Where do you live? Because where I live the age of consent is 14
you are fine, there are rules about this in place already. your teacher doesn’t know what she’s talking about.
I remember something that my friend (17F) told me last year. You can get an interview of both of the parents about relationship which has a small chance of either reducing sentence to none
Y’all are engaged? Thats crazy
15 yo dating a 17 yo is illegal?!
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