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Is Sending Lingerie Pics Considered Cheating? 🤔
So, you recently discovered that your girlfriend has been sending lingerie pics to another guy, and now you’re left wondering if this constitutes cheating. It’s a tough situation to be in, especially after being in a relationship for six years. Let’s break it down and explore some advice on how to handle this delicate matter.
Understanding the Situation:
1. Communication is Key: Sit down with your girlfriend and have an open, honest conversation about what you found. Express your feelings and listen to her perspective as well. It’s crucial to understand each other’s thoughts and emotions.
2. Setting Boundaries: Discuss what is considered acceptable behavior within your relationship. While some couples may be comfortable with sending lingerie pics, others may see it as a violation of trust. Make sure you both are on the same page regarding boundaries.
3. Trust Issues: If you’re feeling betrayed or that your trust has been broken, it’s essential to address these concerns. Building trust takes time and effort, so be patient with each other as you work through any issues that have arisen.
Advice from the Bhagavad Gita:
In difficult times, it’s essential to remember the teachings of staying true to your values and dharma. Reflect on the teachings of doing what is right and honorable in the eyes of your moral compass. Trust your intuition and take actions that align with your beliefs and principles.
Moving Forward:
1. Seek Counseling: Consider seeking couples therapy to address any underlying issues and improve communication in your relationship. A professional counselor can help facilitate difficult conversations and provide guidance on how to move forward.
2. Rebuilding Trust: Trust is a fragile element in any relationship, and once broken, it takes time to rebuild. Be patient with each other, show empathy, and work towards regaining trust through transparency and honesty.
3. Self-Reflection: Take time to reflect on your own feelings and emotions surrounding this situation. Understand what boundaries are important to you and how you can communicate them effectively to your partner.
In conclusion, sending lingerie pics may or may not be considered cheating, depending on the boundaries set within your relationship. It’s essential to have open communication, address trust issues, and seek guidance when needed. Stay true to your values and beliefs, and remember that every relationship is unique. Good luck in navigating this challenging situation! 💔💬🌟
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She went behind your back and abused the trust you had in her, she knew it was wrong so never told you, otherwise she would’ve asked for permission. Get out now before she starts sending more than lingerie.
break up with her.
….so she asked this to slowly start sending lingerie pics to make it seem okay? It’s totally not okay and crossed your boundary. It’s crazy to think feet pics imply that too. Now she is trying to make it seem okay to do so. Sit her down. Have a serious conversation. Set boundaries. Then keep on trucking. When she does it again, don’t be surprised.
That’s a nope from me, good luck.
Ask her if you can send pictures of you in jocks to other people.
You opened the door the moment you agreed. She still broke your agreement, but the outcome was predictable after the initial ask
I think cheating is what makes you feel betrayed. Mo one else’s definition matters.
Set your boundaries, Tell her she can choose to continue to do what she is doing, but if she continues she will not be with you any longer, and stick to that!
Okay so maybe she did use feet finder but now sounds like she got herself a sugar daddy and if she can’t respect the relationship by doing the bare minimum what’s the point in staying in one at all? One thing is to make money with your feet- this sounds like she is getting rejected and is trying to experiment other things that are clearly against any foundation of a relationship, cheating. Whether it’s emotional or not! She did send and explicit photo to a man who rejected her! What is her intention her? Upon knowing you can decide.
Gas lighting. lol. “It’s not cheating “. She knows god dam well it is
If she hid it then she knows its cheating…. so yes. She cheated.
You don’t need to ask if it’s cheating. You get to decide for yourself. Your feelings are all that matter. You don’t need to go to cheating court to prove your case.
It’s cheating if you feel it is cheating. If she disagrees, then you have just uncovered a fundamental compatibility issue in your relationship.
If she will do that… onlyfans is right around the corner
This relationship has run its course.
End it. This is headed down a dark road
Break up, she is hiding the cheating in this old story of feet pics, the Guy that she sent it to, didn’t ask and didn’t pay for It, she wanted to send It to him. She abused of your trust and tried to use your own words against you so she can escape the accountability.
If she doesn’t see it as cheating it’s safe to assume there’s a whole bunch off guys she’s done this with over the past 6 years. Can you accept that??
first dating for 6 years wtf second break up she cheated she sent picture of her self break up she gonna keep doing it she not gonna change she looking to hook up with different men she wants the attention and she likes it u dont mean shit to her because if u did she wouldnt do that and lie to your face leave and find yourseld someone honest i dont think u want someone whos sending them self to other poeples pleasure ew that discusting
I don’t think she would like it if you did that I know if you don’t trust her it will cause more arguments I been there you got two choices good luck
GF after killing someone “this isn’t murder”
I had something similar happen to me, ultimately OP, it’s gonna be something you gotta take some time and process, and really think about what you want and feel.
What I will add in there, no one logically sends photos like that (unpaid and not through feet finder) and says “I thought it would be okay”
She’s playing dumb and trying to basically void herself of any fault because “she didn’t know any better” and she 1000% did. No matter your decision, you should hold her accountable, she knew it was not right and is possibly taking further advances you’re unaware about.
Good luck, update us!
That’s cheating plan and simple . She sending pictures of herself to guys behind your back .
There isn’t any confusion she’s cheating now it’s your choice to either dumb her and move on or set boundaries and move forward with the relationship but if u were planning on taking the next step and marrying her hold on and push it further.
She knows it’s cheating that’s why she didn’t tell you. Grown adults know when they’re cheating but cheaters love to pretend that they’re clueless little saints
What would she think about you sending pics of yourself in underwear to other women?
I don’t think it matters if it’s “cheating”. Some people think sexting with other people is cheating, other people just consider it “interactive porn” and don’t care. Some people think watching porn is cheating. Some people don’t. **What matters is that you’re not comfortable with this.**
At the very least, you need to have a conversation with her and tell her that this is not ok with you for the future. You can’t actually control her behavior and say, “You’re not allowed to do this” but you can sent a boundary for yourself and say, “I’m not ok with you sending pics like that to other men. If you continue to do it, then this relationship is over.”
If she is not cheating she’s about to.
If she wouldn’t do it in front of you then it’s cheating!
Cheating, lying, gaslighting and SIGN language. Eject yourself from that situation asap.
She needs mental assistance if she feels that is not cheating.
Doing anything sexual in nature for others without your partner’s knowledge or consent is yes- cheating.
I assume you have never told her “yeaaaaaah fck go for it, send the nudes/sexy photos to others” therefore- yes she has cheated. She can grow up and realize that- almost as simple as 1+1=2
You deserve better. And I’m sorry.
It’s cheating.
Use your feet and find your way out of this relationship
If she is not doing it for money (e.g. OF) then is cheating
Dude, OF COURSE she’ll say it’s not cheating. But was she hiding it from you? Doesn’t that tell the real story? You don’t even need to ask the Internet, man – you already know.
Sending feet pics for pay is irrelevant tbh and that isn’t an issue.
Sending lingerie shots or lingerie to a non paying client is cheating. They’re not even a client……
Dump them
These people saying about setting boundaries. Dump her and get a better GF. FFS.
It doesn’t matter whether she doesn’t think it’s cheating. If you think it’s cheating, then you respond to the situation as cheating. She doesn’t get to force you to stay.
Bro.