#RelationshipAdvice #PleasingYourMan #CommunicationTips
Hey there! 😊 It’s completely normal to feel a bit unsure when receiving feedback about how to please your significant other. But don’t worry, I’ve got some tips to help you navigate this situation and strengthen your relationship. Let’s dive in!
Understanding the Feedback
First things first, it’s important to approach the comment you received with an open mind. Try to understand the message behind it and consider if there are any areas where you can improve to enhance your partner’s satisfaction. Communication is key in any relationship, so have a heart-to-heart talk with your man to gain deeper insights into his needs and desires.
Ways to Please Your Man
Here are some practical tips to make your partner feel special and loved:
1. Listen and Communicate
– Actively listen to your man’s needs and concerns.
– Express your own feelings and desires openly.
– Create a safe space for open dialogue and constructive feedback.
2. Show Appreciation
– Acknowledge your man’s efforts and achievements.
– Small gestures like giving compliments or surprises can go a long way.
– Make time for quality moments together to strengthen your bond.
3. Spice Things Up
– Experiment with new experiences in and out of the bedroom.
– Be adventurous and open to trying new things together.
– Keep the passion alive by keeping things fresh and exciting.
Final Thoughts
Remember, relationships are a journey of growth and learning. Embrace feedback as an opportunity to deepen your connection and strengthen your bond. By listening, communicating, and making efforts to please your man, you can create a fulfilling and harmonious partnership. Good luck! 💕
Feel free to reach out if you have any more questions or need further advice. 😄 #RelationshipGoals #LoveAndCommunication
I’m jealous.
I’ve never in my life heard a guy ever say “you know what, she sucks my dick too much”
There’s no such thing as too many blowjobs.
That comment may have been complimenting the fact that he’s satisfied.
Every guy on here is trying to figure out how to test this idea so they can report back.
Mix it up to keep it fresh. Some days come up behind and reach around and grab him or something. Do the whole reach around HJ and throw some blow and stuff in there. Hit him up when he’s playing video games, that’s always fun. I will say probably hold back a little, if you start to crave it a little give it some time, he’ll start to crave it a little too. Kinda meet it in the middle. Think about how you like it, you don’t want the same thing every time, mixing it up keeps it fun.
I will also say, you are adults. Just talk about it. Communicate what you want and tell him it’s ok for him to do the same. If he doesn’t want it he can tell you and nobody should take it personal. If you guys have a relationship past BJs this is important and it will be fine.
I’m very open to such things and it’s always special to me. My favorite thing is to please my woman, and I definitely relate to allowing my woman the same pleasure back to me. For me it’s not so much “wanting” these kinds of things as making myself open to whatever happens and treasuring the moments when they come. So there’s never too much for me, for most part, if I physically can respond in the moment. But like you said, sex drive is a huge thing, and given my prior experiences I have way too many fantasies of being with a woman that can give back as good as I give to her. Yeah, sex drive differences definitely are hard to deal with, and I am a bit jealous of him reading this.
i wish my girl had that high of a sex drive.
My wife gives awesome blowjobs and I love them. I also love eating pussy. When we first started dating, we gave each other oral all the time for like weeks. Finally, she said, “When are you going to fuck me?”
Honestly it had not even occurred to me because I was enjoying the blowjobs so much. She finally had to threaten to cut off the blowjobs if I didn’t fuck her.
I am craving for a bj. I haven’t had one for four f*cking years. And this guy said he gets too many… what the flying f. is he on about?
I think he probably meant it as a little joke and nothing to be genuinely concerned about. BJ’s are amazing at anytime/anyplace for us so don’t stop doing what you are doing! Also, don’t get too much in your head about it. I guarantee he didn’t mean it the way you took it.
I’ve never experienced so many that I didn’t want them anymore . But idk that means it’s impossible
My husband says this.
It’s just a fact. They don’t crave them because they don’t have to. They know it’s coming.
It seems an odd way to word it, but I think it just means he gets them often enough, that he doesn’t even need to miss them first. Doesn’t mean too much, just… he gets them even before he needs them. Its like… doing something before he had to ask.
If he needs a break, I’m here for you.
Maybe he just wants more teasing a flirting in general. Make him wait, make him anticipate, make him beg. Cop a feel, give a wink, and just say, “Later.”
This is a classic case of a dude being honest and forgetting to filter it for a woman’s ears. I do this all the time so allow me to translate what it would’ve sounded like if he remembered to turn the filter on.
‘I’m so lucky to have a girl like you in my life to take care of me. I never imagined I’d get so many bjs I wouldn’t even have to worry about weather I’d get one or not. Damn I’m a lucky dude and you’re a swell gal!’
Trust me, this isn’t a critique of your bj schedule, it’s an ineloquent way of saying he has an embarrassment of riches when it comes to getting his nob slobbed
I’d equate it to never having to go hungry. That’s a compliment.
okay okay guys lol I went ahead and just asked what he meant and y’all are right mostly, thank you
I was with a woman with a higher sex drive than me once. By that I mean I masturbate everyday, but this girl also needed to get laid everyday. At first it was fantastic, but then it started to become a drag. Getting sex everyday in itself was pretty great, however she would put less and less effort in. It became a routine. We would “go to bed”, she would “cuddle”, then give me a few kisses, tell me she’s ready, I would go down on her for a bit, then come up and have the most boring missionary sex ever. She was absolutely a starfish, just laying there using a vibrator to get off while I went at it. Then when she came once she would lay motionless and quietly wait for me to finish. After we would quietly go to sleep without touching each other. There was a lot going on behind the scenes of that relationship that made it not work leading up to the sex, but that bedroom situation was just awful. At one point I mentioned this, and she tried a bit, but gave up on anything creative pretty quick, going so far as to say she didn’t enjoy having sex with me. Like girl, I don’t like having sex with you. We did not last.
From my experience there is no such thing as “too much” sex, so much as “too much boring passionless physical contact”. If she had given me blowjobs that would have been something. If she had been enthusiastically giving blowjobs that would have been even better. As far as I’m concerned so long as you enjoy it, and are showing that in how you do it, I can’t imagine there is a problem. But also ask him yourself. With your words ask him “is it a problem that I do this too much, or are you still enjoying it? Here’s what I want out of our shared sexual experiences, what about you?” I haven’t had a blowjob in years, and haven’t had sex in months, and at this point I cannot imagine telling a girl to give me less head, but also I’m not this man your with. Ask him yourself. And it sounds like you have, and it also sounds like he gave a pretty solid “keep this up”.
If something is plentiful, it can be human nature to start to take it for granted. Not saying that’s the case, but it’s something to be aware of.
Buddy’s out here bragging to whoever’ll listen
My wife usually blows me every time we have sex the same way I go down on her. It never gets old and never loses its specialness.
I personally guarantee you he enjoys every single one of them.
Absolutely not. Everyone’s different but for me there’s never enough.
I was once in a relationship where I was in the same situation your boyfriend was in as my girlfriend wanted to do it every morning because of my morning wood.
I felt the same to some degree, but I wouldn’t have given that particular part of the relationship up for anything. He’s a lucky man and he knows it.
Nah, he’s saying he’s blessed.
Imagine if food popped in front of you out of existence before you ever got hungry. Like, you were about to get hungry, but food magically appeared in front of you and you literally can’t remember the last time you were hungry.
That’s what he means, he never has a want for a blowjob because you give one to him before the idea of wanting even pops into his head.
This means you’re amazing and magical. Good for you!
Too much is never enough
He is just genuinely happy and confused at the same time. No one expects never ending blow jobs.
If he doesn’t want em, I’ll take a couple.
Don’t listen to all the dudes here saying he’s living in heaven. Those dudes never had too many bjs in their life. If he says it he means it. A gf with a higher sex drive than a man’s can be really exhausting and if there is no craving there is no itch to scratch = no satisfaction. Anything can be too much. Even bjs
If your sex drive is higher than his, you could try teasing him more. Maybe randomly doing it a little, then leaving him and say you’ll finish him later. Or whisper that you wish you could do it right now. That way he’ll want it more and more.
You really did please him
RIP to your DMs
My wife’s sex drive is 100x what mine is and I love it. She’s exactly like you described here. It doesn’t really cause problems because she doesn’t get mad when I opt out of bedroom boom time. Just remember boundaries and loyalty and you’ll be just fine.