Why is your partner’s appearance important for outings? Can their grooming habits make a difference in your relationship? Let’s explore the impact of appearance on your outings together! π #RelationshipGoals #AppearanceMatters #DateNight #PartnerGrooming #RelationshipAdvice
The Significance of Appearance
– How your partner presents themselves reflects on you as a couple
– Feeling confident in how they look can boost their mood and enhance the experience
Prioritizing Grooming Habits
1. Dressing appropriately for the occasion can show respect and consideration
2. Maintaining good hygiene is crucial for a positive impression
3. Putting effort into appearance can demonstrate care and thoughtfulness
Are you and your partner on the same page when it comes to grooming for outings? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below! Let’s discuss the importance of appearance in your relationship dynamic. π¬ #RelationshipTalk #CoupleGoals #AppearanceImpact #GroomingTips
Very. I donβt mind a little disheveled β Iβve dated a lot of STEM types whose appearance is frankly an afterthought β but dressing neatly/cleanly, good hygiene and grooming are a must. Itβs a sign of self-respect, and for other people. π€
Depends where we’re going. If it’s a place with a dress code, then yeah I’d like him to dress accordingly so that we can get through the door lol. Otherwise, he takes care of himself consistently (cologne, regular haircuts/beardtrims, clean clothes, regular gym), so he’s always looking good anyway.
Very,very important. I explained it to my husband like this, I do my make up, wear nice dresses, groom and wax perfume myself. I look and smell amazing. I want my partner to match my energy
Very
I want them to put as much effort as I do into how I look, I want them to look so good that it makes others jealous.
I used to think I didnβt care until I dated my ex who went everywhere in basketball shorts and a graphic tee. It was embarrassing that someone who was almost 30 dressed like a college student
It depends. If Iβm obviously putting in effort, I want my partner to do so as well. Any other time, I donβt particularly care as I tend to do the bare minimum a lot when we go out.
Where Iβm from itβs like 70% of men put zero effort into their appearance/style. Then 15% are gay and the other 15% are a hot commodity that every girl wants. Iβd love to have a partner who actually put effort into their appearance and had a fashion sense.. itβs extremely hard to come by.
As long as he’s hygienic, he can express himself in any way he pleases, just as I do.
I care about good hygiene, and I care about being on the same wavelength about the manner of dress for the event. I donβt like feeling super underdressed or overdressed compared to my partner.
It’s not a big deal for me. My partner works super hard and can look like a mess at the end of the day. I’m just happy to spend time with him.
That being said if he smelled bad (and refused to shower) that would be a huge deal breaker
Very important. In the inital dating stages, it plays a big role into whether or not I want to continue to see them. I’m good with a hoodie and jeans or a Tshirt and shorts as long as the clothes are in good shape and fit properly.
I’d expect him to know how to appropriately behave in any given circumstances… and this includes being presentable in whatever public event or situation.
Itβs not the most important thing but I want him to sorta match me in my effort. For as long as weβve known each other weβve never had a disagreement on our choice of clothing.
It entirely depends of what we’re going out to. The grocery store? Couldn’t care less. A fancy date, a family gathering, a company party, etc it matters that they look put together.
However, that doesn’t mean over the top fancy. Good grooming and hygene, clothes that are clean and fit without holes (even intentionally ripped clothes like jeans), etc. Honestly I don’t think about it too much with my current partner since he usually cares about his appearance more than I do
Tbh I dont care. As long as he smells good I am just happy to spend time with him.
Very important. I prioritize my appearance when I go out so I expect the same from him. We dress for the occasion whether it’s a party or going out for a walk.
We shouldn’t be looking odd together, that’s all I ask for… I tend to dress up well so it’s often a mismatch.. But at some point, I let it go because it’s all about each person’s individual choice of apparel and we are all adults here.
I don’t care about being out of GQ or anything, but a nice pair of jeans, shoes, and maybe something not a tshirt for date night is definitely appreciated. Add in smelling good with a little cologne and let’s get home π.
Not very, unless itβs somewhere fancy.
Not important. As long as we’re both wearing clean clothes, that’s all we care about. We’re very informal, so there’s never a mismatch.
It’s very important to me. I believe how we present ourselves is a reflection of ourselves as a whole. I care about myself so I make sure to take care of my looks when I’m going out, and I’m not attracted to people who don’t feel the same way.
I see it a lot like making yourself a walking piece of art; you’re the artist, the canvas, and the final painting.
Is it a deal breaker? No. Do I notice a good sense of style and am I attracted to it? Yes
While not very important I like him to match my effort when I make one. But usually it is me who wants to wear jeans and boots and he is fine with that. If I find he has put in more of an effort than I did. I will change clothes and match him.
Partner or date ?
This is one of those things that oftentimes I underestimate in terms of personal relevance. I’m all for the “slightly disheveled-but-in-a-sexy-way”, but a physically reaction occurs when me when my partner and I aren’t synced in terms of appearance. Specifically, if I’m dressed up and they aren’t.
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Very important, not only is it embarrassing to be dressed and groomed nicely and your partner looks line they just left the house wearing something freshly picked off the floor, itβs also disrespectful to you when your partner couldnβt be bothered to make an effort.
I donβt expect them to go to huge lengths, but popping on a button down to go out for date night is appreciated. My bf will still wear his skate shoes and I like how he looks, dressed up but still himself.
A lot! Iβm a big fan of my diesel covered, dirty husband when he comes home from work. Itβs how I fell in love with him. But he also knows how to wash his hands and put on a clean shirt.
I’m a grubby engine monkey whose routine is brush teeth and shower and that’s it. I really don’t care that much. If they’re clean and their clothes are in decent repair, it’s fine. I pretty much never go anywhere with a dress code, so I’m not concerned about that.
You don’t have to look 10/10 all the time, but a little extra effort when going out would be nice. I don’t want to dress up only to be accompanied by someone in old sweats.
Depends on the occasion. I care greatly that he dresses appropriately for the event because it’s embarrassing otherwise. My partner is most comfortable in shorts and a t-shirt but he knows he can’t wear that to a wedding for example. I also care that he looks clean and put together. He’s never going to be the most stylish or dressed up, that’s just not him, but he’s gotta look socially acceptable.
At the bare minimum shower, brush your teeth, wear deodorant and dress in something other than sweats and a hoodie. Donβt have to wear designer clothes, spend hours on your hair, or shaving your chest but I will not go out with someone who hasnβt showered in over 24 hours, applied deodorant or brushed their teeth.
Very. You don’t have to be dressed to the nines but clean, clean clothes that’s not a jogging set, brushed hair is a bare minimum. More effort for eventsΒ
Itβs important to me. I sometimes feels offended when my fiancΓ© looks like an obese hobo while I dress formally. I tried buying him clothes but his reason is always βit doesnβt fit meβ, βi look fatβ
Very important. Your partner is a reflection of you and vice versa. That being said my BF is like, stupid handsome so all he really has to do is occasionally wash his hair and wear something that is mostly clean.
A donkey in a suit is still a donkey. If we’re going out to the opera, a nice theatre, or even just to the grocery store there are SOME standards. Nothing pretentious, but you know… shower, manage his own damn hair, nails, etc. to a decent degree without me having to ask or remind
I mean, it’s not really. I’m very much a comfort over fashion type of person. There are exceptions, of course. I wouldn’t just wear a hoodie and jeans to a nice dinner or something. But otherwise, so long as they’re hygienic, they can dress/express themselves however they choose.
Very important, my ex husband really let himself go and it was hard for me to watch him not care about himself. I tried to encourage him in kind ways, but it also affected his self esteem which then made him really insecure and controlling.
Not to mention a lack of hygiene and confidence is not sexy and it ruined my libido and then our sex life.
I really subscribe to look good, feel good, do good. Taking some pride in your appearance goes a long way in other areas and helps you shine from the inside out too.
My current partner takes care of himself and itβs the sexiest thing ever.
extremely. my ex was always wrinkled & stained. & then get butt hurt if i suggested a change