Should I Confront My Best Friend for Betraying Me by Inviting My Ex to Her Party Instead of Me? #Friendship #Betrayal #Exes #Confrontation
Details of Betrayal
Seven years of friendship thrown away in one party invite – do you think it’s worth a confrontation?
Should I Address the Issue?
– Consider how important the friendship is to you
– Think about the potential reasons behind your friend’s actions
– Reflect on how confronting her might impact your relationship
Seeking Closure
– Decide if addressing the betrayal will bring you closure
– Consider the importance of open communication in any relationship
– Remember that it’s okay to stand up for yourself
It’s never easy when a friend betrays your trust. But remember, it’s important to prioritize your mental health and well-being in these situations. Let’s think through this together! #Support #FriendshipAdvice #BestFriendBetrayal
This person does not want to be your friend anymore.
You know how people say “if she can do that to you she’s not your friend”, well this is what they mean. This girl isn’t your friend.
I think you need to build a bigger friendship circle with people who don’t include exes and their friends who treat you horribly.
Gain some inner strength and never contact this girl again and leave HER on read if she ever reaches out or if you must reply simply say *”I hope someday someone makes you feel the way you make me feel”*
Sometimes the trash lets itself out. I’m sorry you had to go thru that but she is showing you who she truly is. Which doesn’t sound like a very nice person.
Find a new friend, this is not it.
You do not need to confront her, but she is 100% showing you that she doesn’t actually want to be your friend. Just stop talking to her and stop responding to her messages. I was going to say she wants to get with your ex, but if she has a boyfriend already maybe he was invited for some other girl that was going to be at the party too. I’m sorry she did this to you but she sucks.
She is not your friend. She is aiming to date someone in that group and having you there would interfere with her plans.
Listen, most adults will say this and it is the truth: there are no bff. It is really rare to have one and most are actually relatives.
I know it hurts but you will have to give her the cold shoulder. Don’t speak with her again. Block her on social media and phone. People like her don’t care about friends just about fame. Think about this. This can’t be the first time she does something like this. There were other times and you brushed off.
Focus on your future. Ask your parents for guidance. Therapy is encouraged to make sure you have a plan and a career. I strongly advice you to seek other friends. To find a hobby outside schook like a dance class, running, swimming, hiking. Anything else that doesn’t envolve the same kids at school. Even gaming online works.
Do not confront her. Let it go. Go NC with her.
She is not your friend. Friends care. Friends invite friends to birthdays. Friends will send an invitation. Friends do not chose a side, they are always at yours. That girl is not your friend. Repeat outloud. Talk with your mom and ask a hug. Do not let this sink your heart.
The best revenge is to suceed. Have the best grades. Go to college (with a $$$ chances of winnings, so choose wisely). Buy your first car. You first house. Travel a lot before having kids. Find a men with a good job. Live a full and happy life.
I’m super old (43) so take this for what it’s worth
She doesn’t sound like a best friend. I wouldn’t waste the time or energy to get into it. she’s already moved on to her next phase in life. You already asked if you did anything basically to not warrant an invite and she said no.
Time to move on to your next phase as well
happy adventures!
I wouldn’t confront her. It’s not worth your time. She’s not a good friend. She might have been your best friend but if you were hers, she would’ve definitely included you. You can find some better friends that truly care about you. I think you should just quit talking to her altogether, no explanation or anything. She shouldn’t need an explanation anyone, she knows what she did.
This is not a friend. Block her and move on.
Tell her ‘I’ll c u next tuesday,’ and block her trashy ass. She is not a friend. She’s a jerk.
She showed you who she is. Believe her. Don’t ask, just assume the friendship is done. Hold your head up, and don’t engage in any gossip about it. This kind of thing is so hard, but you’ll be okay. There are better friends out there, waiting to be made.
Oh man that is so rough I’m sorry. I’m only 23 but I’ve been through so many shitty friendships and it’s so painful every time. The worst is seeing it all happen alone from your phone. Currently going through some similar exclusion with some of my college friends, but the other commenters are right. You don’t deserve to be treated this way and it’s best to cut ties now and try to save your future self from more bullshit. Hang in there man, friend breakups can be so heartbreaking ugh.
She’s not your best friend or friend at all and you just found out. I’m sorry you were betrayed.
i wouldnr confront her personally. i would just remove her from my life and pretend she doesn’t exist. if u confront her she will just be in denial and make u the bad person. its not worth the energy, she’s shown u how she feels about u.
Don’t say anything to her and just drop her. She’s fake and her skin finally showed.
OP, this girl is NOT your BF. Just let her go and find real friends.
She wants a reaction from you, just ghost her and never talk to her. she was never your friend.
She doesn’t want to be your friend girl, don’t humiliate yourself. Move on.
Just remember when people show you who they are, believe them!
She obviously values you much less than you thought and values them much more than you.
Just walk away and don’t look back. Don’t confront her as it will not yeald anything but more hurt.
You are young and can find better friends. She was your friend for a season which has now ended.
I wouldn’t say a word, and would just end the friendship. That would be a powerful move on your part. That’s not your best friend. I promise you that. It’s going to hurt. Absolutely. But consider yourself lucky and take it as a lesson learned. XoXo
I’m guessing she’s hanging with a whole new crowd and trying to slowly distance you out, Id move on because that doesn’t sound like a friend OP
I would just drop her. Some things explain themselves and she has no issue lying to you.
She is your best friend. You said it. Did she ever said that you are her best friend? Because her actions say, you’re not her friend at all. Time for you to move on. Close this chapter of your life. Think on people who proved to be your friends and give them a chance. True best friend maybe is between them.
No. Leave her alone. Go take care of yourself, and drop her without a word. She knows what she did.
Sorry, dont waste your time with her, she has made it clear by her actions that she no longer values you, you need to value yourself and move on to people who will treat you with respect. Actions are a language so no matter what she says, she is telling you that you are no longer part of her circle. take care of yourself.
I wouldn’t waste your time confronting her. Consider it over. You’re better off without her. So sorry!
That’s not your friend.
You valued the friendship more than she did, unfortunately.
I’d just cut ties and not bother confronting her. In the grand scheme of things, she showed you where you stand.
Don’t invite her anymore. If she mentions anything, just reply with “Sorry.” And shrug. You don’t owe her anything.
Sounds like you need to cut her out of your life. She’s not a true friend.
I can see why you’d be in a confused position since you met up to hang out after this incident. However she’s doing these things to intentionally hurt you. At some point she stopped being your friend and decided she wanted to use you. Now you’re probably about to graduate high school and you’ve got a whole life ahead of you. These high school friends will most likely disappear until the first reunion. So do you find out who you are and find the right people to create your circle
This person is not your friend.
Just typical social climbing
Your friends is a real jerk, OP. And I’m guessing you are either prettier than she is or she doesn’t think you’re as cool as these other people she invited. Make other friends – you don need a fake one like that.
I’m sorry, OP.
People learn different things at different points in life. Unfortubately, that includes things like the value of friendship and how to treat people. It sounds like those are two lessons you’ve learned faster than her. It hurts like hell, but sometimes that’s what you get for being a better person. It gets better, though. Eventually.
In the meantime, just ignore her and move on. She sucks.
Oh wow I am so sorry seems this former friend can’t find a mature way to say that she doesn’t wish to go forward with association. The very best thing is to acknowledge you have out grown her and her fake friendship. Time to invest in authentic friends who check in with you because they want to. I am sure it was very painful but honestly she may have an interest in your ex or one of his friends an feels she needs to exclude you to fit in.
Stop talking to her, block her on everything, and pretend like she doesn’t exist. If you run into her, just look right past her like she isn’t even there. If someone mentions her act like you don’t know who she is.
Could your friend be interested in your ex ?? For a potential relationship