#DogBreeding #PuppyCare #ResponsiblePetOwnership
Are you in a predicament where you’re contemplating whether it’s ethical to sell a puppy to someone who intends to breed it? It’s crucial to address this issue with compassion and responsibility to ensure the well-being of the innocent animals involved. Let’s delve deeper into the dilemma and explore some practical solutions that align with your values and beliefs.
## Understanding the Concerns 🐶
As a conscientious puppy seller, you must prioritize the welfare of the puppies you’re rehoming. Breeding should always be approached with caution and responsibility, considering factors like overpopulation, genetic health risks, and the emotional well-being of the animals. It’s commendable that you’ve recognized the potential risks associated with selling a puppy to someone who plans to breed it.
## Reflecting on Personal Choices 💭
Reflecting on your past actions and acknowledging your mistakes is a crucial aspect of growth and learning. While accidental litters can happen, it’s essential to take proactive steps to prevent future incidents and prioritize the well-being of the animals under your care. Your commitment to responsible pet ownership is evident, and your concerns about the puppy’s future resonate deeply with many animal lovers.
## Practical Solutions for Responsible Rehoming 🏡
### 1. Transparency and Communication 🗣️
Engage in open dialogue with potential buyers about your concerns regarding breeding and the importance of responsible pet ownership. Educate them about the risks associated with irresponsible breeding practices and emphasize the significance of spaying and neutering.
### 2. Screening Process and Contractual Agreements 📝
Implement a thorough screening process for potential buyers to ensure they understand and respect your ethical stance on breeding. Consider incorporating contractual agreements that outline specific terms and conditions, including spaying and neutering requirements.
### 3. Education and Support 📚
Provide educational resources and support to new puppy owners to help them navigate the responsibilities of pet ownership effectively. Empower them with knowledge about proper care, training, and ethical breeding practices to create a nurturing environment for the puppies.
## Final Thoughts 🌟
In conclusion, your dilemma about selling a puppy to a potential breeder showcases your dedication to upholding ethical standards in the pet industry. By prioritizing the well-being of the puppies and advocating for responsible pet ownership, you’re making a positive impact on the lives of these vulnerable animals. Remember that your choices have the power to shape the future of these precious companions, so approach each decision with care and consideration.
Let’s continue to advocate for the welfare of animals and promote a culture of compassion and responsibility in the realm of pet ownership. Together, we can create a brighter future for our furry friends and ensure they receive the love and care they deserve. 🐾
NTA.
You have the right to not sell for any reason.
NTA You are being very responsible by turning them down.
NTA. This is an easy one. I doubt you’ll see a single (sincere) response to the contrary.
YWBTA if you sell any of your oops litter without having them fixed. That’s how you correct for the mistake, not giving any of your oops puppies a chance to have puppies themselves.
NTA
And kudos to you for not making that dog live a miserable life. Trust your gut with this kind of thing but get the entire litter spayed / neutered if you can.
Please consider very carefully who you are letting these puppies go to. A very responsible way to go about it is to make sure those puppies are fixed before going to their new homes. You can make it a condition before they go to their new homes, just don’t trust people to do it themselves once they already have the dog. You may be able to get discounted rates for sterilisation if you contact a rescue close by for help, they could help you find good reputable homes as well.
“I’m not selling to a breeder, sorry.” Is good. “No,” is also good.
NTA
The intent of the very best of breeder’s for any dog breed is to ensure that the breed is not inbred, that they, as a breed, have the best of health, and that any breeder or buyer may not sacrifice the health or wellbeing of any dog just sell one of that breed.
If you love the breed of your dog, and this litter was an accident, you will be well-served, in my opinion, to spay/neutor any puppies. This way, you aren’t contributing to any puppy mill or other nefarious shenanigans.
I have a purebred dog that I specifically got from a breeder that went through the hoops to ensure that the breed was not inbred, and that it would flourish.
And, to be clear, I was not allowed, by legal agreement, to breed him. It was mandated that he be neutered by a specific calendar time…. because he was a PET, not a show dog, and not intended to be bred.
You’re doing the right thing in not selling this puppy to a potential unscrupulous breeder…for you, your dogs, and the breed.
NTA. But spay/neuter both dogs, not just the male
NTA. I bought a female puppy who isn’t fixed because of health/size reasons with AKC pedigree. I signed a contract not to breed her even though I never planned on it(she wasn’t fixed due to show dog stuff we just cared about temperament) . I can’t wait til I can get the go ahead from her vet to get her fixed so we can get her around other dogs.
Do not give that dog to any one planning on breeding.
YWNBTA but like someone else said, those are questions any responsible dog owner will ask when getting a new puppy. Part of my job is to work with dog and cat breeders, most of them will NOT hesitate to deny a sale if they get the slightest negative vibe. You can and should do that too.
To those saying puppies should be kept until they are fixed, fixing them really young primarily only happens with shelters/rescues. That’s why breeders have proof of spay/neuter by whatever age or it voids the contract (and then can take the puppy back if the owner doesn’t do it) Some vets will fix small dogs around 4-5 months but most wait til 6m. Keeping puppies until 6m makes it harder to find them a home, as most people want little puppies. Also, it’s expensive to keep puppies for that long.
These seem like normal questions someone would ask when they are trying to buy a puppy from a responsible home. Have you tried asking her? I can’t see anything that leads to your “breeding over and over again assumption”. Of course, you are entirely right to do what you can to sell to a good home, but I would be more concerned by someone who asks no questions.
There’s an awful lot of people here suggesting sterilising before selling. OP please do your research into the safe age for neutering, to give pup a chance to grow with the right hormones.
Honestly, how do you know anybody you sell the puppy to won’t breed it? You don’t. If you’re that concerned about it keep them and fix them and then sell them just for the amount that you put out. If you sell them for more just to make a profit you’re no better than a breeder at that point.
Nta- I got a puppy from a family friend who then later regretted giving her to me and kept bugging me for her back. Mind you this dog is teeny tiny, so any babies would literally kill her. Finally I just pretended that I got her fixed (I honestly don’t know if she really can be fixed, she is just that tiny) and wow suddenly the family friend lost interest. Weird.
I think NTA. But there is a possibility that’s not why they’re asking about all that. When I was going to purchase a dog I found a website that listed a bunch of questions you should ask when purchasing a dog and those items where on there. Parents history helps you to know if there’s any genetic diseases you should financially prepare for and AKC lineage is important to know because there’s weird laws about neutering, or “litter choosing” if you do have puppies. Also for her history – it’s good to know if the dog has shots, any behaviours, how well they get along with other animals or people, etc.
Ultimately it’s your choice, but you should absolutely fix those dogs before you sell them.
Where I am, most contracts for purebred from breeder comes with a no breeding clause. You might want to look into it.
No they are your dogs. Sell them to who u see fit
You can write up a non breeding clause for the seller to sign and see how she reacts to it. Then you’ll know for sure.
Example: NON-BREEDING AGREEMENT. The Purchaser agrees that the Puppy is being sold as a companion animal (Pet) and not for breeding purposes. The Purchaser agrees to have the Puppy spayed/neutered between the ages of 8 months to 18 months and as recommended or advised by a licensed Veterinarian. The spay/neuter report must be submitted to the breeder by 18 months of age. Failure to have the puppy spayed/neutered becomes a breach of contract and Purchaser would be responsible to pay for full breeding rights (double the pet price) to said Puppy.
You are ALL YTAs for breeding dogs
I know the pregnancy was “accidental”… that just makes you irresponsible, not evil like the other buyer. Doesn’t negate the fact that you’re both assholes.
Make her sign a contract that states proof of spay at 6 months or she must return the pup and lose her money. My breeder does this.
NTA, but those are normal questions to ask. If you are buying from a breeder and want healthy, happy puppies those are actually important questions to ask to make sure you’re buying from a breeder that cares about the animals.
If you don’t want to sell to this person you don’t have, but it’s perfectly normal to ask questions like that whether you want to breed the puppy or not.
I would spay and neuter all of them. Yes, it can be done young. Yes, there is some debate about letting females go through a heat cycle first. But the problem with that is people are NOT careful enough when their dog is in heat. OP, for example. Dogs in heat are like sex starved teenagers, lol. They will find a way to do it! I have heard of dogs being impregnated through a fence. Although usually they will find their way out or another dog will find its way in. My dog I adopted at 2 years old was found in heat along a highway (that’s why she was in the shelter I adopted her from, and of course they spayed her)
Please find another home for this puppy. And always place them with AKC “limited registration” which means that, if bred, any puppies cannot be akc registered. Many breeders, to enforce the requirement to spay/neuter will sell on limited as well as collect an additional fee of $1 thousand which is refundable upon proof of neutering.
Plenty of breeders make the buyer sign a contract saying the buyer will provide vet evidence that the animal has been neutered before the breeder provides the papers. If the evidence is not provided by a particular time, the breeder takes the animal back.
NTA, but have you thought putting a restriction on breeding for your sellers. You can put a restriction on the pups pedigree that will stop offspring being able to be registered as pedigree dogs under that bloodline without consent of the breeder. If not it’s a breach of contract. Just a thought
Your duty of care is to the dog, and no one else. It is up to you to find the best possible home for this puppy. Are there any breed groups in the area, akc might be a good place to start? Sometimes they know good families who are looking for a dog for a pet not a puppy mill. We got the shallow end of the gene pool dog from his litter that way ( all of his siblings are either elite show or hunting dogs, and he is…… Ours, I suppose). We paid the going rate for him, he does great with our kiddo. Edited to add, we did research on the family and also signed a no breeding contract, and plan to snip snip as soon as it is healthy to do so.
There’s nothing wrong with ethical, health screened breeding. These dogs aren’t bred for life, typically a few litters after maturity and then fixed and retired.
YTA because you are a careless backyard breeder. You didn’t think this would happen? Why don’t have two unfixed dogs? The female needs to be fixed too before she gets pyometria.
So someone else cannot breed the puppy but you can be an irresponsible dog owner?
Pot meet kettle. Glass houses stones. Etc, etc.
Sell them to whoever you life but get both dogs sterilised for their health more than anything.
And don’t get anymore until you can learn what a responsibile pet owner does (hint: do the exact opposite of before).
EDIT: I felt the need to add this, what you did is what is wrong with the breeding industry.
There are ethically breeders attempting to weed out the problems with certain breeds of dogs. For example, breeders trying to breed flat-faced dogs with longer faces, German shepherds without back problems, Cavaliers without the heart problems. Then there is you. A dog owner who couldn’t be bothered to do the bare minimum and care for your pet’s health.
Purebreds and everything that comes with it will never go away but people are trying to fix it.
YWBTA.
You dont know if she’s gonna breed her for sure, lol.
We always ask for a deep history of puppy parents, grandparents, and other relatives. We wanna know what we buy, what diseases run in the family, or what they might be sensitive to.
You have every right to not sell someone a puppy. But assuming she’s gonna breed just because she’s interested is an asshole move.
Hi. Vet student. Do not rehome that puppy with her. That being said, you should NOT rely on neutering your male dog to prevent future accidental pregnancies. As Jurassic Park so eloquently put it, life finds a way. Especially if your dog escapes while in heat or a unneutered male jumps your fence to breed her while he’s wandering around. Those are real scenarios of accidental pregnancies I’ve seen. Also she should be spayed for medical reasons. Any unspayed dog is at huge risk of pyometria. That is an infection in the uterus, which causes pus to accumulate. This is a fast and *extremely life threatening condition*. If she isn’t taken for emergency surgery to remove the uterus, *she will die*. I’ve seen pyos that weighed 6 lbs pulled out of 20 lb dogs. They get BAD. And the risk of getting it increases with every heat cycle. Unless you are actively planning to breed, there is no benefit to keeping her intact, only active risks. Get the surgery now when it’s non-emergency or get it later to save her life at emergency surgery prices. YWBTA if you do not spay her and ensure ALL puppies are given to homes that will spay and neuter.
I think the best option here is to fix all the puppies before they’re sold. This is the only way to prevent them from being used as puppy factories.
YTA for having unfixed dogs. Females have an incredibly increased risk of mammary cancer after their first heat cycle.
Pretty AH behavior to:
1) Have 2 unfixed dogs together to begin with
2) Fix one but let Mama stay unfixed
3) SELL these PUREBRED puppies (your words)
4) Act like you’re better than this other person for some reason.
You are definitely going to get your dog pregnant again when you want the money, don’t lie.
YWBTA but only because those are standard questions people ask when buying a dog. It has nothing to do with breeding them down the road and wanting to find out if mom/dad are healthy and if you’re a reputable breeder. Considering you had an oops litter yourself you’re not one to judge what someone else does with their dogs.
If you really thought you were just as bad, you wouldn’t be trying to profit off your mistake.
Yeah you should have all your dogs fixed, not just the male. And don’t sell to her. Get them all fixed before you send them to their new home.