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**Addressing the Issue:**
1. **Choose the Right Time:** Find a calm moment when you’re both relaxed and not in the heat of the moment to bring up the topic.
2. **Be Direct but Kind:** Express your feelings in a straightforward yet gentle manner. Use “I” statements to avoid coming off as accusatory.
3. **Offer a Solution:** Suggest alternative ways for him to handle the situation that would be more appealing to you.
4. **Listen to His Response:** Give him a chance to explain his actions and be open to having a conversation about it.
**Conversation Starter Ideas:**
– “Hey, I wanted to talk to you about something that’s been on my mind…”
– “I really enjoy our chats, but there’s something I’d like to discuss with you.”
– “I hope you don’t mind me bringing this up, but I think it’s important for us to talk about.”
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Remember, open and honest communication is the foundation of a healthy and strong relationship. It may feel uncomfortable to address this issue, but by approaching it with care and respect, you’re showing your partner that you value both yourself and the relationship you share.
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I’d ask him if the floor is his usual target, or if it was a one-time thing for show. I can imagine the fact that this was a video could mean this was for show or not the norm.
I assure you, if he has other disgusting habits, you’ll notice them soon enough if you end up getting closer with him.
Just talk with him about it, how it made you feel, and why. Could lead to something great
i’m confused, wouldn’t bro just clean the floor 😭😭
If it’s truly cleaned then no biggie.
Just tell him you didn’t find it hot. Everyone is different. My current SO would love that shit, but my ex wouldn’t. The things I’m willing to do now after being with my current SO are sooooo much different than what I was willing to do or was into previously. Could be he had a previous partner that loved freaky stuff and that’s the mindset he’s still in.
Just be honest. He’ll either accept it and stop, or he won’t. Or he’ll admit it was just for the one video. Then you have your answer and can take it from there.
I’m married but if my husband sent a video of him ‘going’ in the toilet I’d get the ick bad. I’d personally rather see the target being the floor as long as it got cleaned up. But that’s just me 🙂
Cleaned it with a towel? No cleaning products just a regular towel and voila hes done cleaning up? yeah thats nasty af.
An old friend of mine told me her BF came on his bedroom floor like it was nothing, when she said it was gross, he rubbed it in the carpet with his foot “Can’t even tell it was there!” He proclaimed
Quit complaining. The man has floors so clean you could skeet off of.
If it bothers you, I’d probably just ask if that is his normal “landing zone”…. I’m guessing he does not film this too often (or ever), so he was probably just trying to film it and not the cum on something like a couch or bed.
Not to derail the conversation too much, but what is your expectation for where most guys would do this and how he’d clean it up?
Based on the comments, I’m guessing most girls would be grossed out by their husband/boyfriend’s typical process with this.
I had an ex that would cum on the floor after jerking off. It just wipes up but if you are grossed out tell him! He probably didn’t think anything if it
My ex used to cum onto his bathroom wall and just never cleaned it. Yes, it stained. No, I did not know what the stain actually was until I was sitting against the same wall when I was drunk. I always just assumed the yellow drips was the paint
Are straight people really pressed about this…? Girl, it’s just cum, its clean, it’s not like it’s shit or anything.
Clear, concise, transparent, “effective”, and honest communication can make all the difference, as well as a willingness (from all partners) to sit down together and have those difficult conversations.
There are also quite a few well written books, articles, and podcasts that you could share and discuss with your partner(s). Getting everyone on the same page and doing your Lifestyle “homework” together with your partner(s) should be a priority.
If you and your partner(s) can’t grow and learn together and effectively, then perhaps you guys are just not ready for a relationship together.
Wait till she realizes that people pee in shower
I’d offer him my chest or face and be done with it.
Where do you prefer?
Are we talking about on a carpet or a tile floor?
Give him a blue light 🔦
If that’s the worst thing the guy does, I feel like this is an over reaction.
Just when I thought i was out, RA pulled me back in
Mr. Mop N Glow throwing solid gold top and you nope?!?! Damn girl, you better wrangle that stallion or I will.
If it’s a tile floor or something, honestly there could be worse things. Tile is pretty easy to clean. But if he’s already in the bathroom then he might as well just shoot the load into the shower where it can be easily rinsed down the drain.
Where should he come thats ok for you
I went to HUMP film festival and there is a short video of a man’s journey of masturbating. People in my group called it beautiful. Freeing expression of aging and sexuality. It was literally 20 years of this man ejaculating on everything.
His living room couch, living room carpet, on the fireplace, in his own mouth, on his pants, in the elevator, on the floor of a gas station bathroom, on the wall of shopping store, outside on a log, into the river, on himself on a beach then he rolled around in the sand.
I was like -_- I feel weird ejaculating in the toilet when I get the urge in the bathroom. This man is just rolling in it where ever and whenever he can.
Did anyone else misunderstand and think that “a heated moment” meant they were arguing and was wondering why he pulled his dick out and came on the bathroom floor in the middle of a fight?
Buy him a flesh light.
He really needs to buy a fish bowl.
I see nothing wrong with finishing on the floor as long as its cleaned with a towel shortly after, but sharing a vid of it is the part I find weird.
Did you really want to see him with a toilet or sock? I understand you think the floor is gross but for video purposes he probably didn’t want a toilet in the background
Why didn’t he just cum in his boxers and leave it until he showered in the morning.
He was probably just trying to put on a show. It doesn’t look quite as sexy if he ends up cumming into some tissues lol it looks way better to just explode and let it go where it goes.
I doubt he just cums on the floor routinely
He sent you a video like this and your most concerned with where it went? Girl get real.
To be fair I’ve cum on my bed and on things I would not have otherwise during sex. It’s more of a “don’t ruin the moment” situation.
If you guys were to see us how we regularly masturbate you would definitely not be turned on.
Unless that was accidental, full ick.
Thats just put a weird permanent POV in my head to him whacking off like a mad man all over the floor. Does he sit on the toilet with his legs behind his head beaten his wanker?
I had a partner who thought it was gross I would masturbate and cum in the shower…I’m like how is this not the best place it instantly washes down the drain?
Is he too cheap to buy tissues?
He feels extremely comfortable with you. You have the power to correct that behavior by telling him plainly as possible that you were turned off. Feel free to use the word derection when describing how you felt about it. He will never do it again.
Could be worse.. I knew a guy, freshman year of high school, told me he finished in his hand once and was so exhausted and it lazy, with nothing nearby to write it on, that he just ate it. Stg.