#HappyLifeTips #PerfectLifeAdvice #WomenEmpowerment
Hey there gorgeous ladies! 🌸 Are you ready to unlock the secrets to living a perfect, happy life? Look no further! 👑 As women, we juggle so much in our daily lives, balancing work, relationships, family, and self-care. But fear not, because I’ve got some fantastic tips to help you create the life of your dreams! 💪
## Tips for a Perfect, Happy Life:
### 1. Prioritize Self-Care and Mindfulness
– Start your day with a morning routine that nourishes your mind, body, and soul. 🌅
– Practice meditation, yoga, journaling, or any activity that brings you peace and calm. 🧘♀️
– Remember to take time for yourself and indulge in activities that bring you joy. 💖
### 2. Cultivate Strong Relationships
– Surround yourself with positive, uplifting people who support and encourage you. 👭
– Communicate openly and honestly with your loved ones to strengthen your bonds. 💞
– Invest time in nurturing your relationships, whether it’s with friends, family, or your partner. 💑
### 3. Set Clear Goals and Prioritize Your Passions
– Define what success means to you and set achievable goals to work towards. 🎯
– Pursue your passions and engage in activities that ignite your creativity and spark joy. 🎨
– Don’t be afraid to step out of your comfort zone and take calculated risks to reach your full potential. 💫
### 4. Embrace a Positive Mindset
– Practice gratitude daily and focus on the blessings in your life. 🙏
– Shift your perspective towards optimism and see challenges as opportunities for growth. 🌈
– Surround yourself with positivity and banish negativity from your life. ✨
### 5. Take Care of Your Physical Health
– Prioritize exercise, healthy eating, and proper rest to fuel your body and mind. 🏋️♀️
– Listen to your body and address any health concerns promptly. 🩺
– Make self-care a non-negotiable part of your routine to ensure your overall well-being. 💪
By incorporating these tips into your daily life, you can create a perfect, happy life that reflects your true essence and empowers you to thrive in all aspects. Remember, you deserve to live a life that brings you joy, fulfillment, and endless possibilities! 🌟 #WomenEmpowerment #SelfLove #LiveYourBestLife 💖
No husband and no kids.
No kids, husband who is truly into equality, financial freedom, free in society do to, say and go wherever.
Cant say if kids are an important factor in this, but I have never in my entire life wanted any, so its important to me.
Life has been a real struggle in the past with anxiety and depression for decades and is 100% good now
Well I’m much happier than I was a couple years back and my solution was to go low contact with toxic people and therapy and to allow myself the freedom to be an asshole on occasion.
Find out what is a perfect and happy life for you (not what someone else tells you is a perfect happy life), and always be working towards that bit by bit.
Be born in a comfortable family and listen to yourself.
I know the first one is not in our own hands, but these are the two biggest factors that contributed to my happiness.
– no kids
– work from home
– small friend circle
– be in a good relationship or no relationship
– therapy
– growth mindset
– meal kit delivery service
– biweekly cleaning service
– atheist, epicurean
– no alcohol, very low caffeine, no drugs
– sleep well, exercise hard
– whole foods only, no/low seed oil
Edit: these are all things I’ve either thought deeply about, experimented with, or saw a big life improvement when I implemented
Edit: a few more…
– eschew status symbols
– a clean, comfortable home decorated to your taste
– tend to nature, watch things slowly grow
– don’t take things personally: if people are shitty to you it’s because they are shitty people, not (necessarily) because you are a shitty person
– that said, being a good person to others requires practice and reflection, be open to the idea that you can always be better
Things I thought would make me happy but didn’t:
– travel – this is controversial and I know lots of people sincerely love it, but I didn’t get much out of it and my friends always complain about their trips after – fights with their partner, fights with friends, getting scammed or robbed or in other dangerous situations, etc – they do it for the photos for social media, ie, status symbols
– popularity/fame – I had a huge group of friends and was voted most popular premed one year in university and my god it was not worth it. I was briefly internet famous in the early 00s in the neopets scene (lol) and that was also a really messed up situation
– video games – escapism will eat your life
is it possible to have a perfect life ?
Happy life , Yes. Im happier than before
The people I have around me are a solid support system. When life gets tough, because it will, I have people who can help lift me up. I no longer have those in my life who constantly put me down or where I have to walk on eggshells
My life certainly isn’t perfect, but I’m generally really happy. Financial and serious personal limitations aside, I believe that *you are entirely up to you*, so I try to live every day as the person I want to be. Some habits that have made me a lot happier include eating well, sleeping well, exercising daily, limiting screentime, having at least one thing to look forward to each week, not dwelling on negativity, and setting goals for myself.
I am also very fortunate that I had a good and stable childhood and aside from periods of grief and depression when I first began college, I have never had to overcome any significant obstacles.
No husband, no kids, comparison is the thief of joy!
Nobody has a perfect happy life. There are times when it feels perfect and can be generally happy. Perfection is not real. Everyone has challenges. That being said, I have a good life. My tip is to advocate for yourself, pursue career, hobbies, activities that interest you, and don’t live your life as a people pleaser. Don’t do things because it’s expected or make decisions based on what other people think your life should be. Don’t have kids because your mom wants grandchildren. Don’t settle on a partner that you know isn’t right. Don’t stay in jobs you hate. Create the life you want with people that appreciate you for you.
Gratitude, faith, accepting the flaws of those I love (and those flaws not being detrimental to me).
Go after the career you want, be financially independent, marry your best friend (who’s supportive of your career, a partner in everything and also greatttt in bed), build a (small but authentic) support system and put yourself first.
I think one of the tricks to a happy life is to accept it won’t be perfect. It takes a lot of pressure off yourself if you don’t have to achieve all the time or do things perfectly.
Other things that add to my happiness:
– A very optimistic and caring boyfriend who genuinely makes life easier.
– Mindfulness.
– Limit my own screen time and no social media. Instead, spend more time in nature, dancing, reading, or doing creative projects.
– In my life/work balance: find a job I value and care about, but still put life first.
– Being able to embrace unpleasant emotions makes it much easier to work through them instead.
– It also allows you to be ok stepping outside your comfort zone.
No husband. No kids.
– good health
– good mental health
– true friends
– keeping yourself busy with something you find fulfilling or worthwhile
– being open with your partner to maintain a good relationship
– learn and grow as a person
– for animal lovers: get a pet!
– find/create a home you want to have
Nothing is perfect but your attitude to life certainly plays a role in how you live your life.
Just do you.
Marry the right person and don’t have kids! 🥳💕
I don’t know what perfect looks like but I am happy.
Tip is don’t take most things personal because really most things are not personal. Focus only on what you can control, manage your risks well and put buffer for those you don’t have control.
And speak to the world what you want and work towards it.
Listen to your guts.
This is a little different than other comments here, but I have good kids that are sweet, kind and make me laugh. I have never felt such joy as when they show others true compassion and generosity. The older they get the more fun it gets!
I am also married to my best friend who supports me completely and loves me absolutely. We treat each other with respect and kindness and I can’t imagine life without him. Find someone who loves and respects you completely. Where EACH of you puts the other person first.
I understand a lot of people nowadays are choosing to be child-free, and I used to be one of them, but the joy and love of my children have definitely outweighed any stress involved with having kids. Watching them grow into kind, respectful and loving human beings has been the most rewarding experience of my life.
I also have a wonderful community and group of friends and family. I don’t surround myself with toxic people or relationships. Life is definitely too short for that!
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Keep you expectations low and your effort high.
I am really happy and in peace with my life, my life is not perfect, I do have problems and issues like everyone, but I feel like I have the perfect happy life.
I want to disclose that I have a husband, a dog and a kid. I saw people saying that not having kids or husband is the secret of their happiness and good for them, but it’s not my case.
But of course I chose a good husband and we do have a really good relationship, and our partnership is one of the reasons why I am happy.
He is a partner partner, so this means that our marriage didn’t erased me, but allowed me to flourish.
My kid is amazing, I am tired ever since I had her almost 3y ago but so so much happier. She does with us in our trips, in restaurants, she eats what we eat so it’s easier to keep life going…
I think that I know who I am and what is important for me. So I focus on that. I work with the mindset that: my work will give me the money I need for my life, and that gives me peace of mind. (I have a great career that pays me really well, but I am not looking for emotional validation from it).
I don’t allow people to disrespect me, and I do make friends but if one of them makes more anxious than happy I am not afraid to move on from that relationship.
I have some health issues, and I have a really healthy lifestyle because of it. I do things consistently and don’t rely on motivation. I do it because I have to do it. My life improved significantly when I started doing that.
I have my hobbies, I have my friends, I have my bubble of love (my little family), I don’t dwell on things that won’t matter. I won’t focus on things I can’t change, but I will attack anything I have agency to change with determination.
I don’t self medicate with drugs, I don’t do anything in excess.
I rest when possible. I try to sleep 8h a day, I take yearly vacations to travel and don’t have any chores (so no airbnbs ). I take responsibility for my mental health, and physical health, and share the same responsibilities for my daughters with my husband, but that’s it. I am not personally responsible for anyone else.
I chose to be happy everyday
Financially independent, no kids, therapy, true self care, goals, cutting shitty people out of my life including family. Good skin care. Learn how to fix shit. Listen to good music.
I have a husband and one child. So far, my life is perfectly happy because this was what I wanted. My tips for being happy? Get off social media. When I quit Facebook like 5 years ago, everything just felt better. I stopped comparing to other people, and just enjoyed the day to day of my own life.
I’ve set boundaries to people that bug me. I don’t see them that often, and they know what upsets me and what’s okay. Aside from that, getting outside and getting sunshine.
My life isnt perfect ( no one’s is) but I count myself incredibly lucky and am so happy and content. I have a husband who loves and respects me, pets where I put the work in and they turned out to be wonderful, good finances thanks to marriage and luck, and circumstances that have allowed me to travel throughout my life. Could things better? Absolutely. Do I have moments where everything feels so hard? Of course. But I also have learned that the grass is always greener on the other side and you need to count your blessings every day or you will always be miserable, no matter how much you have.
I learned late in life that my happiness depended on myself.
A lot of meditation and mindfulness with letting go of literally everything from the past. I dealt with my past – healed and let it go.
I live in the present and look forward to the future.
I get up everyday and I am thankful for just being alive, I look in the mirror and say hey you have really pretty eyes. I treat myself to little things like a special tea now and then, or a comfy sweater. Material stuff doesn’t have as much impact on me as it did when I was younger but having a bubble bath or a nice warm cup of tea in the sun with an audio book does.
Build your community. I’m the happiest I’ve ever been because of my relationships with other people. My husband is truly wonderful. I have a tightknit group of friends who live close by and we hang out every week. I’m part of a sports club which is very sociable. I volunteer and do fulfilling work in my local community. My local area is really lovely. I have businesses I frequent and know the owners. I have an allotment where I meet other people in the village and we grow veggies. I participate in village events. Overall I feel really safe and supported.
-no kids
-healthy relationship with amazing partner
-staying active, lots of hiking
-travel and exploring new areas
-jobs that allow us to save more than we spend
-laugh often, don’t dwell on past, plan for future
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childfree. minimal financial responsibilities, my health is a priority, having hobbies.
Living an authentic life and loving myself and life 🌟
Chill out about most things and stop trying to get your way all the time. Instead of telling people “respect me! Stop disrespecting me!” Leave lol. Ghost people. Meet new people
But mostly chill out. A lot of the stress I had was self imposed. Things always seem to work out
Recognizing that there is no “perfect life” and then striving to do what makes me happy instead of what is expected of me.
Others have commented that I have “the perfect life” and it sometimes bothers me because it’s not something that just happens, it’s intentionally created.
There have been many years hard work of work and struggle to create strict boundaries w my family — but I made it!
Other things:
– getting lots of sleep
– having two adorable cats
– healthy relationship with a partner who adores me
– working my 9-5 job and saying no to overtime or extra tasks
– maintaining deep relationships with my friends
– lots and lots of therapy
Married to a lovely guy. We have a lovely daughter. Have a gorgeous house and puppy. Couldn’t ask for more!
A husband who is a man. He takes care of me and our family. Kids that brought a different type of joy in our family. Best dog ever. Amazing in laws. Work from home. Also just stopped seeing myself as a victim of things. Stopped thinking I was traumatized by everything. Learned good coping skills.
Be picky with your life partner. My husband has only made my life better since I met him.
Don’t lower your standards
Don’t settle for less
Have matching aspirations, goals, and expectations of each other
Get divorced
No kids and therapy.
Stop doing everything society expects of you and just do what you want. Remember that you’re just a creature of the earth and that a lot of “important” things are just man made bullshit. Accept the fact that your body isn’t perfect and that you will age. Take care of it with diet and exercise. Work on loving yourself.
Also seeing a lot of people say no kids, but my daughter brings me a lot of joy.