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🔥Are you wondering why some men just can’t seem to get it right in the bedroom? 😏 Don’t worry, you’re not alone. In this article, we’re going to break down what makes a man bad in bed and how you can help your partner improve their performance.
##What Makes a Man Bad in Bed?
When it comes to sex, there are many factors that can contribute to a man’s performance in the bedroom. Here are some common reasons why a man may be considered bad in bed:
###1. Lack of Communication
Communication is key in any relationship, especially when it comes to sex. If your partner is not open to discussing your likes and dislikes in the bedroom, it can lead to a lackluster experience for both parties.
###2. Selfishness
Some men may be more focused on their own pleasure and satisfaction rather than ensuring their partner is also enjoying themselves. This can lead to a one-sided experience that leaves their partner feeling unsatisfied.
###3. Performance Anxiety
Performance anxiety is a common issue that can affect a man’s ability to perform well in bed. This anxiety can stem from a variety of factors, such as past experiences, body image issues, or pressure to perform.
###4. Lack of Experience
Some men may simply lack the experience and knowledge needed to please their partner in bed. This can result in awkward or uncomfortable encounters that leave both parties feeling unsatisfied.
###5. Ignoring Foreplay
Foreplay is an essential part of any sexual experience, yet some men may neglect this important step. Without proper foreplay, both parties may struggle to get in the mood and enjoy the experience fully.
##How to Help Your Partner Improve
If you’re in a relationship with a man who could use some help in the bedroom, fear not! There are steps you can take to help your partner improve their performance and enhance your overall sexual experience together.
###1. Encourage Open Communication
Encouraging open communication is the first step to improving your sexual relationship. Be honest with your partner about your desires and preferences, and encourage them to do the same. This will help ensure that both parties are on the same page and can work together to enhance the experience.
###2. Offer Positive Feedback
When your partner does something right in the bedroom, make sure to offer positive feedback. Praise their efforts and let them know what you enjoyed about the experience. This positive reinforcement can help boost their confidence and encourage them to continue improving.
###3. Explore Together
Trying new things together can help spice up your sex life and keep things exciting. Explore different positions, toys, and role-playing scenarios to discover what works best for both of you. This can also help your partner gain more experience and confidence in the bedroom.
###4. Seek Professional Help
If your partner’s performance issues stem from deeper emotional or psychological issues, it may be helpful to seek professional help. A therapist or sex counselor can help your partner work through any underlying issues and improve their performance in the bedroom.
###5. Practice Patience
Improving your sexual relationship takes time and patience. Remember to be supportive of your partner as they work to improve their performance, and be understanding of any setbacks along the way. With patience and perseverance, you can help your partner become a better lover.
In conclusion, there are many factors that can contribute to a man being considered bad in bed. By addressing these issues head-on and working together as a couple, you can help your partner improve their performance and enhance your sexual experience. Remember, communication, patience, and a willingness to explore are key to building a satisfying and fulfilling sexual relationship.
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Doing something after you told them not to do it
Not giving a rats ass about her orgasm
As a man, I’d say some girls (in my very limited experience) are not happy when there’s no foreplay.
Sitting in the corner crying
Snoring and stealing the sheets.. farting under the covers
Selfishness and ignoring every tip or plead to do something different to make it more enjoyable. Had had several men who ignored my tips on how to get me off because „every other girl I did this to liked it so you will too“. Spoiler alert: I didn’t.
No foreplay, just gets right to it, even if the woman isn’t ready and doesn’t give a shit whether she orgasms or not.
same position all the time
Smelling like shit.
Jackrabbit, one speed jackrabbit
Playing CBAT
Not making sure your partner orgasms. Not listening to feedback and finding what your partner likes. Communication is key.
As a man I’d assume selfishness.
I will say also that a lot of women are very different. There have been women, I can’t make cum, no matter how hard I tried. And some that were really easy to make cum several times. I think the biggest factor that determined that was how attractive I was perceived by the woman in each circumstance. I feel like that’s the biggest factor. Also not being comfortable/communicative/listening to feedback will also make things more difficult.
rushing into too quickly, not reading her, not caring if she’s into it, leaving when he cums
Eating toast. And eating toast with cheese and causing the cat to meow in piteous “I’m *staaaaaaaarving!*” mode for at least half an hour.
For me its after the sex part, usually men after sex just stand up and put there clothes on and then leave, sometimes not even a word they just leave. That for me is the worst, like after they get what they want they just don’t care
No core strength. We just don’t fit right together. Bad hygiene.
Not being present because he’s got something he heard about or saw in a porn he wants to try out.
No actual knowledge of the female body beyond where he can poke it.
Thinks of sex as something he does to me or on me instead of with me.
Not into foreplay or after play if he’s quick to orgasm.
An Insufficient variety of dips
Badgering. Pretending “no” means “ask again in 5 minutes.”
only thinking about his feelings rather than his partner’s
I agree with most of these comments but I’ll add a simple one.
When a man is silent. Can’t stand it.
Blanket stealing.
me: “right there, don’t stop, keep doing that”
him: *stops, does something else*
🤯
For the big dick guys: the cervix is NOT the g spot!!!
Selfishness, only caring about his own pleasure, and not respecting boundaries or comfort levels.
Lasting way too long. It is possible.
Not paying attention to your needs
Being unwilling to try different positions
Poor stamina
Not being emotionally present/conscious
Not listening
Giggling and hand puppets
he got all his moves from porn. does 4-7moves. Abruptly rearranging a woman like a mannequin throughout, when she was *just about* getting somewhere— he changes the position *again*
Not caring about their partner’s pleasure. Everything else can be taught.
lasting too long!
I (guy) have learned that I will always get off, so my goal is to help my partner achieve that.
Not finding the clitoris. Being too rough. Finishing too fast and not caring if the woman finished or doing anything afterwards. Not communicating. Getting annoyed at suggestions.
Selfishness.
Being selfish.
Whatever the male version of “starfish-ing” is
No erection
Being really quick to orgasm and having a long refractory period, without making accommodations for this by learning adequate hand and mouth skills.
Thinking that penis in vagina is the pinnacle of sex lol
Poor ladies!
Not having consideration for his partner.
As a man, my hornyness is literally dead if she’s not getting off. Many times I want to give her multiple orgasms orally before I’m ready for my turn.
I honestly can’t comprehend being ok with not caring. I’d feel so watched and scummy and like a rapey turd.
Onion smell
Only using his dick to fuck you. I want hands, lips, tongue and words. I want all of you involved.
Selfishness. Minimal foreplay and no oral. Too concerned with the end goal. Arrogance. Porn acting.
Not making sure your partner’s needs are met. I recently experienced this myself. First time, I didn’t orgasm, but I was willing to chalk it up it to being the first time with him. Second time there was making out foreplay, but once clothes came off, no fingering no oral no even touching my clit. And he lasted like a minute. No second round, no taking care of me after, nothing. I orgasm easily, but I got nothing from it. He tried to ask again – despite the fact that I told him that he should pay attention to the clit and try fingering a woman. He tried to say that he heard me and would be more attentive but I was like nope, I’m not interested. He was bad in bed, and I’d need to be much more invested in things to even contemplate training a 40+ year old to do better.
When an ex found out something he said or did really turned me on, he would do it LESS because he “didn’t want it to lose its impact.”
Took years to realize that was insane and toxic.