#AttractionCheck Ladies: What non-physical changes did your man make that increased your sexual attraction to him? 💑
Hey ladies! So, we know a lot of guys think hitting the gym is the key to winning over their ladies, but we all know there’s more to attraction than just muscles, right? 🏋️♂️ Sometimes, it’s the little things that make a big difference.
For example, maybe your man quit smoking, showing an increase in his self-control or self-worth. Or perhaps he landed a big promotion at work, showing his ambition and drive. These kinds of changes can really turn up the heat in a relationship! 🔥
So, I’m curious: what other non-physical changes have made you more attracted to your man? Share your stories, insights, and experiences below! Let’s uncover the real secrets to keeping the flame alive. 💫
#RelationshipGoals #Attractiveness #NonPhysicalChanges #LoveIsInTheAir 💕
1 hr and Nadda. Still saving just in case some good tips are shared 😝
Goal-oriented. Getting stuff done towards a goal.
It’s not about looks, it’s about still being interested, still having proper conversations and doing little things for each other, having date nights or day trips or sending each other jokes.
Vanity is a bit of a turn off for me, a guy who simply enjoys hill waking or swimming, or 5 aside sounds more attractive than someone who works out in a gym
Taking good care of his facial hair. He has a beard and when he goes and gets it shaped, and actually uses products to maintain it, it looks better.
I’m a fan of jeans, dark shirt and ball cap combo. Every time he wears this I tell him he’s hot.
He always smells good, but doesn’t overdo it with the cologne.
Constant physical touch, hugging me from behind when I’m doing something, smacking my butt when he walks by, random head kisses. Putting his hand on my lower back when we are out in public.
Anytime he physically moves me. When we are about to do stuff, and he will grab my hips and move me where he wants me.
I like crude sex jokes about how much he wants sex with me. Anytime he can make me feel attractive, I’m going to find him more attractive
Studies show that the more motherly role a wife takes on a man the lower her sex drive. So ideally when a man doesn’t “need to be told what do do” and is independently a good partner he is going to increase his sexual attraction.
Being gentle and kind. Making sure I felt safe enough to relax with him.
Being obviously and vocally attracted to me. Taking me how beautiful I was while he kissed me.
A little extra grooming when it comes to facial and body hair, trimming his nails, smelling good.
Treating me like I am something precious, like I am special to him. (I hope I am, of course, but making that clear has me swooning.)
Lots of nonsexual touches. Paying attention to my preferences (just life in general) and acting on them. Taking care of hygiene. Taking care of his own shit (not expecting me to mother or maid for him).
Being funny, kind and intelligent. Attraction for me has very little to do with physical appearance.
He makes me feel like a princess every single day !
My husband is hot, seriously attractive and in good health. He looks like a sexy lumberjack with a beard and muscles and tattoos.
But we’ve been married for 15 years so that is just background noise mostly.
What actually makes him attractive to me is when he is a good partner and good parent. His jokes, kindness, flirting and ‘just because’ little gifts, sweet text messages.
When he stepped up at home and became fully engaged with me and the kids – my
Libido morphed from half dead slug to roaring lion.
I’m a sapiosexual meaning that I’m attracted to intelligence more than anything else. But they also need to be funny. Funny and smart is what I go for, don’t care about looks
I think quitting smoking generally raises a man’s increase in not smelling like shit 🤷🏻♂️
He started being supportive. Unfortunately, it didn’t last long each time. But I think most women will agree that having a partner who supports your goals and dreams – career, family, fitness etc – is hugely attractive.
Paying attention being able to focus, my husband was recently diagnosed with ADHD, since getting on medication he is more focused with me and the kids, a good man that listens is so attractive to me.
No changes needed here. Attraction comes with connection. Every time when his (re)actions show how much he loves me, without even being aware of it himself. Those moments when his acts show me how much he sincerely loves me, make me fall in love over and over again. Or the moments when he understands me like no other, when I realize even more, why he is mr. right for me. This mental connection makes me long for physical connection aswell.
I love how personally hygienic my partner is 😍 he’s so clean and shaven and smells so nice
Being more proactive about dealing with tasks and decision making
Learning to argue more respectfully. My now husband grew up in a household where shouting and interrupting was just “how you communicate,” and it got much more intense, with a lot of insults and call-backs to past wrongs, if an actual disagreement was on the table. He made the effort to learn to wait his turn, stay on topic, and apologize without adding “ifs” when it was warranted, and now when we argue, it’s mutually civil and actually productive most of the time.
Being respectful and engaged in activities with me outside of sex and home making (chores, bill discussions, just the boring shit). Treating me like a friend and having an interest in me as a person turns me on.
If he’s well read, if he keeps up with news and not just in a ‘watching whatever the news is showing ‘ way, but actually going back and trying to tell what is BS and what is not. Critical Thinking is attractive.
Groomed hair. Everywhere. From regular haircuts, nice beard lines, trimming his body hair shorter, gets his eyebrows waxed a little bit, etc. Also, he smells good everywhere. From behind his ears to his feet, he’s so clean and smells fresh.
Being inherited 100 million dollars
He takes care of his share and sometimes more of things around the house with a sense of honour rather than complaint or resentment. He also has developed a beautiful relationship with my son (his stepson) and regularly spends time bonding with him. Also, he brings me gifts and food.
I am never short of energy to show how much I appreciate that.
OK so I have never really stopped be attracted to him but keeping these things up is what keeps me attracted.
– Quit smoking
– Started decluttering all his collected things in our storage rooms
– Built me a makeup corner
– Bought speakers so he doesn’t have to be on earphones only
– Cook for us everyday
– Clean his cock everytime after sex
– Washes his hands
– He listen when I need to vent
– Help tidying the home
– Helped me rent a simmer beach cottage for us
– Let’s me have a male best friend who’s gonna visit us this summer (I’m in Sweden he’s in Canada)
– Despite chronic depression and traumas he still put on lots of effort to make me feel that he cares, about our home and about me
– He wears expensive cologne that makes me knee weak. Sometimes he wears the cologne he wore when we first met
– He cares about his looks and dress up and I love his style
– He’s goofy dancing with me in our living room
– He hugs me and kiss me and give me compliments multiple times daily and often say “I love you” Since first day together he always say “Goodnight treasure” before we fall asleep.
– He’s kind to others and to animals
– He always stays commited no matter the conflicts or issues, he’s there and showing he’s not going anywhere and we are gonna solve it together.
– He is vulnerable and come to my lap when he needs to be nurtured. He shares his true feelings.
– Bonus when he exercise but not prio