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Hey there, it sounds like you’re in a tough spot right now. Dealing with an attack on your girlfriend and not knowing who the attacker is can be incredibly frustrating and stressful. It’s understandable that you want to do everything in your power to protect your girlfriend and find out who this guy is. Here are some steps you can take and some advice to help you navigate this difficult situation.
First of all, it’s important to prioritize your girlfriend’s physical and emotional well-being. Here are some things you can do to support her:
1. Support Your Girlfriend: Let your girlfriend know that you are there for her and that you will support her in any way she needs. Encourage her to seek help from friends, family, or a counselor if she is struggling to cope with the trauma of the attack.
2. Encourage Reporting to the Police: While it’s understandable that your girlfriend may be hesitant to report the attacker, it’s important for her safety and the safety of others that the incident is brought to the attention of the authorities. Encourage her to consider reporting the attack to the police.
3. Seek Legal Advice: If your girlfriend is unsure about reporting the attack, consider seeking legal advice from a professional to understand the options available and the potential consequences of not reporting the incident.
In addition to the practical steps you can take to support your girlfriend, it’s important to remember the principles of the Bhagavad Gita and apply them to this situation.
The Bhagavad Gita teaches us about the importance of duty and righteousness. In this situation, your duty is to support and protect your girlfriend, while also acting with integrity and responsibility. The Gita also speaks about the importance of detachment from the fruits of our actions, meaning that we should do what is right without expecting a particular outcome.
By focusing on your duty to support and protect your girlfriend, and by detaching from the expectation of a specific outcome, you can approach this situation with a sense of calmness and clarity. Remember that you cannot control your girlfriend’s actions or decisions, but you can support her and encourage her to do what is right for her well-being.
In conclusion, it’s a difficult and complex situation to navigate when your girlfriend has been attacked and is unwilling to disclose details about the attacker. It’s important to support and prioritize your girlfriend’s well-being, while also encouraging her to take the necessary steps to ensure her safety. By applying the principles of the Bhagavad Gita, you can approach this situation with a sense of duty and detachment, while also providing the support and guidance your girlfriend needs. Take care, and I hope this information can help you in this challenging time.
The guy made her block you?? While you were dating?
Who is the boyfriend here?
This is sketch. She’s sketch too. Don’t let her manipulate you. She can go to the cops and tell you who he is now or you shouldn’t get back with her.
The vibe I got from this was that he was the actual bf and u were the side piece 🤷♂️
She has feelings for him, something physical happened and she is preempting the fallout with some Sh!t story to cover it up. Follow your gut OP don’t go down this rabbit hole and save yourself the headache
This reads as the new version of “I’m pregnant. Now I’ve lost the baby. You can’t leave me… ”
Too much drama IMO.
I’m sorry but is he or you the boyfriend?
This girl is pure red flags
She’s actively protecting him and prioritising him over you? Baffling.
Tell her how sketchy she and her behaviour has been and tell her you don’t think she’s being truthful about the extent of her relationship with this guy.
Listen to what she says, inform her parents with wtf is going on and then cut her lose.
Good for you! I don’t think I had the smarts to know when I needed to get out of a situation like that when I was 22. It sucks that she got attacked, but defending him like that is really suspicious and I don’t blame you at all for not wanting anything to do with it. If it feels like high school drama, it is. I am a little curious what you’d have done if she told you though. I’m assuming you weren’t going to execute some street justice of your own. Anyway, let her deal with her own stuff. I have a gut feeling this isn’t the first time you’ve been sucked into drama like this because of her.
She blocks you, her boyfriend, at the request of this man? Something in the milk ain’t clean
From a purely selfish perspective, keep out of this, bro. It’s gotta million red flags hanging out of every angle of it.
Okay- if a person has been attacked, it does not help at all to force the victim to do something. As logical as it is for non-victims to report to police, trauma can paralyze a victim. If they are a woman, they know there is a good chance they won’t be believed, or will be blamed. If it goes to court, they know their personal and private life will be scrutinized. For some survivors, it’s not worth the trauma that will last months to years, if they can get just let it go. I know it doesn’t make sense to a bystander, but if you’ve been in that situation, it’s logical.
Further, when you’ve been attacked you lost power and part of healing is getting your own voice back, so having someone else make decisions or tell them what they must do, is further trauma.
That being said, it sounds like she has an abusive ex or pimp/ if you don’t want that in your life you’re free to say it’s too much for you.
I’m sorry dude, but you’re being seriously naive believing this shit. Break up and move on.
It sure sounds like:
1- she wasn’t attacked
2- you are the side piece
3- She’s trying to cover up her guilt
You’ve done the right thing.
Keep moving on and leave the gas lighting behind.
My dude, are you the side chick?
Edit: Yes. Yes you are
She is lying to you. Her story is ridiculous. Block her and move on.
Sir you’re the side dude. No random fella can make a girl block you for no reason at all. That guy is her bf and maybe they went out and he hit her idk. Just stay broken up, not worth it.
I think everyone here has covered it perfectly.
There is so much we don’t know. Some guy isn’t going to make her unfollow you.
You don’t need any advice. She was sketchy and brought drama and you don’t need that. Keep it moving.
Did you actually see this guy? Like face to face?
You should just move on. She only wanted to report him to get you back, if she did that before you broke up then i would consider continuing it. But yeah, too much drama and bs to handle.
She is drama and is sounds to me like you are maybe the side piece. Cut her loose, you have no time for these games in your life.
Block her and live your life.
Uh, dude. Bro. Listen, and please listen carefully. Block her. Do not communicate with her any further. She has a relationship with this guy.
Good call breaking up with her, i would be sad if i had to tell you and you wouldnt listen. You do realise you were the side piece or at the very least he is an insanely jealous ex or situationship.
What are you supposed to do…? My friend, you’ve already _done_ it! This is some weird clusterfuck that you untangled yourself from and rightly so. Your girlfriend obliging some Arsehole to meddle with her contacts, even the person she’s dating, is bad news.
In short, there’s nothing left for you to do and you’ve made the right decision.
Sounds like she is seeing this guy behind your back and he assaulted her on one of their outings.
There are a lot of red flags in your story, such as him making her block you from time to time, as well as hiding his identity from you.
Either hire a private investigator, or consider leaving her. They are playing games with you.
I think you did the right thing by breaking up. A lot of half truths from her. Is she trying to hide something?. If the guy attacked her then she should go to the police but, stay away from her, move on.
Buddy, run. She’s fucking him. She may be getting manipulated but she’s a grown up and is definitely fucking him.
In this situation, you’re supposed to do exactly what you did, end the relationship.
He’s her pimp.
She’s obviously cheating on you with the guy.
Ummmm are you sure he’s not her boyfriend
You did the right thing. She feeds into his drama and she would have dragged you into it too. She doesn’t know what a healthy relationship is and she let him affect what you thought was a healthy relationship with her
You didn’t immediately rush to her when she told you she’d been physically attacked. You instead yelled at her for not giving you a map you could have used to go commit assault and land in jail or the hospital and then jail.
Are you twelve?
Neither of you should be in a relationship until you’ve had at least six months of psychological therapy.
The other guy was her real boyfriend
It sounds like shes being stalked and is ashamed and terrified and trying to placate him. Who knows what he’s been threatening? Stalkers—whether they’re ex-partners or complete strangers often threaten the victim’s friends, family, colleagues and even their pets. OP, you need to get over yourself any toxic idea of you as a male avenger or rescuer. Tell her you’re worried about her and put all relationship talk on the back burner while you be a FRIEND AND A DECENT HUMAN BEING and go with her to the police station to support her seeking protection. You’ll also have s better chance of finding out what’s actually going on. It’s messed up, imo, that so many people are saying dump the drama when this woman seems to desperately need support to come forward and seek police intervention (when, typically, even that is far from guaranteed, which is another valid reason victims don’t come forward.) OP should consider that he’s being the dramatic one when he could simply be, not even a “good boyfriend” but even a much needed friend.