“What are some creepy things men say that they think are alright but actually make you uncomfortable, ladies? #women #relationships #dating #creepymen
Have you ever been in a situation where a man says something that he thinks is perfectly fine but actually sends chills down your spine? It’s surprisingly common for men to unknowingly say things that creep women out. Let’s explore some of these boundary-crossing comments and behaviors:
### Signs of Creepiness in Men
– ### Unsolicited Comments on Physical Appearance
– “You’d look so much better if you wore less makeup.”
– “I love it when you wear tight clothes that show off your curves.”
– ### Overly Descriptive Compliments
– “You have such a sexy body.”
– “Your hair smells amazing, can I smell it again?”
– ### Persistent Requests for Personal Information
– “What’s your exact address so I can send you a surprise?”
– “Tell me all about your ex-boyfriends and past relationships.”
If any of these scenarios sound familiar, it’s essential to trust your instincts and set clear boundaries. Remember, you deserve respect and should never feel uncomfortable or unsafe in any interaction. Let’s empower each other to recognize and address creepy behavior when it occurs. What are some other creepy things men have said to you? #boundaries #respect #womensrights“
“Smile!”
I’m a man, but I can still say without question that it’s “Where my hug at?” People who say that skeeve me the hell out and it’s always exclusively to the opposite gender (I say this because I’ve been asked this by a woman before and it was the single most uncomfortable experience of my life for a variety of reasons including that).
Any comment on my physical appearance when they are first introducing themselves.
Whenever they tell you to smile in any variation of ways.
“Good girl”
“Do you live alone?” “Are you here alone?”
Why, why, why, do men feel it’s okay to ask that? No matter what the situation is, I’m going to say no.
“I like a challenge”. I know it *can* be flirty. However, it’s usually said by the guy who isn’t accepting that you’ve turned him down. Now it comes off as predatory
I was trying to sell something on market place and he messaged me and said “do you come with it?” Thank you for being creepy BEFORE I gave you my address for pick up sir.
Not a woman but from experience witnessing this… Ladies, When christian men tell you “God told me one day I would marry you”… that’s your cue to run. Doesn’t matter what you believe or how you feel about him… nobody has ever said this without hiding a desire to control or abuse women. If it were true (and to be clear… it’s not)… and the guy deserved you… he’d tell you after you decided to marry him not to coerce you into dating/marrying him.
not something they say, but them not getting out of the way/not letting you pass them even if its playful
“If I was 20 years younger…”
So creepy. If you were 20 years younger I’d still avoid you at all costs.
Pretending to know me so I’ll give them my real name.
Every comment ever about wanting to impregnate me
Might sound innocuous, but in an online gaming forum I’m in “how old are you?” Usually followed by some type of sexual advance when they learn I’m over 18.
I liked the perfume a girl at work was wearing and wanted to buy some for my wife. I could not figure out a way to ask her what it was without sounding like I wanted my wife to smell like her.
I still don’t know what product, and I guess I never will.
I’ll tell a story about when I was unintentionally creepy. I was at a conference and met up with a new coworker. Walking out of the conference I asked where she was staying, not because I had any intention of flirting, but because I’m awkward and had nothing else to say and wanted to talk about my cool airbnb. I think she got uncomfortable and said “my husband and I are staying at that hotel”. I felt like she was trying to make it clear that she’s married and not interested which is fair, I am too. We’re good friends now and had some pretty chill conversations the next day, probably because she later learned I’m married and expecting? I don’t know but I still cringe about it.
Note to self: don’t ask women about their living situation when it’s expected that they’re alone.
“Listen, I don’t want you to think I’m a creep or anything, but…”(then goes on to being a creep).
“You’re pretty for a _____.” Fill in the blank with any possible description. Creepy and insulting.
Honking or shouting from a moving vehicle. We literally have a song about how much we hate guys who do this. Take the hint.
“Where’s my hug?”
When I was pregnant, there was regular at the restaurant I worked at who would always tell me he knew I wished it was his baby.
Creepy and also no, sir.
Since I’m seeing similar comments I’m just gonna put here that i have NEVER been catcalled on the street once since i passed the age of 16. I am 25 now and I’ve never been catcalled since, the most i was catcalled was when i was 14-15. Disgusting
“I”m calling from your bathroom…’
I had a guy tell me I’d be the hottest girl in the place if I took off my glasses. I told him I’d gladly remove them, if it meant I’d never see his creeper face again but, sadly my vision isn’t that bad.
“If i were still your age i would definitely hit it up with you”
“You look different when you’re awake”
I’ve had men tell my children “how pretty their mom is” in front of me and I just find that to be beyoooond creepy and weird. Don’t tell my kids you think I’m hot, and actually…just don’t talk to any kids if you’re trying to hit on their mom?! Weird.
“but you exist for my pleasure, right?” After I refused to have sex with him. There was a bit of a culture difference there to say the least
I had a man once tell me that I was getting old and should think about children. I’m 24.
“I like them feisty.”
…I’m not a stallion you’re breaking, you fucking weirdo.