#WhatWomenFindHot π Have you ever wondered what makes a man irresistible to women? I have a friend who I low-key have a crush on, but she seems to think another guy is pretty cool. π€ So, I can’t help but wonder, what are the things that women secretly find hot in men? π Is it the way they dress, their sense of humor, or maybe confidence? π€·ββοΈ Let’s dive into this mystery together!
According to a survey conducted by *insert relevant source*, some women are drawn to men who have a great sense of humor. Others swoon over guys who are ambitious and go-getters. And let’s not forget about the charm of a man who can cook up a storm in the kitchen! π³β¨
I’m curious to hear what you think! Cast your vote in the poll below on what you think women find hot in men. Feel free to share your insights and experiences in the comments too! Let’s crack the code on what makes men irresistible to women. ππ₯ #JoinTheConversation #GirlTalk #CrushConfessions
Ohh women love lots of things, I think the main one is when you take a sock off and use it to floss in between your toes, they go crazy
A sense of humor. Funny guys always get the ladies to pay attention.
I guess when youβre just being casual like you donβt overthink things and kinda just say whateverβs on your mind like the question you just asked.
Skills..dated an electrician, carpenter and mechanic..I like men who know how to operate shit.
veins on forearms, man hands, confidence, good hygiene, smells good, hairy, dad bods, so many things. but also it depends on the woman
ETA: if he can fix things as i tend to accidentally break a lot of stuff
Being passionate or caring deeply about something. Idk when being aloof and apathetic became cool but watching your eyes and body language light up when you care about something/someone is unbelievably attractive
This can vary depending on which women you askβ¦ Besides physical attraction, Iβd say sense of humor is a huge one, and overall personality.
We also like when guys remember details about us and do things for us without us having to ask. For example: I mentioned a few days ago that Iβve been wanting to see a certain new movie, so you plan us a trip to the movie theater to go see it. Or maybe I told you I didnβt sleep well and was super tired, so you got me a cup of coffee. It doesnβt have to be super expensive or grandiose gestures, it can be small things like that. That kind of thoughtfulness can really go a long way.
Place your hand on the back of her seat while you back your car up. ( it doesnβt matter if you actually need to back your car up. She wonβt notice something trivial like that because sheβll be too busy swooning. Hell, I did it once while waiting for a light to change . Aside from her enjoyment, it was completely pointless)
Accountability is extremely hot. So hard to find a man that just owns it. We’re all human it’s fine.
nice hands (minus points for dirty fingernails) and just smelling good (hygiene in general)
Broad shoulders. Playing the accordion.
When heβs direct and assertive with people. Not in an asshole way, but just in a way like heβs not going to let anyone run over him.
Being polite to others! Wait, staff, the old lady at the grocery store, even the guy asking change outside the gas station. A kind man sounds super boring, but that patience will serve you well!
How he discusses his ex! Because what che says about her is how he will talk about you when you’re not around. I’m not saying when you’re broken up, but to his friends and family when you’re out of the room.
When they show me something they are obsessed with and their face genuinely lights up. Even if it’s the strangest thing it’s so cute when they go off on a tangent about their favorite thing!
“girl-friend” that hyphen doing a lotta work
Women definitely love a man that helps them with the simple house chores. And when they donβt have to take care of you like a child.
When he says text me when you get home safely
Being genuinely interested in how we feel and whatβs on our mind. Have something deep to talk about.
Also, being happy and emotionally regulated. Angry, aggressive, and shallow is the worst.
Casual playful winks.
long hair
No bragging. Men should have self-esteem but still be humble. I want to discover myself how great you are.
i find humor, knowledge/skill in a niche interest, or passion for a hobby. baller if they got all three
This is niche, but I love it when men are masculine and feminine at the same time. Think Scott Weiland, Adam Ant, David Bowie (even though he doesn’t really do it for me). I’ve known a few men like that personally as well, but obviously naming them here would be pointless examples, haha. It’s a fairly uncommon thing, at least in my opinion, but it’s a huge turn on for me.
We really love sweethearts that speak to us like weβre human and people, not just some female, cause we are. Also men that can do and fix shit, thatβs mad sexy.
Other stuff like confidence, passion(both sexually and non-sexually), ambition, even ambition without actual success, are all bonuses. Men who are trying to better themselves and work on themselves even if theyβre not there yet. A lot of us love to help the men we love in all aspects of their lives.
Humor and an underrated one, manners and gentlemen like behavior.
Confident (but not arrogant). Can make decisions! Has direction in life. Is independent. Is at least a little bit handy. Good hygiene (keeps up with haircuts but face a little rugged). Relaxed and funny. Good with kids. Has their own money and makes good choices with it. Thoughtful but not a pushover. Looks don’t matter much to me when these things are all there. I dated a guy I initially found very unattractive but his confidence and charm and humor and good smell got me swooning in no time.
To me, it’s the boring stuff like being polite to everybody that I find hot. It’s fine if he’s not a bad boy. I’m not sure I’d like a bad boy π€£
Plus point is if he’s shy, I find a guy being very shy in my presence to be very very hot!
It’s not secretly hot, but maybe something that gets overlooked:
* Voice
* Edit: FOREARMS not under arms XD
Personality/demeanor:
* Confident but not arrogant
* Positive
* Relaxed
* Articulated manner of speaking
(NB you don’t actually have to be these things especially not all the time, but if you come across as them it is a lot more appealing than someone who is visibly insecure, negative and stressed out.)
Most recently I went from thinking a guy was nice to a full blown crush all because of how he reacted to an arguement. It wasn’t with me, I was present for it, but when someone had a solid point arguing against him he said “oh damn that’s a good point, hmmmm, I’m gonna have to think more on this” and honestly that’s the first time I’ve ever heard a man say that (I’m 37) and I keep playing it over and over in my head and I’ve got the biggest crush on him now π
Get a cute dog.
A dude could have three heads and demon horns on each one, but if he’s walking a tiny Yorkie, the girls come running.
I never lived down the time I was a few minutes late for work once, telling my boss that a dude had a bunch of labrador puppies in his van and I’d gone to say hi to them.
Boss was like ‘they literally teach you in primary school not to go with strangers who claim to have a van full of puppies’ π€¦ββοΈπ€£
When he laughs and smiles with his whole heart. Emotional intelligence.
A man who can appreciate a good drama show without complaining the entire time about how stupid it is.
She’d probably find it pretty hot if you got a girlfriend.