#SexualDecisions #DatingMistakes #RelationshipChoices #GettingLaid
Have you ever found yourself in a compromising situation just to satisfy your desire for intimacy?🙈 Whether it’s overlooking red flags, compromising your values, or bending over backwards to please someone, we’ve all been there. But how far is too far when it comes to sacrificing your sanity for the sake of getting laid?🤔
The Problem: Losing Yourself in the Quest for Intimacy
It’s easy to get caught up in the whirlwind of emotions and physical attraction when we’re pursuing a romantic connection. However, this pursuit can sometimes lead us to overlook warning signs and compromise our boundaries. We may find ourselves doing things we never thought we would just to please someone else or avoid confrontation.
Real-Life Examples:
– Ignoring disrespectful behavior
– Compromising your values
– Pretending to be someone you’re not
The Solution: Setting Boundaries and Prioritizing Self-Respect
It’s essential to prioritize your mental and emotional well-being over momentary physical gratification. While it’s natural to want companionship and intimacy, it should never come at the cost of your self-respect and authenticity. Here are some practical solutions to help you navigate romantic relationships without losing yourself in the process:
Practical Solutions:
1. Trust your gut instincts and listen to red flags
2. Establish clear boundaries and communicate them openly
3. Prioritize self-care and prioritize your needs
4. Surround yourself with supportive friends and loved ones
5. Remember that true intimacy comes from mutual respect and understanding, not from compromising yourself
In conclusion, while it’s normal to crave connection and intimacy, it’s crucial to maintain your sense of self and integrity in the process. Don’t overlook your values and boundaries for the sake of getting laid – the right person will appreciate and respect you for who you truly are. Remember, your worth is not defined by physical intimacy, but by the love and respect you have for yourself.🌟
So, what is the most insane thing you have overlooked, for the sake of getting laid? Share your thoughts and experiences in the comments below!💬 #DatingConfessions #LoveYourself #HealthyRelationships
She had an emotional support animal that wasn’t trained
How crazy she was.
How really in need of help she was!
She was only down for a threesome because she deeply wanted to sleep with my wife
went on a date with a girl who cut herself repeatedly on her thighs because she was really depressed. at the end of first date we were cuddling on the couch and she started crying and asked me “why are you still here” not because she wanted me to leave, but because she totally expected me to bail on her after seeing how fukt up she was.
I’m not saying there was a shit stain when I picked her up off my couch to continue in the bedroom, but it sure looked like one
Had sex with a girl who had previously tried to stab a friend of mine and destroyed his front door. She wasn’t even that hot either lol.
She told me she was a narcissist
She wanted to convert me to her religion.
He was married
I ignored the fact she trash talked everyone that we interacted with.
She literally had a stillbirth because she was on crack and it killed her fetus. (before we had sex)
This is the story I told my adult son to explain “never stick your dick in crazy.” I am lucky I did not catch anything, and yes, I got tested.
Oh, the things I did to get my dick wet 25 years ago…
Fleas
4 kids, a finance and a 14 year age gap. I was 20 🤷🏻♂️.
She was so horrifically obese she had to push the passenger seat right back but her stomach was still touching the dash
No one found out so who cares
Her dick
There was a girl in college i was talking to, that tested positive for covid during shutdowns. We fucked with masks on. Never got it from her
Crystals. If you know, you know
Serious mental health issues. Should never have followed through and slept with them. But I was younger, confident,cocky and lacking self awareness.
I realise now, I should have been encouraging them to get help instead of probably making their mental health worse.
Her cock
Dated a girl who in hindsight was an absolutely verbally abusive partner… But was a great lay. One day we were doing the deed, I bend her over and there was a small smear of 💩 in her ass, I proceeded to grab a napkin and wipe it then continued going… Had to get my nut. Not one of my proudest moments.
Bad breath. It was my second time getting laid. The woman was 5 years older than me. I had no idea what I was doing and for about 3 weeks she taught me some great stuff. The bad breath was worth it.
Dated a girl who expected me to cheat on her because the 7 other guys she got into a relationship over the years with did
Drove to a different state during an ice storm. It was worth it.
She had the longest armpit hair I’ve ever seen
My ex cheated on two men she was dating over the course of years with me. My dumb ass believed she was really in relationships with bad men, and I was gonna be the one to show her what a good man was.
Here I am, single. I packed my shit and left as soon as I got a wiff of her stepping out. Didn’t have proof, but I knew who I was dating and went with my gut.
This was after she left me, got back with one of the exes she cheated on with me, and then called me five months later crying saying she made a mistake.
I’ve never felt more stupid. And I still care, just from a great distance. I grabbed my shit and drove to the east coast, leaving her on the west.
BPD is wild. I wish her nothing but the best in life, I just don’t wanna be involved In it.
She had herpes and I still went raw. Luckily I didn’t catch it because it was the stupidest decision ever.
She had drawn her eyebrows on. I mean it was so obviously not a great look.
Borderline Personality Disorder
Specifically, she blew off our first date. Then she invited me over and we banged on her mattress on the floor. Then she ghosted me. For some reason I showed up and confronted her about this. She did a 180 and insisted I come in. Bang again. The next day I get a call from her. She’s absolutely shit-faced at the Hyatt, crying in the bathroom, and they’re calling the police. So I rushed over and picked her up before the cops got there. I took her home. She revealed that she’d spent all of her money buying people drinks so that she’d have no choice but to get evicted. She wanted to get evicted so that there’d be nothing stopping her from unaliving herself.
At this point, it becomes less about getting laid and more about trying to keep her alive. I spent all of my time outside of work with her after this. I helped her find some places to live on the DL (she couldn’t officially rent because of her eviction). Helped her move. Took her to work when she got a job. I was just trying to help, and felt like it wasn’t a great time to break up with her. So I just went along with the dating thing while trying not to escalate it. Through the power of mirroring and lovebombing, she got me to agree to be her boyfriend and eventually we ended up living together.
3 years and a lot of emotional and physical abuse later she ran away for the final time and never came back. Mind you, she was running away on a monthly basis at this point. Easily the worst thing I’ve ever been through. I developed some kind of anxiety disorder for a while afterward, but now other than a case of herpes I’m fine. The sex was fucking horrible, btw.
She self harmed and was hospitalized for an eating disorder and was extremely moody, but she liked me and was cute enough. As someone who has always struggled with women and had/still have very little relationship experience, those huge red flags were easily overlooked.
She admitted she had anger management issues, including hitting her then partner and punching holes in her walls. After a couple weeks of talking (and working together), she breaks up with her partner and immediately spends the night at my house. I didn’t push her to do it, but I sure didn’t try to talk her out of it either.
We slept together a few times over the next couple weeks and she was a total animal in bed, although we had very little sexual chemistry. Until she was involuntarily committed to a psych ward right after going to her psychologist from my house, because he believed she was a danger to herself. She was in for about 2 weeks, then the day after she checked out she spent the night at my house again. We probably had sex again like a week later and she called it off.
She was the hottest person I’ve ever even had a cup of coffee with, let alone also sleep with. I think I was also in my longest sex drought ever (over a year) so my decision making capabilities were pretty compromised.
A Crack pipe. I arrived at this random guy’s house from grindr and he seemed cute / nice. He whips out a pipe when I arrive, smokes, and gave me some great head.
Woke up to burning pee and a diagnosis of chlamydia. Could have been much much worse…