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Hey there! 🌟 When it comes to dating, knowing the biggest red flags in a girl can save you from heartache and drama down the road. Here’s a breakdown of what to look out for:
The Importance of Identifying Red Flags
Before diving into the specific red flags, it’s crucial to understand why pinpointing them early on is essential. Recognizing these warning signs can help you avoid toxic relationships, build better connections, and ultimately protect your emotional well-being.
1. Lack of Communication
Communication is key in any relationship. If you notice that a girl has trouble expressing her feelings, thoughts, or desires, it could be a red flag. Healthy communication allows for honesty, transparency, and understanding between partners.
2. Controlling Behavior
Being controlling in a relationship is a major red flag. If a girl exhibits signs of jealousy, possessiveness, or a need to dominate every aspect of your life, it may lead to a toxic dynamic that stifles your personal growth and independence.
3. Disrespectful Attitude
Respect is non-negotiable in a healthy relationship. If a girl constantly belittles you, dismisses your opinions, or disregards your boundaries, it signals a lack of regard for your feelings and worth.
4. Inconsistency
Consistency is key in relationships. If a girl’s actions and words don’t align, or if she constantly changes her mind, it can lead to confusion, frustration, and instability in the relationship.
5. Emotional Baggage
While everyone has their own emotional baggage, excessive emotional turmoil or unresolved issues can negatively impact a relationship. If a girl carries excessive emotional baggage that she refuses to address or work through, it can strain the relationship.
In conclusion, being aware of these red flags can help you navigate the dating world with more clarity and confidence. Remember, you deserve a relationship that is built on mutual respect, communication, and trust. Keep an eye out for these red flags and prioritize your emotional well-being. 💖🔍 #StayWokeOnRedFlags
Entitlement
Excess drinking/substance use.
She doesn’t have anything of value to add to the table. No ambitions, no desires, and accomplishments. Wants a free ride and for others to bend over backwards to make her reality comfortable.
Snap score is too high
On the phone too much
When she treats the waiter like he’s auditioning for the “Worst Job Ever” reality show. Yikes, tip and escape!
Judgemental
Social Media Freak… Coupled with no real-life ambition except to trend on social media.
Putting other women down to get ahead. I’ve seen it too many times.
Cruelty.
Belittles you for having and expressing regular human emotions like feeling sad/depressed, stressed, anxious, nervous etc; and/or weaponizing your emotions/secrets against you in arguments.
Fellas if you do not feel safe enough to open up to your partner about problems you are going through then they are not the right person for you.
‘Instagram’ listed in hobbies
Stringing you along. Knowing you have feelings for her and manipulating you with them.
When they fuck up and play the victim when you pull them up on it and get annoyed
Revolving door of friends, most of whom leave with bad blood between the two of them. Sure maybe they all suck, but when there is a single common denominator in all of those relationships I would start looking for the problem there…
Thinks everything is about her. All guys want her, all girls are jealous or talking about her.
She twists your words to get offended
Probably China. Their flag is mostly red.
If she tells you a story about how she once had sex with two brothers, she’s planning to have sex with your brother as well.
I learnt that the hard way
Attention seeking,
I seen this way too many times to ignore, it’s not just being friendly when she can’t go without talking to somebody for a day she’s gonna cheat.
When she seeks validation externally it’s a red flag because your validation just isn’t enough to satisfy her. She will need everyone’s eyes just to feel seen.
Then if you have to either work long hours or something comes up and you can’t see her guess what?
She’ll get that attention somewhere else and break up no hesitation.
Inability to self-reflect
“If you can’t handle me at my worst, you don’t deserve me at my best”
Mine asked me to only interact with other women when she was around to “defend her turf” like wtf
Constantly arguing with someone, the type that would argue with a tree if she could.
Taking any non-agreement opinion as a gender attack.
Zero accountability.
If you try to communicate why you are frustrated with her actions, and she simply calls back to something you did that she didnt like or otherwise excuses her behaviour due to a mental illness, or past trauma…
Run. Preferrably fast.
Red flag for both genders, but social media freaks are really cringe worthy who the fuck cares that youre drinking a coffee and having a fucking crossaint.
I understand that during a date you sometimes have to check your phone to let your friends know youre still alive and not inside the back of a pickup truck about to get murdered, but holyshit if someone is on their phone all the time like a brainrot ipad kid im done.
Also if a person only has “psycho exes” it’s because they are probably the real psycho.
Pay attention to how she handles disagreement. If every conflict escalates into a major fight or she resorts to personal attacks instead of discussing the issue at hand, it’s a sign of poor conflict resolution skills, which are critical for a healthy partnership.
Biggest red flag?
Tortures and kills small animals.
Is physically and verbally abusive.
Finally-has gang stalked people.