Have you ever noticed a smell during doggy style sex that’s hard to ignore? #smellybutt #sexdilemma
As a man (37) in a relationship with a woman (35), I often catch a whiff of my girlfriend’s rear end during intimate moments. Despite discussing it, the issue persists. How should I approach this situation? #relationshipadvice #awkward
Possible reasons for the smell in this position can vary and should be explored further. #sexposition #smellconcerns
Here are some possible explanations and courses of action to consider:
1. Hygiene and diet: Encourage your girlfriend to maintain good personal hygiene and explore potential dietary changes that may affect body odor. #hygiene #dietimpact
2. Medical concerns: It may be beneficial for your girlfriend to consult with a healthcare professional to rule out any underlying medical conditions that could contribute to the odor. #medicaladvice #healthcheckup
3. Communication: Open and honest communication is essential in any relationship. Approach the subject sensitively and express your concerns in a non-judgmental manner. #communicationiskey #honesty
Remember, addressing sensitive topics like this requires compassion, understanding, and a willingness to work together towards a solution. #compassion #teamwork
By taking proactive steps and approaching the issue with care, you can navigate this situation with respect and consideration for both yourself and your partner. #respectfulapproach #relationshipgrowth
Ultimately, understanding and addressing the root cause of the issue will lead to a healthier and more fulfilling intimate relationship for both partners. #relationshiphealth #intimacyimprovement
Buy a bidet.
Is anal an option? Plug up the stink hole
Ask her to shower before sex.
Have a shower before. Showers every 2 to 3 days?
If she hasn’t showered for a while, the smell is to be expected.
Or wear a respirator….
Buy a bidet! Or only go for doggy in the shower.
why are there so many posts about bad personal hygiene from whole ass adults?
“GO WASH YOUR ASS. WASH IT EVERYDAY.” period. no other solution. shit doesn’t magically clean itself.
Ok- she showers once every two to three days ?
And when sex is initiated there’s no concern on her part that her ass may smell
Like a sewage station ?
Dude…..
Ask her to start showering daily, make it a couples thing, shower together, that way you can scrub her ass for her…
Shower and clean each other before? Adds to the foreplay and my wife loves being washed and washing me.
Otherwise it’s more gentle talking to, but me and the wife generally shower daily or at least directly before fun times.
It is probably ass sweat. Just ask to shower before sex and buy wet wipes and use them. I can only imagine what yours smells like if nobody goes back there.
A bidet is not enough. If she is only showering every 2-3 days, of course an odor would be expected. The issue here is that once it’s become noticable to you, and you’ve addressed it with her, she should have gotten the hint to start bathing more regularly. Even if she doesn’t take a full body shower, she should at least be washing her private areas once a day.
I personally would never be intimate with my partner after going number 2 without showering first, both for our health and out of basic courtesy. Can be very easy for bacteria to spread and cause an infection during sex due to this level of poor hygiene.
What is her opposition to showering regularly?
$30 bidet from amazon was the best purchase we ever made, can’t live without now
Get a bidet. It will power wash the stink off.
Water !water! Water!
Could you be forcing a little gas out of her.
I think insisting on quick body shower before sex is reasonable.
Oof. Even if u dont shower every day, you should always catch your pits, tits, and naughty bits on the daily
She doesn’t have bad personal hygiene but she only showers twice a week? Hmm…
Showers only every 2-3 days…that’s just gross!
too much sex w 3 day unwashed genitals is happening in this sub today 😭
uh uh she is too old to Not be washing her ass😭😭 tell her to a get cloth wash her bum and buy some wipes or a bidet….GIRL omg😭😭
Buy her a pack of baby wipes, a big pack to keep in the bathroom at home and a little travel size for her purse or whatever. Tell her that you recently started using them and liked it so much that you thought she would too. You probably should anyways.
Just make sure she knows not to flush them.
3 days of not washing your ass is 100% the issue. Lol. Just have sex with her after she showers.
a decade?! at that point its your fault
It’s her not showering for sure. Even if you wipe well and there isn’t anything visible, there’s going to be bacteria. Bacteria is what makes you smell–poop, body odor, vaginal smells (bad and good), ball sweat, your skin. It’s all related to the bacteria and other microbes living on and in you. Even if you wipe yourself off, you won’t actually clean yourself without using soap and water.
I’d just recommend that you two shower before having sex. Wash each other off and start foreplay in there if she hasn’t showered that day yet.
Shes not a daily shower person.
The end
Baby wipes, bidet, and fragranced body oil for her booty crack. It only took one time years and years ago for my man to say something after spontaneous session before I showered….never again. If continuing to say something to her doesn’t get the results you’re seeking, then me personally, I would catch her right out the shower to get some.
She isn’t a daily shower person? Dude, at least for my wife and I…we both take showers before we have sex.
Bidet and wet wipes my friend
i know its hard but there is no other way around this other than confrontation.
tell her at a time when youre not having sex in a non-confrontational and alone/down time.
“babe i want to talk to you about a smell ive noticed when were doing it from behind, lets just say its not “lady fresh” and i wanted you to know that it smells bad down there, im sorry :(”
be polite, gentle, but honest. she needs to know the truth and be clear, dont dodge it.
It doesn’t matter if it “looks” clean, if sis hasn’t showered in 2-3 days, it’s not clean. Tell her no shower, no sex. That’s just nasty. I get that some people don’t wash hair daily, etc, but waiting 3 days between washing your ass is just gross.
You need to just tell her. Kindly, honey, I find that your bottom smells quite frequently and I’d really like for you to shower cleanse yourself. My god! Tell her!!
Start smoking cigars. Breathe them through your nose. You’ll destroy your sense of smell.
If she isn’t going to shower daily then she at least needs to wash her nethers everyday. We all sweat. Also if you are worried about raising the issue again. Maybe avoid that position in the future.
New phobia unlocked
I mean personally if my partner had an issue with keeping their ass clean it would be a dealbreaker for me
Showering twice a week is foul, she doesn’t have good hygiene
If she isn’t showering everyday, wipes need to be used on that ass if she’s pooping everyday. Or at least if you are taking her from behind after a shit or two before showering.
Someone’s not washing their butt in the shower
A decade of smelling rank ass is insane to me.
The amount of comments I’m seeing from people who don’t wash their ass daily is concerning…
She showers every 2-3 days? 😱
Buy a bidet toilet lid problem solved!
**A decade?** Bro you deserve this shit… literally and figuratively….
if she isn’t showering and isn’t even using wipes ….. jesus man
Most adults shower the day they are going to have sex. If you have a steady partner, that includes days you see them and MIGHT have sex.
You say she has good hygiene, but you can smell her butt from a couple feet away? THAT is NOT good hygiene.
I’d hint she needs to shower before sex 100% of the time.
You might also want to buy her some lume cream or wipes… they have a food acid that prevents bacteria from growing. You use it on clean skin to prevent funk… not treat it.
Shower every 2-3 days? That makes me wanna vomit. Tell her to shower everyday and stop being disgusting
Um…why is she not showering before sex? Is that just something my weird ass does? If I happen to not shower before sex I always clean up with a washcloth or wipes.
New rule, no sex without a shower…
If she doesn’t shower everyday, she’s gonna have a smell. You have to decide if it’s a dealbreaker or not.