#DatingDilemma #CancelledDate #RelationshipAdvice #FirstDateEtiquette
Hey there, are you feeling completely lost on what to reply to a girl who cancelled a date last minute? Don’t worry, you’re not alone in this frustrating situation. It can be so disheartening when you’re all set for a date, only to have it cancelled at the eleventh hour. But fear not, there are ways to handle this situation gracefully and possibly salvage the date or move on with your dignity intact.
### Understanding the Situation
First and foremost, it’s essential to try and understand the reasons why she might have cancelled the date. There could be a variety of factors at play, so don’t jump to conclusions just yet. Maybe she genuinely is feeling tired, or perhaps something unexpected came up. Whatever the case, it’s crucial to keep an open mind and not immediately assume the worst.
### Crafting Your Response
When it comes to crafting your response, remember to keep it simple, polite, and understanding. Here are a few suggestions on what you could reply:
1. **Express Understanding**: Acknowledge her reason for cancelling and show empathy. You could say something like, “Hey, no worries at all! I completely understand, we can reschedule for another time when you’re feeling better.”
2. **Offer an Alternative**: If you’re still interested in going on a date with her, propose a different activity that might be less tiring. Suggest something like grabbing a coffee or going for a walk in the park.
3. **Leave the Ball in Her Court**: End your message on a positive note and leave it up to her to decide if she wants to reschedule. Say something like, “Let me know what works best for you, and we can plan something whenever you’re ready.”
### Moving Forward
If she continues to be indecisive or flaky, it might be a sign that she’s not as interested as you thought. In that case, it’s essential to know when to cut your losses and move on. Remember, your time and energy are valuable, and you deserve someone who is just as excited to spend time with you as you are with them.
### In Conclusion
Dealing with a cancelled date can be disappointing, but it’s all about how you handle the situation that truly matters. Stay positive, keep an open mind, and remember that there are plenty of fish in the sea. And who knows, this could be a blessing in disguise leading you to someone even more amazing. Hang in there, and best of luck with your dating endeavors! 💔🙏🏼🌟
Don’t reply anything – ever. 💁♂️ Too many fish in the sea to be wasting your time on immature rooty poo monkey crap like this. Start calling others you’re interested in or even female friends that are cool and hit em with a “Hey, I know it’s super short notice but I’ve got tickets to ________ tonight and I could use a +1. Any interest?”
Bet. Hit me up if you want to reschedule and then don’t reply unless she does.
Never talk to her again
“Okay, let me know if you’d like to reschedule.”
Ball in her court, and let yourself move on to someone else you’re talking to. If she actually reschedules, great, if not, you’re not waiting around.
“Ok np, hope you feel better soon x msg me if you want to rearrange” then *don’t* msg her again, not even to check up on her in a couple of days. If she is interested she will follow up and come back to you but don’t wait on her, carry on with your life and keep dating.
You tell her no problem and to get some rest. Then you continue on with your life. As you said, if she wants to see you she will. Up to you if you want to leave that option open.
No reply at all. Just walk away
Nothing..
Go on with your day.
“No worries” and don’t text her again unless she makes effort.
I’m not big on giving others the benefit of the doubt in cases like this. She penciled you into her schedule in case something better didn’t come along.
Well, something better came along and so now she’s canceling on you. That’s what happened. Women in this thread can spin it however they want. But that’s what happened.
So, I say give her a piece of your mind and then ghost her.
Nothing. Don’t give her any attention until she reaches out and feels very uncomfortable.
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“I understand, rest up.” By responding with this your are respecting and affirming what she told you. Leave it at that and then go on with your life. If she reaches out to you and wants to reschedule then great, but don’t contact her any further otherwise.
Okay. Goodnight.
Women are not “too tired” to date men they want to date. If a woman really wants to be with you, she’ll crawl over broken glass to do it.
She’s telling you she isn’t really all that interested. Something “better” probably came up, something (or someone) became more interesting to her.
You reply nothing. Its over
That is just disrespectful. I made a plan with you but I can’t be bothered anymore.
If a woman is interested she puts in effort too. She is just bored and needs you to pass time.
If they suggest an alternate time/day I roll with it. If they don’t I just text something like “No worries, have a great day” and break contact and move on.
As a man who has been out here dating for seven years now, most of the time when she cancels last minute it’s because she’s not interested in dating you. However, sometimes they are just genuinely in a bad headspace and they know that it would not be a good date for either of you.the through line is whether or not they actively seek to reschedule when they cancel. If she says that she’s going to be tired and has to rain check and then doesn’t give you a specific day to reschedule for, assume she’s not interested and move on.
Send her a string of 30 angry, rambling texts and a Venmo request to cover the cost of your haircut.
Sometimes I don’t know which part they’re downvoting
Nothing. Proceed with your life, unbothered.
Nothing. She’s not interested. Next.
Have you ever noticed that interested women aren’t ever tired when they have dates?
My rule here and general thinking is that if she indeed was too tired, she would also include a rescheduled day in the text. If she doesn’t then move on, no point in asking if she wants to reschedule… it’s just prolonging a slow painful death of ghosting you.
The best response is no response.
I’d reply with nothing and let her reach out if she is interested
Yeah even if I was tired, it wouldn’t stop me from seeing someone I was truly into. Sorry that happened to you.
I wouldn’t reply at all. Your work is done here. Move along.
She’s clearly not interested. Just say, ‘no sweat’ and leave it at that.
Just say “ K 👍”
Tell her ok. Then a few minutes later text her “hey my night actually free’d up if you still want to go out”
If she replies to that, just say “sorry wrong text” make her think you have options.
Stay toxic king!
Depends. If dating has been going well for me lately, I’d probably next her. That shit’s disrespectful, and as much as I like getting my dick wet I generally prioritize finding a good partner first. This is a very clear indicator that she is *not* a good partner, and she’s been nice enough to put it on full display off the rip.
If dating *hasn’t* been going well, or she otherwise seems to be an exceptional match somehow, I’ll put the onus on her to drive the next one. Lots of examples of that here already. She probably won’t. That’s fine, on to the next one.
You can use advice in the comments and try to reschedule but honestly i wouldnt want to be with a person who cancels plans last minute because theyre “too tired”
Don’t reply to her.
Reply to a different girl on a dating app.
1) others have a good advice on the “no worries” and then put the ball in her court
2) If she didn’t give you alternative future dates and options and apologize, I’d honestly take it a step further and put her in the “date for fun” category in your mind and make sure she stays there until proven otherwise. I think far too many men settle for women that settled for them. Don’t be that guy and find a woman that wants to jump your bones and lock you up from the get go. If the spark ain’t there at the beginning, you’re probably going to be in a dead bedroom by the time you’re married with a few years under your belt.
tell her no problem and find a new date hopefully by the time she responds if not put her in the backup book like they do us 😎😎
If it’s a first time offense cut them slack. 2nd time it needs to be a good reason. 3rd time: they don’t care and you’re wasting your time. When someone cares and wants the same things you do then it isn’t hard. When they don’t it’s very hard. It really is that simple.
Went on a date after a 12 hour night shift with two hours of sleep because I really liked that man. Always remember-If they want they would.
Delete her number. She’s not interested
“Oh well, maybe some other time.”
Obviously, you stop persuing at this point.
“No worries” means you’re a doormat, and she shouldn’t feel bad about flaking on you, especially with such a bullshit excuse.
no worries about canceling the date. Life happens, and I understand. Let’s reschedule when it’s convenient for you.
My now girlfriend did this.
She had just flown home from a work trip.
I thought that would be the end the whole thing.
But she wrote me a few days later.
Now we live together and have a little boy.
I wouldn’t reply at all and move on with my life.
Nothing. Move on
My take in life is normally “assume best intentions” but put the ball in their court. Something like “If you want to try again let me know”. You don’t know what kind of day it was for them, etc. A call would have been better of course, or a real explanation but as we know, stuff happens. If they are actually interested then they will get back to you. If not, then move on.
“OK” then nothing else, ever again.
Like others have said … “No worries” and leave it alone, if she texts you again, that’s great, if not, wasn’t meant to be
She’s not interested. On to the next bro