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What causes gay men to display a “sassy” personality often?
I think for a variety of reasons (gay man speaking here). With the obvious caveats of survivors bias (you only notice the sassy gay men, and probably downweight the number of sassy straight men you see, or assume they are gay). My totally unscientific hypothesis: ​ 1. We are bullied so meRead more
I think for a variety of reasons (gay man speaking here). With the obvious caveats of survivors bias (you only notice the sassy gay men, and probably downweight the number of sassy straight men you see, or assume they are gay). My totally unscientific hypothesis:
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1. We are bullied so mercilessly in school, even if deeply closeted. You quickly learn humor is your only real defense mechanism.
See less2. Because of point 1, so many gay men hide a huge part of themselves until they are able to be independnet. At that point, you stop giving fucks what others think , and just go for it.
3. I think there are a lot of people who over correct when they first come out (I don’t like the word over correct because it feels like I’m deriding them, but I think you know what I mean) and live a delayed adolescence in their 20s to live out their teenage years that were stolen from them by our culture. After a few years, many (but not all) people chill out a bit more as they get comfrotable in their own skin.
4. Since the vast majority of gay men are born into straight families, we have to look to the culture for role models. What kind of person gets on TV? loud boisterous, funny people who command attention. So if all your gay role models are a bit extra, you are going to absorb that. Chosen family is a much bigger deal in the LGBTQ community.
5. It’s kind of fun to be a bit extra, and I often find myself feeling kind of bad for the repressed straight guy who is unable to express emotions beyond a series of grunts. I wish our culture gave straight guys more space to be silly too.
Is there a reason for my post-sex vaginal odor?
Your boyfriend is throwing your pH off. More than likely you have bacterial vaginosis which you should be treated for. You also may want to ask your boyfriend to use the same body wash you do or dove sensitive skin at the very minimum on his junk. Please see a doctor
Your boyfriend is throwing your pH off. More than likely you have bacterial vaginosis which you should be treated for. You also may want to ask your boyfriend to use the same body wash you do or dove sensitive skin at the very minimum on his junk.
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Is my penis in trouble from fapping habits at 16?
You pissed your pants. That's all. But nutting in your pants is disgusting so stop doing that
You pissed your pants. That’s all.
But nutting in your pants is disgusting so stop doing that
See lessHow can you thrive in a sexless marriage with different libidos?
I wish I had better advice, but the reality is that you don't I loved my ex-wife and we tried for over fourteen years We're both happier now and actually have a better relationship with each other than we ever did while married Good luck to you
I wish I had better advice, but the reality is that you don’t
I loved my ex-wife and we tried for over fourteen years
We’re both happier now and actually have a better relationship with each other than we ever did while married
Good luck to you
See lessWhy do people resist “cisgender” but not “heterosexual” labels?
“I’m normal. I don’t need a new term for being normal.”
“I’m normal. I don’t need a new term for being normal.”
See lessWhy are men in the US still required to be drafted into the military while women are exempt?
In February 2019, a challenge to the Military Selective Service Act, which provides for the male-only draft, by the National Coalition for Men, was deemed unconstitutional by Judge Gray H. Miller in the United States District Court for the Southern District of Texas. Miller's opinion was based on thRead more
In February 2019, a challenge to the Military Selective Service Act, which provides for the male-only draft, by the National Coalition for Men, was deemed unconstitutional by Judge Gray H. Miller in the United States District Court for the Southern District of Texas. Miller’s opinion was based on the Supreme Court’s past argument in Rostker v. Goldberg (1981) which had found the male-only draft constitutional because the military then did not allow women to serve. As the Department of Defense has since lifted most restrictions on women in the military, Miller ruled that the justifications no longer apply, and thus the act requiring only men to register would now be considered unconstitutional under the Equal Protection Clause. The government appealed this decision to the 5th Circuit Court of Appeals. Oral arguments on the appeal were heard on 3 March 2020. The District Court decision was reversed by the 5th Circuit Court of Appeals. A petition for review was declined by the U.S. Supreme Court.
See lessAre personal trainers commonly desired for casual flings?
My wife’s personal trainer was. Unfortunately it was with my wife.
My wife’s personal trainer was.
Unfortunately it was with my wife.
See lessWhat changes increase a man’s attractiveness to women beyond physical appearance?
Studies show that the more motherly role a wife takes on a man the lower her sex drive. So ideally when a man doesn't "need to be told what do do" and is independently a good partner he is going to increase his sexual attraction.
Studies show that the more motherly role a wife takes on a man the lower her sex drive. So ideally when a man doesn’t “need to be told what do do” and is independently a good partner he is going to increase his sexual attraction.
See lessAre women aroused by muscular kangaroos? Curious to find out!
I think that's just a you thing.
I think that’s just a you thing.
See lessAre prostitutes satisfied with sex with young or hot men like straight women??
Saw a AMA with a prostitute who worked for over a decade with hundreds of clients. She said she was attracted to 2 clients total. So, I really doubt it. Age might be a factor for men, but she listed factors that were specific to her likes/qualities she prefers in a partner.
Saw a AMA with a prostitute who worked for over a decade with hundreds of clients. She said she was attracted to 2 clients total. So, I really doubt it. Age might be a factor for men, but she listed factors that were specific to her likes/qualities she prefers in a partner.
See lessShould I discuss my ruined orgasm fetish with my girlfriend to enhance our sex life?
Tell her, but understand it's a fetish. She may not enjoy it 'every time' like you imagine.
Tell her, but understand it’s a fetish. She may not enjoy it ‘every time’ like you imagine.
See lessIs it common for women to touch male genitals non-sexually for relaxation?
I mean, many men also like touching the boobs of their partner because they are squishy stress balls. On the other hand, unlike boobs, the penis is the primary sexual organ and if we then translate it to men touching a woman's vagina for relaxation etc... then it becomes a bit weird. So what you areRead more
I mean, many men also like touching the boobs of their partner because they are squishy stress balls. On the other hand, unlike boobs, the penis is the primary sexual organ and if we then translate it to men touching a woman’s vagina for relaxation etc… then it becomes a bit weird. So what you are doing is not unheard of, but I can see why some people would find that weird. It’s just important that you and your boyfriend are on the same page and he gives his consent (also it’s important to *NOT* squish his balls… they are not as soft as boobs afaik)
See lessDoes laser hair removal change how guys view you ‘down there’?
How would someone know if you didn’t tell them?
How would someone know if you didn’t tell them?
See lessDo larger clits lead to easier orgasms?
In my experience both as someone who has had clit growth from testosterone and who's had sex with people who have and haven't. Larger clits are more sensitive, sometimes much more sensitive. Really a lot of the nerves of a smaller clit is kinda buried kinda deeper and growth makes it more accessibleRead more
In my experience both as someone who has had clit growth from testosterone and who’s had sex with people who have and haven’t. Larger clits are more sensitive, sometimes much more sensitive. Really a lot of the nerves of a smaller clit is kinda buried kinda deeper and growth makes it more accessible. It also just allows for a wider variety of sensations when it’s more accessible.
See lessDo gay men buy pocket pussys like lesbians do with dildos?
Gay man here. There is in fact pocket butt holes
Gay man here. There is in fact pocket butt holes
See less“Why are 10-15% of women unable to orgasm in terms of evolution?”
Evolutions entire philosophy is "if it's half way decent and gets the job done that's good enough". Basically it works well enough for the majority to not warrant evolution to do better.
Evolutions entire philosophy is “if it’s half way decent and gets the job done that’s good enough”.
Basically it works well enough for the majority to not warrant evolution to do better.
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