#BonerConfusion: Can guys get emotional boners? π§π
Hey everyone! So, here's the thing – I was on vacation with my boyfriend and we were having a super sappy moment, just pouring our hearts out to each other π. And then, out of nowhere, he gets a boner π! But here's the kicker – he called it an "emotional boner" π³.
Now, I'm sitting here scratching my head and wondering – is this a thing? Do guys actually get turned on by emotions?! π€π I mean, I get that love can be a powerful feeling, but I never knew it could have THAT effect!
Have any of you experienced something like this before? Or maybe you've heard of it happening to someone else? Let me know in the comments below! Let's get to the bottom of this boner confusion together! π¬π€£
#EmotionalBoner #LoveStruck #BonerConundrum #ShareYourStory π¬ππ
Yes. Men can get boners for any reason and no reason, they canβt control it really. The misconception that a man getting a boner when comforting his girlfriend means heβs horny and looking to exploit her is a good example of how sex ed stops women from understanding male anatomy too
Absolutely yes.
Crank one out and call it a tearjerker
Never heard anyone else use that term before. I thought I invented it for myself. Yes, most of my boners are emotional boners. Itβs about feeling connected, wanted, understood, safe.
Yes, when I get a compliment is the easiest way but it is rare.
Does hearing someone say “I want you” looking deep into yours not get you excited?
EVERY TIME we got a “deep talking” with GF.
Every time.
Even if it’s a very sad or disturbing conversation.
An affection erection
Iβve never gotten one while crying if thatβs what you meant lol
Recently started dating after a long time single. Just merely talking to her over the phone would start getting me a stiffy. We would just be talking about our day. With intentions of hooking up later. I would get a boner talking to her.
You can also tell him incredibly slutty things like:
“I appreciate you”
“I’m glad you’re in my life”
“You have such pretty eyes”
That’ll turn him into a puddle.
Yes. It’s not only a sign for lust, but also a sign of “I’m feeling good and relaxed right now”
Emoners.
Took a shit that gave me a boner once.
A boner doesnβt need a reason.
While Iβve never had one, that totally sounds like something a penis would do.
Iβm really just commentingβcause this reminded me of the song Heart Boner by NSP
Yup. My wife and I call them love boners, lol. Boners can come at some really weird times.
I’ve had emotional ed
A boner is a boner
Guys can get boners from anything. The wind blows just the right way… Hard as rock. Embarrassing moment… Bout to be even more embarrassing. Luckily it does tend to get better as we age.
And then thereβs me after I eat any meal.
I once got a boner because I thought about getting a boner. So thereβs that
Bruh Iβve gotten rage boners from yelling at my abusive stepmom. Happens for all kinds of reasons
Yeah! They’re kind of special because they’re not just physical or sexually stimulated, but emotionally so. It means that he wants to make love to you, rather than just fucking or getting hot and heavy. It’s arousal born out of passion and intimacy rather than mere horniness (but there’s nothing wrong with those kinds of boners and sex that results from them either).
*Tired* horny is the best
Definitely. Fear boners are a thing. And I’ve noticed myself getting erect once or twice while beating the absolute shit out of someone in a fight. Like in that total rage headspace when you lose all reason and just see red. I’m assuming it’s some sort of physiological response from our limbic system… Blood pumping and hormones rushing, etc.
Yes this has an does happen to me with my wife ..
First person in my life it has happened with ever.
I was shocked at that moment I also realized how much I really do love her.
Erections just happen many times, and yeah things like affection can cause them. It’s also not always good feelings – I for example get a boner when seriously panicked and it can lead to ejaculation. Why? Who knows. Nothing says sexy time like running thinking I am going to miss the bus or similar.
I always have the strongest erections when my girlfriend and i are being really goofy and affectionate with each other
Not if we beat them up until they cry
absolutely
safety boners
Woman surprised by man being aroused at emotional intimacy.
Truly, we live in horrible times.
Iβve gotten boners when comforting or being comforted by friends, both guys and girls. I have never been attracted to any of themπ€·ββοΈ
The worst personal example I can think of happened in the back of a crew carrier about half a mile underground. Jammed in with 6 or 7 other guys, dusty, uncomfortable… The polar opposite of sexy. Then Mr. P decides it’s a good time to wake up and stretch. So I’m shifting around and trying to point it in a safe direction and the guys on either side of me are getting annoyed.
“Jesus, sit still, man”
“Sorry but it’s just… I’ve got this…”
“Have you got a fucking boner?”
“….maybe”
So they start razzing me and a guy pipes up “Christ, now *l* have one”
I don’t know if he really did of course or if he was just trying to make me feel better. Soon they all claimed theY were getting sympathy boners. Laughter ensued. Good bunch of guys.
Yes, often
I do
Got one right now
if my pants graze my penis accidentally i can get a boner
Yes our buddies down there get excited for reason
Yep
I used to get big random boners in 6th grade.
We were leaving for an assembly once, but I stayed rooted to my desk, afraid to get up. I was one of the last ones to leave the classroom, and my teacher (F60s) insisted I get up. Well, I did so with a raging boner, and she said something like “Damn, that’s huge!”
In HS I would get raging boners just sitting in class. Then try walking down the hallway with it stiff and pointing in the wrong direction.
Mourning wood is a real thing. Happens at funerals a lot. Just try not to make it obvious when you (strangely) try to look for it.
Yeah it happens, strong emotions can cause it and their is quite literally nothing you can do about it. Always feel sorry for the dudes when I hear woman tell those stories about men getting erections when they are comforting them, when the reality is the man just had an intense surge of emotions regarding the situation and literally cant help it. I understand exactly why it offputting at the same time though so also not shaming the woman for it either.
One time, I got a boner because I’ve been given an extra 30g of roast beef.
A man could get a boner for literally no reason at all if god willed it so. It is completely out of our hands
Dick are like puppy dog tails.
A mind of their own, and let’s you know the owner is happy.