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Call me the Crazy Ex? Okay, I will show you crazy. 🤪
**Introduction:**
My ex and I dated for four years, we had given each other promise rings and were talking about me relocating to his city. We were pretty serious until he ended our relationship on text while I was away for work. Needless to say, I was hurt and angry.
**Why I Wanted Revenge:**
For weeks I tried to process my emotions but one night, I couldn’t hold back and drunk dialed him. Instead of understanding, he called me crazy and said all his friends and family thought the same. I felt betrayed and decided I wasn’t going to be the bigger person this time.
**The Revenge:**
I had been journaling our relationship for years, detailing every conversation and argument. I decided to use this against him by compiling all the nasty things he had said to me into a spreadsheet and sending it to his friends and family. Some of the quotes were shocking, to say the least.
**Examples of His Nasty Comments:**
– “You fucking posh bitch” for being slightly late to his birthday dinner due to illness.
– “You selfish bitch this affects me more” when I was hesitant to report being assaulted.
– “You don’t know what it feels like to hit rock bottom” in reference to his issues with alcoholism.
**The Aftermath:**
After sending the spreadsheet, I felt a mix of satisfaction and guilt. However, I realized that sometimes, standing up for yourself is necessary, even if it means resorting to unconventional methods.
**Conclusion:**
While I may have earned the title of the Crazy Ex, I stand by my decision to seek revenge. If anyone is interested, I have more crazy ex stories to share. Don’t mess with a woman who knows her worth!
**Edit:**
For those calling me crazy, I’ve been here before. I have more revenge stories up my sleeve if anyone wants to hear them. 😉
In conclusion, sometimes seeking revenge can provide closure and a sense of empowerment. It may not be the most conventional or mature way to handle a breakup, but sometimes it’s necessary to stand up for yourself. Just remember to always be mindful of the consequences of your actions. 🌟
If you’re dealing with a breakup and looking for support, check out my website for more stories, advice, and resources on moving on from a toxic relationship. Remember, you’re not alone in this journey. #BreakupRecovery #EmpowermentAfterBreakup #MovingOnTips #RevengeIsSweet
I read where a guy kept an excel spreadsheet of all the negative things his gf did. Dude was lambasted online. Absolutely destroyed.
I find it interesting you did the same yet the reaction is completely different.
Personally, if you are keeping a list of the shitty things your partner did…time to go. I mean one thing to jot down some points to bring up in couples therapy. Quite another to keep 4 years of detrimental comments.
It’s not healthy. Glad you moved on.
Fake post. Yoy said he blocked you, but you were able to call him! Loser
“He was a fairly sweet guy” Except for the loads of horrible stuff he did.
He’s a pos and will always be a pos. Good luck in the future. You deserve better so go get better!!! They’re out there!!!
haha, I’ve done stuff like this but it was with coworkers. Sometimes, you get very mad and very motivated lol
you go girl!
Given the title and lack of detail around the things that had upset him, I’m going to leave room for healthy skepticism that he may be right. This feels very “one side of the story”.
Friendly reminder that most the toxic people we all know are also very actively portraying themselves as victims on social media. Same vibe.
Keep us Updateme! OP
Doing that definitely proved u are crazy…
He definitely nailed it calling you crazy tho.
So he dumped you, you called him trying to tell him you forgave him (seriously, what?), and you kept a running log of all the negative things he said going back years? Idk if calling you crazy is the right move, but you definitely have some problems finding healthy ways to handle things
Once the sting wears off you will look back and think WTF did I see in him and be happy you dodged that bullet.
Yeah your post makes you seem very unhinged, even while trying to appear as the better person im still on your boyfriends side. Imagine going ballistic over someone calling you crazy and then proving them right lol
What’s a promise ring? I’ve never heard that term before.
You said that “he was on whole a fairly sweet guy”. Nothing you described is sweet. And no matter how sweet he could be, it doesn’t excuse his behavior. He sounds like a narcissist. The way he treated you when you were sick in bed is classic narcissist behavior. As for his family, sounds like the apple didn’t fall far from the tree. He did you a huge favor. Sadly, he will do the same thing to the next woman.
It’s the drinking for me. Red flag just before Byeee!
Bless your heart. Talk to a therapist, you sound unhinged honestly. They blocked you, that should indicate you need to work on yourself no one else is bothered by it except you, good luck
It’d be funny if you made a tiktok account or something where you could read bits from your journal and show in more detail how terrible your ex was. Do it as like a story time series. And then send the account to his friends and family lmao
That’s crazy talk.
You’re thinking about him too much. Evict him from your brain.
I’m impressed at the quality and honesty of your journaling OP. I lied even on paper about how things were between me and my ex. Personally you don’t come across as crazy. It seems to me like you stood up for yourself and your reputation
You actually were a bit nuts to stay with someone who treated you like that.
You can’t leave us hanging, what was their reaction?!
Journaling is good
But healing is good too
Better omit the bad parts of the day
So you remember the good parts fondly…..
Revenge is a crazy drug…..eats you up from the inside ….
The comments on some of these posts are painful.
He said I’m crazy, so I acted crazy ≠ not actually crazy.
If they didn’t think you were crazy before, they certainly will now…
You are crazy and I love it!
I don’t tolerate being demeaned by anyone. They don’t get a freebie. Never let anyone disrespect you. I have no problem with disagreement and frank respectful discussion but don’t cross the line.
Send the spreadsheet to the next girl he shows an interest in. Add a little note, “ I am sending this to you so that when he does it to you, you’ll know you’re not alone.” keep sending it to each subsequent girl friend until your vengeance is sated.
well, you were certainly petty and you definitely got revenge
Sorry to hear this. Seems like a lot of effort could be put into good things. Go do the good things and be good to yourself. No one should go through that.
I don’t think an asshole like that was worth all that effort. But good riddance to him — he sounds awful.
Everyone is getting so *judgey* about this! 😀
Spoiler alert: You’re not OP. She did what *SHE* needed to do. I’m pretty sure none of you got DM’s asking for your advice.
A few thoughts: First, he did you a favor, the dude was a mess, and you should have cut your losses much sooner.
Secondly, the revelation of his treatment of you over time was probably eye-opening for all that you sent it to, but… Thirdly, what you did used to be called “gunny-sacking” or saving up transgressions to dump at a later date, even if your journaling was not done for that purpose; unfortunately the recipients will see it that way, and they probably have the confirmation that they needed to be convinced that your ex was right and you are crazy.
We experienced this sort of thing oddly enough when a small group of folks finally succeeded in running off a pastor at our church that they didn’t like in a years long campaign. The information that the pastor released after he was gone was damaging and revealed a nasty side to the clique that worked to oust him, but their pettiness was matched by the saving and subsequent release of the backlog of saved intercepted communications going back at least 10 years. It really looked like sour grapes.
Try and move on without looking back at this group of pinheads.
He’s a jerk and you almost assuredly need psychiatric assistance.
Well, you dodged a bullet. But the whole spreadsheet gambit shows how he is living in ALL the space in your brain fully rent-free.
Journaling is great but I wonder if you ever talked to anyone about the abuse you were receiving. You journaled quite a bit and I wonder if you noticed before it was over that you were being abused. Often times we don’t realize that we are being abused, or if we do, we feel like we deserve it for whatever reason. You took the time to email his family and friends all of his abusive behavior but it was only after he ended things. This may seem easier said that done but don’t you ever accept this kind of abuse again. You don’t deserve to be talked to this way. And don’t ever keep such abuses a secret. You kept his secret for too long. If anyone treats you this way, don’t wait for them to end it. You end it. You do the blocking. You hold your head high and know that you are valuable. Anyone that would treat you that way doesn’t care for you. Four years weren’t a total waste. They were a life lesson of what not to accept. Keep Journaling your life, but find a good friend or a therapist to confide in too. You want someone that will be honest with you and steer you away from abuse before 4 years. I’m wishing you all of the happiness, love and flowers that life has to offer, because YOU deserve it all.
I don’t know why would you stay with a man like that, I would be out at the first time he called me bitch. Then you called to forgive him? You need to love yourself more.
I love how guys treat you like shit, then drop you without a good explanation, and call you crazy when you have an emotional reaction.
You kept 5 journals of every little thing that happened then created a spreadsheet of your hurt feelings…wow thank Christ he finally listened to his friends and family and got you out of his life.
Why are you giving him a moment of your peace & happiness… To spend hours compiling that is unhinged.
This comes across as volatile and wobbly. You are not doing yourself any favors by demonstrating that your ex had valid worries about your relationship.
let them deal with that spoiled alki, didnt deserve you ig
Its a female Brett Kavanaugh LOL
I hope you are like 24 or something because if mom is writing letters and sending things on his behalf, yikes!