#UnemploymentStruggles #JobSearchWoes
Hey everyone, have you ever been in a situation where you just couldn’t bring yourself to go to an interview? 🤦♀️ I recently found myself in that position and I can’t shake the feelings of shame and hopelessness that come with it. It’s tough out there in the job market, especially when you’re feeling beaten down and exhausted.
Here are a few thoughts on what could be going on and some possible solutions that might help:
– Don’t be too hard on yourself, we all have off days and it’s okay to feel overwhelmed
– Consider reaching out to a career counselor or support group for guidance and encouragement
– Focus on building your skills and certifications, even if it means taking online courses or workshops to enhance your resume
– Remember to take care of yourself and prioritize self-care during this challenging time
Let’s support each other and share any tips or experiences that could help someone in a similar situation. We’re all in this together! 💪 #SupportEachOther #JobSeekersCommunity
I keep pooping in my hand and throwing it. Accidentally. Like this urge overtakes me and I’m suddenly shitting in my right hand, it’s always my right, and then proceeding to throw it. What is wrong with me? I mean wtf you think you’ve got problems chill you’re fine
Keep applying and change up ur resume. Get connections through volunteering. U will eventually get something
Have you thought of trying the school system? It’s not the best but they are generally hiring for subs or other positions. The problem is that it is now summer and most schools are out.
As for you not going to the interview, don’t be too hard on yourself. Give yourself some grace. You are struggling and it’s very understandable. That said, don’t give up. The right job is out there. Best of luck to you.
Have you tried temp agencies?
My friend got a pharmacy tech job at a Walmart.. they trained her and she got her certificate there. The base pay was super basic at first, cashier pay, but as soon as she got certified it jumped up. Also start looking at work where you do qualify, but didn’t necessarily work in before. State/county jobs where they won’t be asking for certifications, but looking at what skills you have.
I’m going through same but I worked in almost every type of job we have I just lost and feel guilty cuz if I go I know I got the job I don’t know what’s going on with me
I actually understand your situation and reaction. The stopping at McD and waiting because… you just couldn’t…
You’re human, you were at your limit. Sometimes you have to protect your mental self.
Don’t feel bad. I’ve cancelled interviews before too because I couldn’t sleep the night before, or if something didn’t feel right about the potential employer (I’ve definitely learned to trust my gut/intuition more, even if people disagree). I’ve been unemployed for a while too, and recently finally landed a role I thought would be great with a very short commute. Turns out the work environment was very negative and I left after only 2 weeks. I felt guilty for leaving like that, and because I had been unemployed for so long. But I had to remember that employment is a two-way street. Mental health is vitally important. I discovered with that job that no one likes it and they can’t keep it filled. Of course I wasn’t told that during the job interview. I’m going back to restaurant work: I’ll be making the same if not more, working less hours and not having to be there at the crack of dawn. And honestly I could care less if people think that restaurant work is lowly or something. You do you!
Definitely not something you wanna hear but I think you may have depression/going through a depressive episode—and I completely understand why and I am empathic towards you. Just know it’s not just you, and it’s not even just your situation that’s putting you here. It’s a little bit just the job market in general everyone seems to be struggling. At this point gotta do something random
Apply for SNAP (food) benefits. There is no shame. You are trying hard. And forgive yourself for not going to the interview. You were tired, stressed, and hungry. I know this may sound cheesy, but believe in yourself. Try not to downplay your experience in your head, and know that you will be a great asset at some company.
In a similar position as you at the moment and I completely understand. It’s a very demeaning process constantly applying for jobs and interviewing. I hope things will improve for you soon, remember it is okay to look after yourself.