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Hey there! 🌟 It sounds like you’re in a tough spot right now, feeling stuck between wanting to escape a toxic environment but also dreading the idea of a traditional job. I can understand how overwhelming that must feel. Here are a few thoughts and suggestions that might help you navigate this challenging situation:
– Consider exploring alternative career paths that align more with your interests and values. Have you thought about freelancing, starting your own business, or pursuing a creative passion as a source of income? Sometimes thinking outside the box can lead to unexpected opportunities!
– Connect with like-minded individuals who share your feelings about work and life. Surrounding yourself with a supportive community can provide the encouragement and inspiration you need to make positive changes.
– Seek out counseling or therapy to work through your feelings of unhappiness and uncertainty. Talking to a professional can help you gain clarity and develop coping strategies to improve your mental well-being.
– Take small steps towards creating the life you want, even if it feels daunting at first. Setting achievable goals and breaking them down into manageable tasks can help you build momentum and regain a sense of control.
Remember, it’s okay to feel lost and confused sometimes. You’re not alone in these struggles, and there are resources and people out there who can support you on your journey. Stay hopeful, stay open to new possibilities, and most importantly, be kind to yourself as you navigate this challenging time. 💕✨
Sending you lots of positive vibes and strength as you figure out your next steps. You’ve got this! 💪🏼💖
I feel you. I also grew up in a toxic family.
Question — are they still willing to financially support you? If you decided to go to school? You don’t pay rent right now because you live with them? How is your financial situation right now?
I would take advantage of as much as you can while you still have “support”, if possible. Or are your parents not supporting you at all?
Try a trade like pottery, carpentry or something. Or farm work with animals. Or nursing or become a vlogger. Or work at your local library. Maybe become a librarian or a teacher or a researcher
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I suggest you start doing some job. Any work that can get you out of house and talk to some people. I don’t say this to invaild your feeling. It’s just if you stay inside and have no one to talk to, it is bad for your mental health. Just go out and find any job with the goal of meeting some new people and learning some new things. I know how it feels. You still have to take care of yourself.
Not sure if this is possible in your location, but would it be possible to find seasonal work, perhaps overtime for a short period, and then with that small savings, relocate to a cheap/free camping spot? Or get a passport and backpack?
Personally, I have found some work doing forestry and pruning fruit trees. I enjoy the time outside, and I don’t work year round.
Oh, and see if you can find a band/gigs for playing music, or even play near markets and see if people walking by offer any coins. It may not be sustainable, but could be worth trying.
You’re not alone in feeling this way. Millions around the world , young and old, have come to the same realisation. Some find their way out while others live lives of quiet desperation.
Practice lots of yogasanas everyday. You’ll feel better physically and mentally. Join an ashram for 1-2 years to get some perspective and space to breathe.
I said it before and dont get me wrong, you can tell me no and it’s fine but. Military.
Join a job that has a physical trade of your interest, electrician, plumbing, etc. Do 3 years and get out honorably.
You will be taken care of for those 3 years. You’ll have experience in said trade for money if you ever have tp fall back on something. If you want to just say fuck it I want to go to college again, the GI bill pays you to go to college. You also get a lot of benefits and a golden ticket in job interviews since companies love people who served.
Again, you can tell me to fuck off but in my experience growing up in a broken home the military took me away and made my life 10x less stressful. I can answer questions if you have any.