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### How Can You Stop Comparing Yourself to Other Women?
#### 1. Recognize Your Triggers
– Identify situations or people that fuel comparison
– Practice self-awareness and mindfulness to catch comparison thoughts
#### 2. Shift Your Focus
– Celebrate your own achievements and strengths
– Limit social media usage to avoid comparison triggers
#### 3. Cultivate Gratitude
– Keep a gratitude journal to focus on what you have
– Appreciate your uniqueness and individual journey
#### 4. Practice Self-Compassion
– Be kind to yourself during moments of comparison
– Treat yourself as you would a supportive friend
#### 5. Set Realistic Goals
– Focus on personal growth and progress, not perfection
– Compare yourself to your past self, not others
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Hard to say, but I think try to focus on your interests or dreams and go for it. Find role models but be inspired by them instead of comparing yourself to them.
I stopped comparing myself to other women by focusing on self-love and acceptance. I realized that every woman is unique and has her own journey, strengths, and challenges. Instead of comparing myself to others, I started appreciating my own qualities and accomplishments. I also surrounded myself with supportive friends and role models who encouraged me to embrace my individuality. Practicing gratitude and mindfulness helped me stay grounded and appreciative of my own path in life.
Deleted my socials for a year, travelled solo to find myself and went through therapy to find the root issue of this.
I recognised that we are all coming from different starting points. Some people come from comfortable, stable and supportive backgrounds, others have not. You never truly know anyone’s circumstances so if someone is reaching their goals, I’m happy for them, if someone is struggling I send them positive vibes. I recognise my life trajectory is not the same as theirs – I’m no better or worse, just different.
By getting older and just don’t give a f anymore
Comparison is the thief of joy. I like feeling joy.
But seriously, any time I found myself starting to do it, I’d spend some time interrogating why I was really doing it. Like what am I actually insecure about and why? It’s easier to work with when I can actually give myself answers.
I haven’t
i think realizing how fickle and short life is, knowing that this is what god blessed you with
practicing graditude pray more, find god lol get closer to your faith
count your blessings, shut off social media, live outside touch grass live a real life outside of your phone
spend more time with yourself
Crushing on women > being jealous of women. I used my sexuality to my advantage
i told myself i am other women to other women
seeing women as friends, as sisters, cooperating with them, letting myself be inspired by them and what they are able to achieve in life. women are amazing, beautiful, strong and a whole lot more. the beauty or skill of one does not take any of those from myself away.
When I realized the women loudest about their “success” were the most insecure or fraudulent about said “succes”.
Also, in terms of looks, so many of these beautiful women are so obsessed with how they look to the point where it almost becomes their entire self worth. Good lord the stress they deal with all the damn time.
Just be a good person. Pay your taxes. Be kind. Feed strays.
repeating “their win is not my loss” to myself over and over and over
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I started appreciating myself more and started respecting every other women with as much love as I would give myself.
Started looking for ways of celebrating other women and being happy seeing them looking good and doing well. It feels good to look for ways to uplift others and be happy for them! And makes me feel good about myself in turn 🙂
By appreciating them. I’ve been fortunate enough to meet many amazing girls and I try to be like them instead of comparing myself to them and finding shortcomings
Realize we are all different. Women compare them selves to you too. All humans compare themselves to others, men, women and children. Instead of feeling negative about it, appreciate that person, they are unique and so are you. I’m so glad I am not just like the women I admire, our differences in body and mind and life situations make us all that more interesting to learn about and talk to!
Still struggling with this. But it’s helped to remember that most things from influencers you see online is fake in some way. Whether it be photoshop, plastic surgery, Facetune, fake getaways, etc. They do this because they’re insecure. I am also insecure in many ways. So we’re the same 🤷🏻♀️ their lives aren’t perfect like they want it to appear, I hate that it makes me feel better but it does.
As far as women you see in person, it’s tough. Working on my own self esteem has helped which I know is the root of my comparison. But I’m still struggling with it a lot.
Get tf off social media. Seriously. It’s not real
Because I realized we’re incomparable. We all come from totally different backgrounds and experiences, to compare that is not really applicable.
Plus, what’s the point of comparison? Really?
If anything, I feel bad for a lot of them, especially those who obsess so much over their looks. Like girl you’re beautiful you don’t need Botox, nose job, bigger titty size, just love yourself as you are because you’re one of a kind 🙁
You don’t. You learn to live with it and respect others.
By realizing that comparison is truly the thief of joy. We are all doing this life thing for the first time, and are ALL trying to figure it out the best way we can with what we’ve got.
I don’t think that I have consciously compared myself with another woman. Even as a teenager, I didn’t see the point. I had bigger fish to fry then and I am too old to care about competing with another physical being. I’ve never been competitive, so if someone was trying to compare lives and compete against me to be better then me, I’m not going to notice or care. It will be someone else who notices and tells me about and I’ll just be like, “Okay.”, and keep living in my own bubble.
By actively comparing myself to past-me, it became so much easier to not consciously or unconsciously compare myself to others when I understood that my goal is to level up from where I was and not from “who I’m not”.
I realizied that i simply cannot ever be and other woman nor can they ever be. So there is no point in longing and fixating the things that are genetically/physically unchanged unattainable- eye color, skin, bone structure, height, family dynamics etc. Rather than living in self pity, I shift that jealousy to *admiration* which I channel into motivation for improve the things i *can* control- physical health, financial success, mental stability, confidence, dressing sharp, creating/maintaining good relationships, etc. Finding the beauty in the fact that it is a *good* thing that you are not like other people and visa versa has been very important in realizing the ways that the unique qualities about you are just as beautiful as the unique qualities you see in someone else. Think about how much *more* jealous you would feel of you had to mold yourself into some prototype of a person that was an exact version of you but better. There is no comparison to others because of the beauty found in the fact that every woman is so unique and different from each other. Acceptance truly builds self love and confidence, envy not only hurts yourself but also others.